INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1824, 'How to Increase Your Power and Manhood 10X Today', 'how-to-increase-your-power-and-manhood-10x-today', 0, '2022-12-15 23:06:51', '2022-12-15 23:06:51', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">How to Increase Your Power and Manhood 10X Today</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Luigi Carucci\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Luigi_Carucci/1571327\" rel=\"author\">Luigi Carucci</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On June 28, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Luigi Carucci\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Luigi-Carucci_1176292.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Luigi Carucci\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So much of the work you need to do to attract the girl of your dreams, to make lots of money, or to become a better version of yourself in general, has to do with what is going on inside you. It is about your thoughts, feelings, and the images you hold in your mind.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">But what is going on outside you is just as important. If you want to be a powerful, and sexy, alpha male you need to be aware of the impact the environment is having on you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For our purposes, the environment is all you see and hear on a regular basis. This includes the \"real world\" and the \"virtual world\".</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Your home, workplace, and the people you spend time with, are some examples of the \"real world\" environment. TV, movies, books, magazines, and social media are some examples of \"virtual world\" environment.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You need to be mindful of the impact the environment is having on you. What types of messages are you receiving from it? Your thoughts and feelings, and as a result the actions you take, will fall in line with those messages.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you want to attract hotter women, to make more money, or improve your health, make an effort to spend time on environments that promote that outcome. Choose carefully what you will and will not tolerate in your world.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Avoid negative environments and those you have no direct and meaningful influence over.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Now, we have established the influence the environment has on your life, but how do you use this knowledge to increase your power and manhood 10 times today?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>We are going to focus on one thing: social media.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In the modern world nothing impacts your thoughts and feelings as much as social media. If you think about it, you will realize that most of the messages you receive from it are negative. They drag you down.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Social media platforms are prone to negativity. In a world filled with noise and garbage only the most outrageous messages get noticed at all.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">To manipulate you effectively they need to make you fearful, angry, or depressed. For example, Facebook has bragged that they can make people sad at will.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Yes, there are good things about social media also, but they are outweighed by the negativity.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Think about it. When was the last time you took action because a positive message posted on Facebook? Once? Maybe twice?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Now, think. How many times have you felt depressed because everyone displays his or her perfect life online? Do you think everyone has a perfect life but you? Do you constantly compare yourself to others?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Are you addicted to likes? A powerful alpha male doesn\'t care what others think about him.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Limit the amount of time you spend on social media platforms, or better yet delete your accounts, and your life will change.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When you stop comparing yourself to others your self-esteem will improve, you will feel less anxious, and you will be more present. All of this will show on your boy language, and in the way others, especially women react to you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As Mark Twain said \"When you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect\". Just because everyone is on Facebook or Twitter doesn\'t mean you need to do the same. Do you want to be like everyone else?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There is a good reason those geniuses on Silicon Valley don\'t let their children use the tools they create for the masses.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Do you want to become the man hot women dream about? Then go to [http://www.alphamaleworld.com] this will change your life forever.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Luigi_Carucci/1571327\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Luigi_Carucci/1571327</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1825, 'Five Fun Things to Do in Kemah For Couples', 'five-fun-things-to-do-in-kemah-for-couples', 0, '2022-12-15 23:07:50', '2022-12-15 23:07:50', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Five Fun Things to Do in Kemah For Couples</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Morris Raymond\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Morris_Raymond/2323165\" rel=\"author\">Morris Raymond</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On June 25, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Morris Raymond\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Morris-Raymond_2184160.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Morris Raymond\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Getting together with your special someone is something we probably don\'t do as often as we should, which is why the notion of designating a \"date night\" has become such a big deal lately. Unfortunately, date night activities can get a little stale, which means that if you are ready to up your game, you might consider checking out all of the fun things to do in Kemah.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Wait. You mean actually taking a trip for a date night? Well, not necessarily, but date night can be so much more. Why not make it a weekend getaway? Now, heading down to Kemah doesn\'t seem all that crazy, does it?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Kemah is a Texas city that is part of a collective area of southeast Texas called Bay Area Houston. Because of its geographic location, the entirety of Bay Area Houston tends to deeply rooted in its proximity to the Texas Gulf Coast. Moreover, Kemah has really made a name for itself as a premier location, something its own tourism slogan champions: \"<em>Kemah</em>. Houston\'s Favorite&nbsp;<em>Bay</em>ground.\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So, let\'s say you and your sweetheart make the trip. What exactly make Kemah so great for couples? Here\'s a small taste of what this Texas city has to offer:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Kemah Boardwalk</strong>&nbsp;- The Kemah Boardwalk is the place to go because there is fun for everyone. It\'s like an old-fashioned date with a modern update. Your only twenty miles from downtown Houston, so you\'re not in the boonies. The Kemah Boardwalk has great restaurants, retail stores, and it actually hosts a number of events everyday. It\'s a date night one-stop shop.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Space Center Houston</strong>&nbsp;- Notice there\'s been no mention of a first date, which means you &amp; your significant other know each other fairly well. This probably means that you\'ve got some things in common, and if you\'re a space junky, you have to visit Space Center Houston. It\'s the Official Visitor Center of NASA Johnson Space Center, everything you\'ll find in the massive complex helps bring you up close to the American human space flight program.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Clear Creek Vineyards</strong>&nbsp;- Established a little over a decade ago, Clear Creek Vineyards has been making some standout Texas wine. Why not class up your date with a tour and a wine tasting?Be sure to ask about Clear Creek\'s picnic lunch option, as well as cheese boards for light snacking. Also, check their website\'s upcoming events to visit during their annual Grape Stomp.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Art of Coffee</strong>&nbsp;- This local coffee shop has been earning a reputation for good coffee and great food since it opened. It also serves as an art gallery for local artists. And just in case you both like a piece of art &amp; want to commemorate your fun time together, all of the art is for sale. Art of Coffee is also big on keeping things local. Their coffee is from a local brewery in Houston, and their tea is from a company located in Kemah.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Friday Night Fireworks</strong>&nbsp;- Technically, this could fall under the Boardwalk, but it certainly can stand on its own. Nothing is more romantic than a night under the stars, right? In fact, the only thing even more romantic is holding each other close while watching a fireworks show. The skies above Bay Area Houston are lit up on Friday nights in June &amp; July.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As you can see, you\'re never at a loss for finding fun things to do in Kemah. The hard part is deciding what you\'d like to do first!</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"http://www.visitbayareahouston.com/businesses/top-attractions\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Click here</a>&nbsp;for more fun things to do in Kemah.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Morris_Raymond/2323165\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Morris_Raymond/2323165</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1826, 'Why Bother Dating in Your 50\'s?', 'why-bother-dating-in-your-50-s', 0, '2022-12-15 23:08:10', '2022-12-15 23:08:10', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Why Bother Dating in Your 50\'s?</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Susan Leigh\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Susan_Leigh/399535\" rel=\"author\">Susan Leigh</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On June 22, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Susan Leigh\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Susan-Leigh_394131.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Susan Leigh\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Some people might ask, why bother dating when you\'re in your 50\'s? You may already have a full and busy life with children or grandchildren absorbing much of your time, money and energy. Every day may be spent helping them out with their many and varied requirements. Or you may have ageing parents who are seriously invested in your life, making demands and in need of regular support to ensure that they\'re okay.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You may be comfortably settled after years of accommodating others, your children, your ex, your job and the associated socialising, joining groups and societies which were a requirement of that way of life. Now you\'re in a new phase of life; surely it\'s far too much hassle to introduce a dating element. Why bother dating now?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- For some, the breakdown of their marriage may mean a return to their parental home and its associated support, if only in the short-term. Going to live with parents can, in part, feel like a backwards step. Starting to date again and bringing a new \'friend\' home can seem disrespectful and wrong, totally out of the question. Even the thought of it can bring up all sorts of issues for everyone involved, especially at the start of a relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- Many people in their 50\'s find themselves sandwiched between their children and parents, trying to accommodate their needs at both ends of the spectrum. Being relied on as the primary carer for a fragile, infirm or ailing parent may well be a dampener to a new relationship, potentially limiting your ability to stay out overnight or book a weekend away. Being a carer doesn\'t lend itself very well to nights of passion in the next bedroom along the corridor either! Neither does having to fit in childcare and baby-sitting duties.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- Many people admit to being set in their ways as they get older. They know what they like and don\'t like and will often be reluctant to tolerate an uncomfortable situation or compromise too much. It\'s often good though to push our boundaries a little and try something new. It helps keep us flexible in our thinking and approach to life. Being empathic, able to appreciate another point of view is often what maintains our youthful engagement in life.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- Dating keeps us relevant and up-to-date. We have to look after ourselves, perhaps keep our appearance modern and be interesting. Visiting a fashion show and gaining new ideas and enthusiasm or sitting in the shopping mall over coffee, watching how passers-by dress and accessorise themselves can help. Book a makeup session in your department store or go to another hair salon or barbers and get restyled by a different pair of eyes.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- Keeping up to date also means being aware of the news, popular culture, what\'s happening around and about. Dating again inspires us to keep our conversational skills topical and relevant, so maybe watch the TV show that everyone\'s talking about, be interesting and interested in what people have to say. Be prepared to make the effort.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- Feeling ready to date again can galvinise us into action and so explore things we\'re already interested in. If we want to meet someone with similar tastes then it\'s good to go to places where they\'re likely to be. We may not be desperate to date but it can be fun to join a walking, dance or music group, enrol in a pottery, painting or language class or join a book club. That way you\'ll widen your social circle, have a regular appointment to keep and possibly meet potential new love interests. Remain disciplined about looking nice and making an effort. It prevents apathy and inertia from settling in.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- Dating when you\'re over 50 may mean trusting your friends if they suggest someone they think could be a good match. They know you well, know your tastes and idiosyncracies. They may have someone in mind who is a perfect fit for you. Go along, practice flirting and refresh your conversational skills. You may be a little rusty if you\'ve been out of circulation for a while.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- Whilst we don\'t want to lower our standards too much when dating in our 50\'s it\'s also important not to be too fixed, inflexible and judgmental. Remember, you\'re not as young as you were either, are perhaps less fit, unlikely to be as slim and stunning as you were in your 20\'s.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Finding someone who respects us, cares for us, makes us laugh and wants to be with us is a very attractive proposition at any age and is a good reason to keep on dating into our 50\'s. By now we know what we will and won\'t accept as treatment, are confident enough to ask for what we want. Date and enjoy a relationship that adds value to your life.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Susan Leigh, counsellor, hypnotherapist, relationship counsellor, writer &amp; media contributor offers help with relationship issues, stress management, assertiveness and confidence. She works with individual clients, couples and provides corporate workshops and support.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">She\'s author of 3 books, \'Dealing with Stress, Managing its Impact\', \'101 Days of Inspiration #tipoftheday\' and \'Dealing with Death, Coping with the Pain\', all on Amazon &amp; with easy to read sections, tips and ideas to help you feel more positive about your life.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">To order a copy or for more information, help and free articles visit&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"http://www.lifestyletherapy.net/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">http://www.lifestyletherapy.net</a></p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Susan_Leigh/399535\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Susan_Leigh/399535</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1827, 'The One Thing About Women Men Value More Than Good Looks', 'the-one-thing-about-women-men-value-more-than-good-looks', 0, '2022-12-15 23:08:31', '2022-12-15 23:08:31', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">The One Thing About Women Men Value More Than Good Looks</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Josh Manuel\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Josh_Manuel/1620915\" rel=\"author\">Josh Manuel</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On June 17, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Yes, men are attracted to looks... we see a good-looking woman and we feel an instant attraction to her beauty.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">But when it really comes down to it, however, we really feel a strong attraction towards other things other than good looks.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As dating expert Alex Carter has written in his book How to Make Him Desire You,&nbsp;<em>\"looks do matter to men, yes, but looks aren\'t the most important element when it comes to desire and attraction.\"</em></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So now, what exactly do we (men) see in a woman or a girl that&nbsp;<em>surpasses</em>&nbsp;good looks?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">How can a girl or a woman capture a man\'s heart or make a man feel a strong attraction for her?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Easy!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There\'s an essential quality that is traditionally attributed to women...<br />... when you exhibit or demonstrate this quality or attribute, you make yourself desirable... and any man will want, desire and need you, and will choose you over other women.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Now, what quality am I talking about here?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Well, the quality here is none other than&nbsp;<em>being a great cook</em>.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Not just being able to cook... but&nbsp;<em>being able to cook great and delicious meals</em>.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Great meals surpass good looks</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Cooking great meals is the most attractive talent any girl can possess that is hard for a guy to resist...<br />... and indeed, it surpasses good looks.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Have you heard the adage,&nbsp;<em>\"the way to a man\'s heart is through his stomach\"</em>?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Yes... you can easily capture a man\'s heart and make him fall head over heels for you with your cooking skills.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When you\'re able to cook great and delicious meals, you will automatically appear to be a hundred times more attractive to a man.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Not only do guys or men find good cooking attractive, but they see you as the ultimate dream girl they hope to marry someday.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Having the ability to cook great and delicious meals shows you\'re a marriage material.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Men see great cooking as an attractive feminine act</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Traditionally, a woman is the one who cooks food at home.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">And when you can demonstrate that you\'re a great cook, a guy sees it as an attractive feminine act and he will find you attractive and desirable.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Cooking delicious meals is how you get a man... and then keep him</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Now, a noteworthy fact is that, when the guy you\'re dating eats somewhere else and those foods are not as delicious as yours, it will make him think of you... and ultimately, see you as the ultimate dream girl he hopes to marry someday.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Even when he smells foods that are similar to what you\'ve cooked for him before, it will also make him think of you... and make him want, desire and need you more.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Good looks doesn\'t keep a man</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Yes, while men find good-looking women attractive, the fact is, looks wear off quickly if not complemented with other attractive attributes.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The truth is, a guy who falls in love with a girl or a woman just because the girl or the woman was good-looking will start getting wandering eyes after a while... and will start lusted after other more good-looking girls or women...<br />... this is especially true when the woman exhibits unattractive attributes, like being a horrible cook.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><em>\"When a man only wants to casually date or sleep around, he would usually select a woman based on her looks and looks alone. But, when it comes to selecting a potential mate, things change drastically. His concept of selection goes up several notches, and he becomes a lot more selective than normal. This is the exact phase when a woman\'s value is the primary factor he looks for, and everything else becomes almost secondary,\"</em>&nbsp;says dating expert Alex Carter, author of How to Make Him Desire You.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So if you\'re looking to land yourself a future partner or naturally attract a man, then hone your cooking skills... you will automatically appear to be a hundred times more attractive to a man.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Conclusion</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The beauty of cooking great and delicious meals is that any man who\'s looking for marriage or a life-partner will choose you over a woman who\'s very good-looking but doesn\'t possess the right cooking skill.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">A guy wouldn\'t care if you\'re not a hottie... he will desire you and will want you to be the girl he will marry someday.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Maybe at first, the man will be interested in women with certain physical features, but once he picks up on your attractive attribute, he will be naturally attracted to you... and will want, desire and need you.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Josh Manuel is not a relationship therapist... he\'s not a pick-up artist... but he brings you quality information on dating and relationships. He offers the best dating tips and relationship advice that will change your love life today. He shares his experiences with you in the hopes that it will help you improve your personal relationship with women. He also teaches stuff that has nothing to do with dating, but the sex aspect of relationship. You can find his blog at&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.guysandgurls.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://www.guysandgurls.com</a></p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Josh_Manuel/1620915\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Josh_Manuel/1620915</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1828, 'Discover How To Get Your Lovemaking Healthy', 'discover-how-to-get-your-lovemaking-healthy', 0, '2022-12-15 23:08:52', '2022-12-15 23:08:52', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Discover How To Get Your Lovemaking Healthy</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Jordan Michael\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Jordan_Michael/94782\" rel=\"author\">Jordan Michael</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On June 13, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=9958553&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">These guidelines must be understood for what they are: they are guidelines that you may notify to suit your special circumstance.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It must be without rules</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When rules are applied in lovemaking, they break the flow of the sexual energy tat flows between the two partners. Instead of melting in the act and responding spontaneously to the vibrations of your partner, you will be thinking of what part of the rules must be obeyed. Make it comfortable and spontaneous.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Make it a divine celebration</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It is the channel for your incarnation to this earth. Respect it, revere it, adore it and in its ecstasy, utter a sacred prayer to the Master creator with whom you are a co-creator. Prepare your room with whatever inspire divinity in you: the photograph of Jesus, Krishna or whoever your spiritual mentor may be.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Light a candle, light a stick of incense if these inspire further divinity in you. Hold hands and pray together, and give your lovemaking a divine intention or purpose. The power that can create human beings can create feast of celebration with angels and allow your ecstasies to out-sing the lark and the nightingale, ringing a cadence that will compel high heavens to attend to a planetary need.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Make it a journey discovery</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This is the never-ending journey in which you discover, each day, in your partner, something new. There is something wonderful happening in each one of us daily; the glory of God is transforming each one of us daily into the wonder of His own self.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Go beyond reason and rationalization</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Your mind is a machine perfect enough to handle calculus but not given to circumscribe God, discover Him or fully understand Him. We go beyond the mind to know God and we certainly go beyond the mind to experience the fullness of lovemaking. Leave memory behind and be in the present now with life\'s mystery of love. You are touching pleasure that is spiritual.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There must be techniques</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Sex becomes a demonstration when attention is concentrated on observing specific techniques. There is no need for rehearsals; after all, all you are not going to prove anything to anybody. Your only duty here is to give out joy and receive joy in return. You give out joy best when you first get pleasure from it and make yourself more vulnerable to more enjoyment. He greater the joy you allow yourself to have, the greater joy you instinctively and spontaneously give out to your partner. Assume spontaneous and comfortable positions.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When you allow yourself to enjoy the moment with a thirst and consumptive eagerness to receive more of it, varying your positions to give out more pleasure to your partner will be spontaneous. When you find a varied position painful, it could be that you have gone off the joy required, or that you have a sincere medical problem that makes it that painful.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Identify what you value in your partner</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As partners, we would not know each other thoroughly; being human, we keep on changing everyday. Our values also keep on changing. But as partners take time to recognize that which is beautiful, and acknowledge it to each other. Identify what God is making available for your use in the values revealed to you. Make each entry you give or receive discover something new and touch a wellspring of infinite beauty in your partner.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Use devices that sets your passion on fire</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You may use dim lights, music and perfume. The universe is a bundle of spiritual electro-magnetic waves or vibrations. The human body is a constant vibrating centre and so responds sympathetically or anti-pathetically to other forms of vibrations. The effects of light and its varying colours cannot be over-stressed. Other object on the psyche. Dim lights encourage concentration; they free you from constant distractions and have the effect of directing your attention to yourself.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">That is where you begin lovemaking - from within. Other coloured lights, blue or red, for example, have sensuous effects on your psyche and make you want to set passions on fire and, like rockets, fire them into space until they touch the ineffable. Use everything possible that is maximally safe to give you a leap.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Take time to discover your bodies</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Is your body not the temple of the living God? Take time to discover it. Do not hope to fully discover it in a lifetime. God has blessed it with infinite treasures. The Bible in revelation describes it as the casket with seven locks. You will be infinitely unlocking each other\'s body and discovering something new. Sex does not begin and end with penetration of the female organ by male organ. The whole of your life is sex and all of it must be enjoyed. Sex may begin and end without penetration of the woman by the male organ. It is a feast of enjoyment of each other\'s fullness, so take all the time available to you to enjoy every part of your bodies.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You may start from the head, toe or the stomach and may discover the beauty in her stretch marks - that wonder sign which indicates that life once came out of such holy lovemaking. Discover the beauty of the contours of his face or the ruggedness of his body and know how life is crying to be expressed in his body as free energy. As you do this, you will soon discover what an extraordinary being you have in your partner and you will be grateful to God for this gift of infinite divine pleasure.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Every Act Must Be The First Time</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">How dull, uneventful and tiring sex will be if it is a continuation or a repeat of the old! Surely it is not! If, in each lovemaking, no matter how often it is done in a day, you don\'t feel like it is the first time; if you don\'t feel the freshness of each mating, then you are in desperate need of rehabilitation and you have defile your souls. Have you wondered why a man may marry a woman with six children and will from the first day of the relationship not want another man, not even the woman\'s earlier husband, to see the nakedness of his woman?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It is because the woman is perpetually new; as a woman, you are a virgin everyday, a fresh rose whose fragrance is to be sucked in and enjoyed. Have you wondered why you will not take it for granted and show your nakedness to your former boyfriend? It is because you are new; not the same girl he had yesterday. Like a running river, your position always changes and man may not step in the same bit of water twice. You bath in fresh water daily, so enjoy your partner\'s sublime freshness as though it is the first time.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Jordan Michael Writes on a variety of topics and recommends&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://sexrelationshipterrain.blogspot.com//\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">sexrelationshipterrain</a></p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Jordan_Michael/94782\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Jordan_Michael/94782</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1829, 'How to Find Your Soul Mate - Stop Looking (5 Tips for Women)', 'how-to-find-your-soul-mate-stop-looking-5-tips-for-women', 0, '2022-12-15 23:09:12', '2022-12-15 23:09:12', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">How to Find Your Soul Mate - Stop Looking (5 Tips for Women)</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Stephanie Harbin\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stephanie_Harbin/77858\" rel=\"author\">Stephanie Harbin</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On June 12, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=9956545&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As previously stated, women are supposed to be pursued (men are hunters by nature). So, stop trying to find a soul mate; you\'re violating the established protocol. For that reason, this article recommends five strategic moves. In addition to obtaining the desires of your heart, they\'ll help you avoid heartache, stress, and sleepless nights.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>5 Tips</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ul style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Seek wisdom.</strong></li>\r\n</ul>\r\nSince all good things come from above prayer seems like the first sensible step. Discuss your desires with the Creator- not your friends, co-workers, or family. During the conversation, don\'t forget to listen! You\'ll gain the inside track. Unlike the others, he knows what\'s up ahead as well as the master plan for your life. It\'s already in motion.\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ul style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Re-Position Yourself.</strong></li>\r\n</ul>\r\nInstead of going on a hunting expedition, think about repositioning yourself. Now God is the master strategist and can maneuver like no other. Still, being in the right place doesn\'t hurt. What places do you frequent? Are they appropriate? I, for example, know when I don\'t fit. It creates an uncomfortable feeling. What is more, are you hiding like a hermit? Making yourself scarce will cause you to miss the divine connection.\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ul style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Scrutinize every encounter.</strong></li>\r\n</ul>\r\nDid you notice that Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz stuck to her mission while traveling down the yellow brick road? She encountered three different men - the lion, the scarecrow, and the tin man. Each male needed something. Guess what? Dorothy assessed their situations, she encouraged, she provided assistance but remembered the goal. All in all, Dorothy returned to Kansas.\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Similarly, we encounter different men on this journey called life. They need encouragement, insight, or just someone to listen. It\'s okay to help; God created women to nurture. However, avoid giving more of yourself than necessary. Dorothy knew what to give and what to withhold. Do you?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Consequently, choosing the wrong road gives rise to confusion and delays. So, complete the assignment then return to the mission. You can\'t afford to muddy the water. The stakes are too high.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ul style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Be anxious for nothing.</strong></li>\r\n</ul>\r\nDesperation equates to anxiousness, and my Bible says to be anxious for nothing. Worry along with doubt make you crazy. You start thinking and believing the wrong stuff. \"I\'m too old. Time is running out.\"\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">At length, you decide to take matters into your own hands. Instead of making progress, nevertheless, you end up going five steps backward. A word to the wise is sufficient. Desperation is a dangerous perfume to wear. Aside from giving the wrong scent, it doesn\'t become you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ul style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Grow your faith.</strong></li>\r\n</ul>\r\nSimply put, this tip is crucial. Why? Growing your faith impacts every aspect of your life - not just receiving a soul mate. Faith goes the distance. Likewise, you must commit to go the distance. Since faith comes by hearing and hearing, saturating yourself in the word is essential.\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Are you ready to build your faith muscles? Begin exercising daily by listening to the Word, studying, reading, meditating, speaking accordingly, and continuing to stand even when it seems like nothing\'s happening. That\'s why it\'s called faith. Prepare to stand.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Bonus Tip# You\'re invited to visit&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.everythingleadership.store/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://www.everythingleadership.store</a>&nbsp;to download your FREE Uncommon Faith Study Notes.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stephanie_Harbin/77858\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Stephanie_Harbin/77858</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1830, 'How to Find Your Soul Mate - Get Your House in Order (7 Tips for Women)', 'how-to-find-your-soul-mate-get-your-house-in-order-7-tips-for-women', 0, '2022-12-15 23:09:34', '2022-12-15 23:09:34', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">How to Find Your Soul Mate - Get Your House in Order (7 Tips for Women)</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Stephanie Harbin\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stephanie_Harbin/77858\" rel=\"author\">Stephanie Harbin</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On June 07, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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He doesn\'t send the supreme to a disorderly house. With that said, shift your focus. Instead of concentrating on finding a soul mate, concentrate on getting yourself prepared. By the way, as previously stated in another article, a woman doesn\'t find the man; he finds her. This article discusses seven things to consider as you work to get yourself in order.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>7 Tips</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>1. Know thyself.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Conduct a self-examination. Possessing a keen awareness of yourself is the first rule in any endeavor. With that said, what do you value? What do you respect in others? Where do you draw the line? What\'s your communication style? What strengths do you bring to a relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>2. Love yourself.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Next to knowing yourself is loving yourself. Otherwise, how can you expect someone else to love you? Love yourself with a man. Love yourself without a man. Most important, know that Jesus loves you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>3. Keep first things first.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">What takes precedence now? Some things are more important than others. A friend, for example, made raising her son the primary focus. As a single mother, she did not parade every Tom, Dick, or Harry in front of him or disrupt their home by moving someone in. Now after he went away to college, she let her hair down. Today, he is a well-adjusted, respectful and responsible man. If you\'re a single parent, what matters most?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Likewise, how\'s your financial health? Focus on eliminating debt and improving your credit. Your mate doesn\'t want to inherit a financial wreck.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Even if your family or finances are in tack, other things supersede finding a mate. Pause for a moment or two to assess your present state. Where are you in disarray?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>4. Discover your purpose</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In short, uncovering your purpose is a pressing matter. Whether you have a mate or not does not exempt you from fulfilling your call (vocation).</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>5. Pursue your dream(s).</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">After you uncover the mission, get moving. Your skills and talents are the missing pieces to someone\'s puzzle. Moreover, the right place is where your blessings flow.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>6. Unload the baggage.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Imagine travelling from place to place with your luggage. You add more items than you remove and before long it\'s difficult to carry. Aside from slowing you down, it\'s heavy and awkward.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Similarly, when you jump from relationship to relationship emotional baggage accumulates. Instead of taking time to regroup or allow the dust settle, you drag the junk in your trunk (anger, confusion, bitterness, etc.). Eventually, you unload it on the next person. Stop the madness!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>7. No stinking thinking.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As women, we\'ve been gifted with strong intuition. Yet, we proceed full steam ahead and ignore early warning signs; I\'m guilty too. At length, stinking thinking creeps in. Our track records, consequently, hold us hostage with negative views of men, relationships, and marriage. I call it stinking thinking, and it sours everything.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Therefore, change your mindset. Trust God to not only position you for your soul mate but to exceed your expectations. He doesn\'t make mistakes.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You\'re invited to visit&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.everythingleadership.store/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://www.everythingleadership.store</a>&nbsp;to download your FREE copy of 7 Proclamations for You to Make Every Day, 40 Self-Discovery Questions, and Uncommon Faith Study Notes.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stephanie_Harbin/77858\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Stephanie_Harbin/77858</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1831, 'How to Find Your Soul Mate - Change Your Words (3 Tips for Women)', 'how-to-find-your-soul-mate-change-your-words-3-tips-for-women', 0, '2022-12-15 23:11:39', '2022-12-15 23:11:39', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">How to Find Your Soul Mate - Change Your Words (3 Tips for Women)</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Stephanie Harbin\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stephanie_Harbin/77858\" rel=\"author\">Stephanie Harbin</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On June 07, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -44px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Linkedin\" /></a><a style=\"color: #a30006; width: 20px; height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Reddit\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=9954268&amp;site=reddit\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite reddit-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -22px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Reddit\" /></a><a style=\"color: #a30006; width: 20px; height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=9954268&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit (Proverbs 18:21). So, you have a choice as it relates to finding a soul mate; either speak what you want or speak what you don\'t want. In any event, you\'re going to have what you say. While the following tips are appropriate for males and females alike, this article targets women.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>3 Tips</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>1.&nbsp;</strong><strong>Stop speaking negative words.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Remember the saying, \"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me\"? Well, it\'s not true. Words kill, steal, and destroy. Unfortunately, your words have set some things in motion. As a result, you keep getting sour grapes.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Do you find yourself saying things like:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&middot; \"No one loves me.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&middot; Why doesn\'t anyone love me?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&middot; Nothing good comes my way.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&middot; I attract the wrong people.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&middot; I\'ll never get married.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&middot; Why would anyone want me?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&middot; Nobody likes me.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&middot; How did she land him?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&middot; What makes her so special?\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">These statements, however, convey doubt, envy, unbelief, and a lack of confidence. Additionally, when you say them repeatedly, the momentum builds creating a vacuum. Have you noticed how negative people suck the energy out of a room? Well, defeatist words suck the life out of any project.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Hence, start paying attention to your words. Make it a habit to stop expressing gloom about yourself, others, or what you want. If you must, wear a rubber band around your wrist. Pull it each time you think or talk like a pessimist.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>2.&nbsp;</strong><strong>Start speaking positive words.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">First and foremost, communicate with confidence. Nobody likes a loser or whiner. Besides you run the risk of driving a potential mate away. If you have low self-esteem, raise the bar. Today is a new beginning. Forget what was or hasn\'t been.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Still, articulating hopeful words will be harder for some than others. Therefore, I suggest reading self-help books. Listening to sermons or motivational speakers online will also empower you to make the shift.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Second, speak positive words about what you want. Most people have an easier time rattling off what they dislike. Do you know what you want? If your answer is no, stop the presses. Spend some quiet time reflecting. Then, make a list of your heart\'s desires. Take your list to the Father in prayer, believe you have it, and then use your words to reel it in.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>3.&nbsp;</strong><strong>When in doubt, don\'t speak.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Let\'s be real. No one said that life would be a bed of roses. Consequently, some days bristle with thorns. Moreover, when you\'re exhausted (mentally or physically) it\'s worse. On those days, refrain from making comments about your situation. You\'re more likely to talk despair.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Remember, words create! Your goal is to have what you want. If you speak negative words you will have what you say.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">All in all, the words you choose will either snare or support efforts to connect with your soul mate. So, use them wisely.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You\'re invited to visit&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.everythingleadership.store/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://www.everythingleadership.store</a>&nbsp;to download your FREE copy of 7 Proclamations for You to Make Every Day and Uncommon Faith Study Notes.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stephanie_Harbin/77858\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Stephanie_Harbin/77858</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1832, 'How to Know If a Girl Loves You', 'how-to-know-if-a-girl-loves-you', 0, '2022-12-15 23:12:08', '2022-12-15 23:12:08', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">How to Know If a Girl Loves You</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Aloyce Kessy\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Aloyce_Kessy/2545051\" rel=\"author\">Aloyce Kessy</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 03, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Aloyce Kessy\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Aloyce-Kessy_2397841.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Aloyce Kessy\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">How to know if a girl loves you? It\'s actually quite easy. You just have to know what the signs are. Women who are in love behave in a certain way. Once you know the right things to look for, you\'ll be amazed that you never noticed them before. In fact, you might look back and slap yourself on the forehead when you realize how many girls were in love with you before. Read on for the definitive guide on how to know if a girl loves you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Her Friends Know All About You</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When a girl loves you, her friends know all about you. In fact, she probably goes on and on about you more than they even want to hear about. Still, they\'re going to be happy for her that she\'s in love. They\'re also going to know all kinds of details about you, both things that are going on between you and the girl who is in love with you, as well as other personal details that no second-degree acquaintance would ever know. Examples include your favorite foods, stories about things that happened to you at work and basically anything else that a woman who is in love with you would notice and think is important, even if no one else did.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">She Chases After You</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The Art of Charm is all about teaching you how to get girls to chase after you. One way to get a girl to chase after you? Get her to fall in love. When a woman falls in love with a man, few things are going to keep her from getting what she wants. Women are very purpose-driven and resilient in this regard. If she\'s making it known that you\'re the man that she wants, both in word and in deed, it\'s a pretty clear method of how to know if a girl loves you. Women are generally not so forward in chasing after men that they aren\'t in love with.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">She Wants More of Your Time</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The Saturday night date isn\'t enough anymore. She wants more and more of your time. Maybe she wants to come by after work to make you dinner. Maybe she wants to meet for coffee during your lunch break. The specifics don\'t really matter. The point is this: If the girl is always looking for more and more of your time, this can be a sign that she\'s in love with you or on her way there. After all, if she were only casually interested, she wouldn\'t feel the need to go for more and more of your time.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">[http://www.debwax.com]</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Aloyce_Kessy/2545051\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Aloyce_Kessy/2545051</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1833, 'In The Absence Of Others', 'in-the-absence-of-others', 0, '2022-12-15 23:12:33', '2022-12-15 23:12:33', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">In The Absence Of Others</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Vance Larson\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Vance_Larson/1729477\" rel=\"author\">Vance Larson</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On June 03, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Vance Larson\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Vance-Larson_1614787.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Vance Larson\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I work with men and women who are fresh out of a relationship. Hurt, betrayed and feeling broken, some want revenge. Others jump right into distraction of dating multiple people in order not to deal with what they are feeling. Nobody wants to feel hurt. But it is that pain, that will often lead us to a more successful relationship in the future. When we neglect to examine our part in a failed {for lack if a better term} relationship, we bring those same behaviors to the next one. And what I see commonly is the pattern being repeated over and over again. So what do we do?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I am working with a very strong and independent woman at the moment. She is currently stuck in toxic behaviors that are sabotaging her relationship. Lack of boundaries, communication and intimacy, make for some very dark moments for her. I am a strong believer in taking time to develop who we are, in order to bring that authentic self to our relationships. How many change once they \"get the got\"? In other words, know who you are and be exactly that person from the first conversation you ever have in any dating scenario. I\'m not talking about putting all your cards on the table from the beginning. I am talking about being honest in your dealings and being true to yourself.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I can recall working with a couple who ended up in my office after 3 years of dating. The boyfriend was shocked to learn his girlfriend didn\'t like watching football with him on Sunday\'s. While it doesn\'t sound like a big deal, for the first 2 and a half years, that was their Sunday ritual. When all of a sudden said didn\'t want to do that anymore, he thought she didn\'t want to spend time with him. When we started to dive into the sudden change, she finally was able to disclose that she never liked football. In fact, she hated from day one. She admitted she was just trying to make him happy.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When we aren\'t our authentic self, we eventually implode. Think of how many Sunday\'s were wasted in the past 2 and a half years. While I applaud her willingness to compromise, she realized that this was not a compromise at all. When her authentic self finally couldn\'t take it anymore, she walked away. And while she had a sigh of relief, her boyfriend had no idea what he did wrong, and why she didn\'t want to spend the weekend with him anymore. With a little honest communication, they were able increase intimacy and compromise on Sunday activities. A quick fix to a long-standing problem.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">What would have happened if it went the other way. Let\'s say they broke up and she did not address this issue and speak up for herself in the next relationship. There\'s a good chance that I would see her again. But getting back to my current strong independent client when asked about taking some time for herself. She said she didn\'t know how to reflect about the issues she was having. I said it\'s not about reflecting. It\'s about discovering who you are in the absence of others. When we are comfortable with ourselves, we can be comfortable with others. Truly comfortable. It\'s one thing to compromise in a relationship. It is something completely different to compromise yourself.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Take time to find your voice. Learn how to use. Compromise is an integral part of every relationship. However, you cannot compromise if you haven\'t voiced your opinion. And you will never know your opinion, unless you know your authentic self.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\"></div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Vance_Larson/1729477\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Vance_Larson/1729477</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1834, '7 Tips on How to Be a Better Girlfriend - Learn How You Could Be a Better Girlfriend', '7-tips-on-how-to-be-a-better-girlfriend-learn-how-you-could-be-a-better-girlfriend', 0, '2022-12-15 23:13:21', '2022-12-15 23:13:21', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">7 Tips on How to Be a Better Girlfriend - Learn How You Could Be a Better Girlfriend</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Lexi Muller\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Lexi_Muller/2502226\" rel=\"author\">Lexi Muller</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On April 21, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=9927238&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Every once in a while a girl will meet a great guy - you know, one that ticks all the boxes. Smart, kind, educated, tall, financially responsible, resourceful, handsome, not forgetting a great personality to wrap up such an almost-perfect package. In such instances, it is natural to feel the pressure to \'step up\' your game and flair to be the best wife or girlfriend to this superb-out-of-this-world guy. Right?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Well, if this describes you - even remotely - here\'s how you can be a better girlfriend to your all-deserving partner.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>1. Help him Fix his Problems - Stop Trying to Fix him</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">We live in a day and age where its extremely rare to come across an individual who isn\'t grappling with one issue or another- be it personal, financial, emotional, physical or social. Such is the kind of technical world that we live in - one that is punctuated with a myriad of dicey scenarios and un-foldings. As you may know already, even the most seemingly loving, attentive and adorable of boyfriends/husbands will have a couple of faults sticking out like a sore thumb.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It could be a small bad habit that he\'s been unable to shake off or a long-time buddy that you don\'t necessarily find likable. We are only human. However, your maternal instincts imply that you\'re more inclined to want to \'fix\' him rather than aid a helping hand in solving his problems. Which, of course, explains why most men often complain of their nagging or ever-complaining better-halves.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Be different; men will naturally appreciate genuine support but rigidly resent any attempts - however sincere - to change him. Let him be, instead, focus on helping him improve the state of both of your lives.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>2. Compliment Him</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It\'s surprising how most women are oblivious to the fact that men love been complimented as much, if not as often, as we do. And this is especially true if he goes the extra mile to hit the gym, stay in top shape and complement this by dressing presentably. So, don\'t shy away from telling him occasionally of how dashing he looks with that tuxedo on. Or how sexy his biceps look as he steps out of the shower. Even better, nothing is as more attractive as a woman who can spot beyond the obvious physical - such as his intelligence or kindheartedness.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>3. Subtlety Show Him Love in Public - Catch Him Unawares too!</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Although men are not naturally emotional beings, this does not necessarily imply that they don\'t appreciate occasional subtle romantic gestures every once-in-a-while. It can be as simple as a naughty thigh graze to as open as a midstroll kiss. Either way, you pleasantly surprised at the beam of happiness that lights up his face when he knows that you\'re thinking about some of the most intimate moments that you two privately share even in public.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>4. Trust him - or At least Try not to Act so Suspicious</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Well, in as much as we as women are naturally jealous beings, it pays to exercise some restraint and give the man some credit. Truth be told, men are instinctively wired to hate insecure and suspicious wives or girlfriends.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You have to train your mind how to trust him; in fact, if you cannot trust the man, then you\'re not with the right person, to begin with. So, instead of rummaging through his phone or constantly questioning his whereabouts, it would do more harm than good to have some faith in what you share together, for starters.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>5. Your Relationship Shouldn\'t be the Focus of your Life</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As a modern woman, it is helpful and even healthy to have a life apart from your romantic relationship. In any case, if you didn\'t know this is actually what attracted him to you in the first place. Therefore, don\'t be the damsel that fall head over heels in love with a man and loses her social, professional or religious circle. Simply put, maintain your usual focus.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Have a side hustle/hobby/pastime to occupy yourself regularly. Also, don\'t forget or cast away your immediate friends/family that you originally had before you met him. Above all, expand your knowledge base by learning new things on a daily basis. This is primarily what makes a woman irresistible.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>6. Honesty and Faithfulness Pays</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Nothing will wreck any relationship - regardless of how seriously it is - faster than infidelity or traits ( tell-tale signs ) of infidelity. Speaking of which, reserving sex for him is not enough. Go a step further and make it succinctly clear to all your close friends or colleagues (especially your male pals) that you\'re in a serious romantic relationship with so-and-so.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This is a necessary red-tape measure to avoid situations/gestures from your closest circle that could be misconstrued for unfaithfulness by your boyfriend. What\'s more, if he feels that he can trust you with his life, then there\'s no stopping him from giving the world to you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>7. Shower Him with Gifts Every Once in a While</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Just like compliments, women at times tend to forget that men also secretly love surprises, gifts, and romantic getaways. It doesn\'t have to be a daily affair - you can limit these to some of his special days such as his birthday or significant holiday seasons such as Xmas and New Year. All in all, an impromptu gift - can be as plain as a pair of shoes or nice belt - out of the blues is guaranteed to work wonders in improving the positive outlook of your relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>In Closing:</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Finally, adding to the above gem points, another way of being a better girlfriend is giving your man space and time to hang out with his buddies. The boys, as they are fondly referred to - is the last line of defense between your lover and any unfortunate emotional or physical occurrence that may accost him. What\'s more, men are like wolves. They roam in packs and always enjoy a good time cheering their favorite soccer or rugby teams.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Read More about Getting Better Girlfriend:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.helpwithmen.com/how-to-be-a-better-girlfriend/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://www.helpwithmen.com/how-to-be-a-better-girlfriend/</a></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">How To Build Trust in Relationship:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.helpwithmen.com/how-to-build-trust-in-a-relationship/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://www.helpwithmen.com/how-to-build-trust-in-a-relationship/</a></p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Lexi_Muller/2502226\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Lexi_Muller/2502226</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1835, 'Forget Netflix - See These Date Night Movies On The Big Screen', 'forget-netflix-see-these-date-night-movies-on-the-big-screen', 0, '2022-12-15 23:14:01', '2022-12-15 23:14:01', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Forget Netflix - See These Date Night Movies On The Big Screen</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Morris Raymond\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Morris_Raymond/2323165\" rel=\"author\">Morris Raymond</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 24, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Morris Raymond\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Morris-Raymond_2184160.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Morris Raymond\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In this day and age, it can be quite easy to rely on the progress of technology to get you what you want when you want it, all without having to leave the comfort of your home. Unfortunately, even something as cool &amp; exciting as the date night movie has fallen victim to this inherently lazy way of living life.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">A date night, along with a date night movie, are made to actually get you to do something more than just sit at home and stream something you can kind of watch. It also gave you a chance to spend some time with someone special, grab a bite to eat, take a walk along the beach, anything really. Instead, we \"veg\" at home and use game console controllers to navigate the menus of our subscription-based programming. While you might contend that live doesn\'t get much sweeter, the truth is that it does, and you are missing out on a lot.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So, take a second and look back at your last few date night movie adventures. Have they actually been spent out in the world, or did you both decide to stay home &amp; hang? If it\'s the latter, these movies might just be what you need to get you to your local movie theater for your next date night:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong><em>Solo: A Star Wars Story</em></strong>&nbsp;- Anyone who has seen the Star Wars movies knows that the most suave character of all was Han Solo. He was charming, sexy, cool, and he had his own space craft. No matter which way you looked at it, he was who we all wanted to be (no disrespect to Luke, of course). In this new movie, we get a chance to learn more about how Han became the maverick we\'ve grown to love, as well as how he got to know the people he knew.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong><em>Breaking In</em></strong>&nbsp;- This one is intense. If ever there was a relationship you didn\'t mess with, it is that of a mother and her children. Here, our hero mom is going to stop at nothing while trying to save her children as they are held hostage by a group of nefarious figures. This is an action movie for the sake of being full of action sequences.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong><em>Incredibles 2</em></strong>&nbsp;- It\'s been almost fifteen years since the release of the first movie, so fans have been anticipating this one for a long time. This film tackles the changing dynamic of the modern American home, as well as societal views on those who are different. There\'s even some cleverly woven interplay about people change as parents. There\'s a lot packed into this one &amp; it appeals to all ages.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Make your next date night movie special by actually ditching the streaming &amp; go paint the town red! Even if the movie might not have been to your liking, make that part of the fun. Grab a cup of coffee afterward &amp; discuss it. Who knows? You might learn a little more about yourselves than you thought. The important thing to keep in mind is making your next date night more than just an appointment - make it special.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Visit&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.flixbrewhouse.com/des-moines\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Flix Brewhouse in Des Moines, IA</a>&nbsp;for the perfect date night movie.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Morris_Raymond/2323165\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Morris_Raymond/2323165</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1836, '13 Things You Need to Know Before Dating', '13-things-you-need-to-know-before-dating', 0, '2022-12-15 23:15:49', '2022-12-15 23:15:49', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">13 Things You Need to Know Before Dating</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Randell Stroud\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Randell_Stroud/2516476\" rel=\"author\">Randell Stroud</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 16, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Randell Stroud\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Randell-Stroud_2370226.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Randell Stroud\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Long gone are the 1950\'s era of romance. Boy likes girl. Boy gives girl flowers. Boy meets the parents. Girl meets his parents. They get married happily ever after. Nowadays, dating is much more complicated. Careers, finance, mixed families through divorce, social media, internet, etc.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">While the dynamics of dating have changed in many ways thanks to feminism and social media, you would be surprised at how little some things haven\'t changed in terms of what men and women are looking for in a partner. While it is now common for women to work outside of the home and cheating is more rampant than ever thanks to technological advances in communication, men and women are still attracted to many of the same qualities they were 60 years ago.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">From personal experience and through surveying hundreds of men and women, I have discovered some very inconvenient truths about the hearts of men and women.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">1. Men and women are rarely \"just friends\": That\'s right! When men and women spend a lot of time communicating, biology and science says that one of the parties will probably develop a secret sexual attraction. The male counterpart will usually be the culprit, as men are more sexually driven than most women. Men will be \"just friends\" with a woman if that\'s all she truly desires, but be rest assured, a man will wait patiently for his chance to strike! While there are some exceptions, generally, men and women can\'t be \"just friends\". If you\'re in a relationship, it is very practical to be jealous of your partner spending ample amounts of energy and time communicating with members of the opposite sex who aren\'t you! We were biologically designed to mate with each other after all! While it is tempting to lash out at your partner for texting or spending time with members of the opposite sex, it is best to sit down and discuss what is appropriate and what isn\'t. If you can\'t come to an agreement, it may be a clear-sign that you don\'t share the same values in order to build a proper relationship. Perhaps your husband loves to have lunch with his female secretary, while you think it\'s an invitation for temptation, he sees it as \"innocent\". But be warned, whatever you ask of your partner, you should be able to hold yourself to the same rules and standards! If your husband or boyfriend is spending large amounts of time texting or hanging out with another woman, unless it is purely for business purposes you can almost guarantee that he is sexually attracted to her. While women often keep many \"guy friends\" on the side to use as \"emotional tampons\" to vent their frustrations on or to keep around as \"back-ups\" in case their relationship doesn\'t work out. Many surveys show that 60% of men and women have \"back-up\" lovers. A shocking statistic that really makes you wonder if men and women can truly be monogamous.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">2. Men are more shallow in terms of appearance: While there are always exceptions to the rule, men are generally more caught up in a woman\'s physical appearance than a women is with a man\'s appearance. 9 times out of 10, a man will choose the supermodel woman over the plain looking career-woman any day of the week. However, as a man matures, his preferences may balance out. Instead of going for the perfect 10 with a bad attitude, he will find more satisfaction with the \"7 or 8\" who is more well-rounded, dependable and nurturing. Men biologically seek out women who are physically attractive as a way to carry on healthy genes in their children.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">3. Women are gold-diggers, kinda?: There is a common misconception that women are only after a man\'s resources and income. While it is true that women are definitely attracted to wealth and status, that isn\'t to say that a woman would not date a man who is poor, so long as he is actively pursuing goals. Women are attracted to driven men who are determined to build a life for themselves and their family. This goes back to our caveman (cavewoman) instincts. A man who is building a career for himself can be seen a potential provider and protector of the family. While there are some modern career women who prefer to be the leaders of their family, once women have children, they will almost always desire to stay home with their children while the father provides. It\'s a natural evolutionary cycle.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">4. Do men like feminists?: If you look at any typical feminist: She has a career mindset, dyed purple hair, nose ring, loud, says fathers aren\'t necessary, usually ends up in their 30s as a childless career woman or they end up dating weak men who take on a more submissive role. This is why there is a huge exodus of men who are seeking out wives who are from places like Asia, Latin America, and Eastern Europe where the women are more submissive and feminine. However, due to the rising cost of living in the west, many American men are warming up to the idea of women seeking out careers and practicing more independence to alleviate their own financial stress.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">5. Sex and money are still the main motivators for marriage and divorce: People get married because they enjoy eachother\'s company (sex) and/or one of the partners is a good financial provider. Conversely, these are also the same reasons why people divorce! When the sex begins to get boring, one of the partners fails to maintain their physical attractiveness, or the income-earning partner loses his/her job, the chances of divorce skyrocket! sex and finances are the two most important things in a relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">6 Men need to shut up and just listen!: When women come to men with their problems, men will often interrupt with suggestions on how to fix the issue, the woman will then become annoyed and stop talking all together at the surprise of the man. However, what women fail to realize is that men have \"mechanical\" brains. Due to our evolutionary role as \"providers\" and \"builders\", men sometimes fail to see the emotional rationals behind a woman\'s speech. Sometimes women just want to vent without receiving a \"Self-help\" pep-talk in return.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">7. Men show their love in more basic ways: Women often dream of the man who plays guitar, writes poetry, or does grandiose romantic gestures. While men sometimes perform these acts, especially during the early stages of dating, men are a bit more practical in the ways they show love. As Steve Harvey often says, \"Men show their love with the three \"P\'s\", - Profess. Provide. Protect\". Men will honor their women by publicly professing, \"This is my woman!\", they will provide for her by earning a good income for the household, and they protect her by scaring off any would-be creeps who would try to hit on her or make advances towards her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">8. Women care more about kissing than intercourse: While women enjoy the sexual act of intercourse, many women will admit that love-making without kissing makes them feel \"dirty\" or \"used\". For a woman, kissing is the ultimate expression of love. When a man kisses a woman without sex, it shows that he craves her soul, not just her vagina. Many women have admitted to me that they would be more angry at a cheating spouse for passionately kissing another woman than they would be if he simply had intercourse with another woman without kissing being involved, since men often compartmentalize their sexual actions in terms of love and pleasure.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">9. Why do men and women cheat? With social media making it easier to stay connected with ex-lovers and pretty much anyone we meet on the street, cheating has become easier now than any other time in history. It is also easier to get caught thanks to the \"screenshot\" option used on our phones. While men have had mistresses since the dawn of time, it was an act that was done discreetly and was associated with shame if caught. Now, it has become also an expectation that you will not be the only person someone is sleeping with. Men tend to cheat based purely on novelty. They get bored having sex with the same partner everyday, and seek out new lands to conquer. They may be completely in love with their wives or girlfriends, but they seek out the excitement of a new body to explore. It is purely a physical thing. Women on the other hand, usually cheat when they feel emotionally neglected by their spouse. Their affairs begin with an emotional fling that later becomes physical. This is why society is harder on women who cheat because of the common held belief that women cheat with their hearts, while men cheat with their penis.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">10. Love is held together by three chemicals: Serotonin and Dopamine are released anytime you see a beautiful woman, anytime you kiss you someone, anytime you have an orgasm. These chemicals activate the pleasure centers in your brain, essentially turning you into a drug-addict, craving more and more. As you continue to repeatedly kiss, have sex, and spend time with this person, another hormone slowly begins to produce. \"Oxytocin\", aka \" The love chemical\". Oxytocin is responsible for the feelings of \"attachment\". When you break up with your spouse, or they die, you go through a withdrawal of oxytocin, dopamine, and seratonin, which is quite painful. Without oxytocin, your mom, your father, your brother, your wife, they would mean nothing to you. Attachments would be almost impossible to form with them. Like most things in life. everything is created upon \"habit\". Relationships are no different. They do not form in one day, they are created through imprinted repetition. And before you know it, you are thinking about this person everyday without realizing how it happened! Thanks to serotonin, dopamine, and oxytocin, this person who was once a stranger, is now constantly on your mind! This can be a good thing or a bad thing, depending on how the relationship unfolds. It is great for the happily married, but not so great when a break-up occurs, which can take months or even years to recover from emotionally and physically.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">11. STDs are more common than you think: 70% of people over the age of 40 in the USA have some form of herpes, while many don\'t even know they have it. In fact, it is so common that many doctors don\'t even test for it anymore. In terms of race, African-American Americans have the highest percentages of STDs, followed by Caucausians (whites), then Latinos, and with Asians having the lowest percentages of STD rates. No matter what the race is of your partner, before engaging in sex, it is important to discuss this topic with your partner. \"Are you clean?\", if the person knowingly has a disease and lies about it, that person could face legal actions. Medically time-stamped records will show when a person was diagnosed. If your partner was diagnosed with HIV in 2006, and they told you they were clean in 2007, then that person has essentially committed a criminal act against your health! If you are positive for an STD, be sure to be completely honest with your partner. They will respect you much more for it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">12. Child support: No matter what form of birth-control you use, there is also a 1% chance it could fail. A good rule of thumb is to never have sex with someone who you couldn\'t imagine being the parent of your child. 60% of marriages in USA end in divorce. If you are a man, that means you will probably be paying child support, which means that half of your check will be confiscated for the next 18-20 years. How does that ramen noodle dinner taste? Being unable to pay child support payments can result in losing your drivers license and/or being sent to prison. It is no laughing matter.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">13. Rape and false-allegations of rape: Before letting a potential partner come to your house, or you go to their house, be sure to spend a lot of time meeting up at public places, talking on the phone, and truly building a foundation of trust. Men are very much sexually motivated when it comes to dating. Any hint you give them in regards to having sex, they will most likely not turn it down. However, men should know the difference between consent and non-consent. If a woman says, \"No! I\'m not ready\', that means \"Take your hands off!\". It\'s that simple. Some men do not understand this. However, there are some women who engage in consensual sex with a man and then latter regret it. In order to save face, they may cry \"rape\". There have been many famous cases regarding false-rape allegations that have destroyed the lives of innocent men. Having casual sex is very dangerous for both men and women for this reason among many others listed.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Relationships can be a lot of fun. Traveling together, hanging out, having companionship, enjoying sexual chemistry. However, it also requires much sacrifice and taking responsibility. Sex is an act designed by nature to create life. It is pleasurable. The pleasure behind sex encourages our species to multiply. Sex was not designed to be a toy. It is a way to create bonding between two people as a secondary benefit, and to create life as a primary benefit. Sex and relationships are no laughing matter. When they work out, they create wonderful memories full of life and joy. When they don\'t work out, they can literally ruin the emotional, physical, and financial health of those involved. Love should not be shunned, but it should also not be taken lightly.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When you create a relationship, do it respectfully. When you end the relationship, also do it with respect. All human life is precious. When two parties separate, it is rarely easily or pleasurable for either party involved.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Good luck on your love journey! May God bless you all.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\"></div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Randell_Stroud/2516476\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Randell_Stroud/2516476</a></p>\r\n</div>');
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It\'s an example of how people sabotage their relationship before it starts. It\'s a mindset. The number 16 reason you can\'t find love is because you have an exit strategy before it starts. In other words, you have a back up person in case the main relationship fails.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">That is an example of a person making plans to fail or planning to fail. Why would any one plan for failure? So you go into relationships thinking: when my main relationship fails, I\'ll have someone waiting for me. That means you are entertaining 2 people at the same time.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There is so much that goes into a strategy like that. You have to remember lies. You have to remember who you told what so you don\'t mix the 2 up. You are dividing your time which creates opportunity costs for other important things like business or developing yourself. For a man, you could be spending twice the money which also creates opportunity costs. You could be investing your money in better places.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you are dividing yourself, you are neglecting both. When it does not work out with the main one, you believe he or she person is at fault and you pat yourself on the back for having a back up. What you don\'t see is you created a self fulfilling prophesy. When you plan for failure, you get what you deserve, failure.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It is also an example of no commitment or integrity. If you start without either commitment or integrity, what do you believe will happen? Your life does not exist in a vacuum. If you lack integrity in one area, it will lack in other areas. A lack of integrity is a mindset. Your mindset is who you are and it follows you in every aspect of life. Now think about the kind of person you can attract when you lack integrity. And you wonder why you can\'t find love?</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">To purchase a copy of my book:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://brileybaxterbooks.com/author-ted-santos/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://brileybaxterbooks.com/author-ted-santos/</a></p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Ted_Santos/1581685\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Ted_Santos/1581685</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1838, 'Five Ways on How to Turn Down an Invitation', 'five-ways-on-how-to-turn-down-an-invitation', 0, '2022-12-15 23:18:18', '2022-12-15 23:18:18', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Five Ways on How to Turn Down an Invitation</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Jim Konerko\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Jim_Konerko/46834\" rel=\"author\">Jim Konerko</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On June 11, 2021</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -44px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Linkedin\" /></a><a style=\"color: #a30006; width: 20px; height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Reddit\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10471627&amp;site=reddit\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite reddit-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -22px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Reddit\" /></a><a style=\"color: #a30006; width: 20px; height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10471627&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There comes a time in many of our lives when we get invited somewhere. Perhaps to a party, a date, a ballgame, etc. But for some reason, we may not want to go. We may not want to hurt the inviter\'s feelings, but we don\'t want to be inconvenienced ourselves. So here are some ideas on how to turn down an invitation in the politest way possible.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>1. Tell them no, but in a polite way.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Yes, I get that it\'s hard to say no. But maybe you don\'t have the desire to go to the affair to which you were invited.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In a case like that, you can say to the inviter that you have already made other plans. And it doesn\'t matter what your other projects are, because you don\'t have to tell the inviter what they are. But if they press you, you can say it is personal and hope the other person understands.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">What you don\'t want to do is to make something up, like you\'re going to a baseball game. Telling a fib could get you into trouble with the other person and make you feel bad. Say you have other things to attend to.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>2. Say you\'ll go, but only if you can make it.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Here is a pretty easy way to turn down an invitation. After you decline, then, of course, you don\'t have to go. But you leave the option open in case you feel differently later.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>3. Say that you have other priorities at this time.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This excuse is very easy as well, plus it is polite towards the other person. Letting the inviter know that you have other priorities will let the other person know that you are honest and that perhaps another time you can meet the invitation.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>4. Ask if you and the inviter can get together another time.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Of course, this won\'t work for a special one-time occasion like a wedding. But if it\'s an occasion that may or may not come up again, it\'s an excellent convenient way to turn down an invitation by opting out of a get-together.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You can also add to the inviter the possibility of getting together another time. But of course, only say this if you mean it and have a plan in mind.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Bonus idea: send a thank-you gift.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Sending a gift is especially good if the invitation was for a wedding or a birthday. The present doesn\'t have to be elaborate or expensive. It can just be a simple trinket of some sort, with a note of gratitude and thanks for the invite.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So if you want to turn down an invitation, the worst thing you can do is ignore it. Put yourself in the other person\'s place, and ask yourself how you would feel. A simple thanks but no thanks goes a long way to letting the inviter know that you care and are grateful to be considered.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">And one final thought: be careful about lying. Even the smallest of fibs have a way of catching up with you.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\"></div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Jim_Konerko/46834\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Jim_Konerko/46834</a></p>\r\n</div>');
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People hire them for a variety of reasons, such as running background checks on prospective employees and checking on a cheating spouse. If you are going to choose the best private detective, we suggest that you follow the 6 tips given below.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>1. Client References</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">First of all, you may want to go with an agency that is listed among the industry leaders in your area. Apart from this, the agency should be more than happy to give you client references.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>2. Client Care</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Secondly, make sure you hire a company that is known for handling customer calls in a professional manner. What you need to do is consider the professionalism and the reporting structure. It\'s even better if the agency has a devoted case manager.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">A dedicated case manager is always available to take your calls and resolve your concerns.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>3. Client Testimonials</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Client testimonials are also important. Therefore, you should ask the agency to provide you with client testimonials. If the past customers were happy with the service, you can rest assured that you will get a satisfactory service. After all, the detective agency has to be trustworthy. The reason is that you are going to reveal your sensitive information to a third party. They should be trustworthy or your private information may be at risk.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>4. Confidentiality and Professionalism</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For confidentially and professionalism, the detective agency must comply with the relevant legislation and regulations. Apart from this, you should find out how they guarantee that the case details and inquiries will be handled in a professional and confidential fashion. Given below are some of the important points in this area:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>5. Respecting the Legal Ethics and Boundaries</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Respecting the privacy of clients to make sure that the services help protect the privacy of the client, and no personal information is disclosed</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Respecting the interest of every client through the highest standard of reporting and proficiency</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Making sure that all the employees and personnel adhere to the code of ethics and be responsible</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>6. Pricing Structure</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Most private detective agencies don\'t disclose information about their expenses or additional costs. At times, some expenses may incur during spy activities. For instance, the detective may have to go after a person who enters a club or hotel. In this case, the agent may have to book a table or spend a night in the hotel to collect the required information. This can add to the cost.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Make sure that the detective agency clearly states the pricing structure before you agree to sign a contract.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Long story short, we suggest that you consider the pointers before you decide on choosing the best private detective agency. This will help you choose the best service and still save a lot of money. Hopefully, these tips will help you be in a much better position to hire the best provider.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Are you in search of a good&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.firstindiandetectiveagency.com/matrimonial-detectives/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">matrimonial detective agency in Delhi</a>? If so, First Indian Detective Agency is the best&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.firstindiandetectiveagency.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">detective agency is Delhi</a>. So, you should check out their services if you need.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1840, 'How To Survive Infidelity', 'how-to-survive-infidelity', 0, '2022-12-15 23:19:05', '2022-12-15 23:19:05', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">How To Survive Infidelity</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Wendy Wall\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Wendy_Wall/2816878\" rel=\"author\">Wendy Wall</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On October 08, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I have,and boy does it hurt!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Here\'s some keys to survive it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Ask Questions</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You may need all the factual details of the affair. How they met? When did they meet? How often did they meet? How long was the affair? How many times did they meet? How much money they spent? And so on. Getting answers to all your questions may shift your perception about why your partner did what they did. It may shed some light on the hidden weakness in your marriage.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Control Your Rage Before While Getting Information</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It is natural to want to cry, scream and lash out, but emotions may prevent your partner from divulging all the necessary details of the infidelity. The full disclosure required to lead to the surviving of infidelity may be compromised. It is important to try to hold yourself together to get to the bottom of the truth. The only way your partner will reveal everything is if you don\'t lash out every time you have the talk. Some partners who have had affairs are too afraid to tell the other person everything because they are suspect the downward spiral of emotions will lead to a huge fight.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Talk About How Infidelity Has Impacted You</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Talk about your feelings. Make sure you don\'t leave anything out. Any doubts, feelings of abandonment and betrayal, sadness, anger, disappointment about surviving infidelity should be discussed. As you lay all your cards on the table, it allows your partner to build a wall between their former lover and themselves. It opens up a window of opportunity for the two of you to work things out.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t Forget or Forgive Easily</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Do not let something so major slide easily. Understand and acknowledge your pain and anger. Take time to rebuild the trust before you genuinely forgive your partner.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Look For Support</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Reconnect with your friends and family and join a support group if needed. You will feel less isolated and lonely while surviving infidelity.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Spend Time with Your Partner To Heal</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Go back in time and remember all the things you two enjoyed doing as a couple. Reconnect as friends and then romantic partners in healing together and moving past the infidelity. It will not happen overnight. You will have to give you partner some time and space to make it up to you and rebuild the trust. However, when the opportunity arises, spending time together without discussing the affair will make the process a lot easier.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Forgive When Ready</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t get pressured by your partner or anyone else to forgive and forget if you are not truly ready. Otherwise, you will never forget the affair and painful memories attached to it. However, after taking time off and dealing with the hurt, you must forgive your partner even if you decide to part ways. Forgiveness allows us to move past our pain and helps us move on without any bitterness and negativity.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I\'ve got a wonderful book on surviving infidelity.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Find it here.&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://buy.bookfunnel.com/vyub81383j\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://buy.bookfunnel.com/vyub81383j</a></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Wendy</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">See can love be found in my second chance romance marriage book: \"What Of Her\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Go Get It Here</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08KR1LYJ1?ref_=pe_3052080_397514860\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08KR1LYJ1?ref_=pe_3052080_397514860</a></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For FREE BOOKS and relation tips go here [http://wendywall.online]</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Wendy_Wall/2816878\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Wendy_Wall/2816878</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1841, 'Do Muslim Men Lust For Hindu Women', 'do-muslim-men-lust-for-hindu-women', 0, '2022-12-15 23:19:25', '2022-12-15 23:19:25', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Do Muslim Men Lust For Hindu Women</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Madan G Singh\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Madan_G_Singh/148323\" rel=\"author\">Madan G Singh</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 25, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Madan G Singh\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Madan-G-Singh_121887.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Madan G Singh\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>L</strong>ust is a word that means intense or unrestrained sexual craving. Sometimes the word does look vulgar or course but it defines a mindset that is dictated by desire and temptation. All over India and Pakistan, the one fact that stands out is the number of Hindu girls with Muslim men has husbands. In Pakistan, it takes a bizarre form with about 20-25 girls being kidnapped every month in Sind province and forcibly converted and married to Muslim men. In India, there is no coercion but any numbers of Hindu girls marry Muslims. Even the film stars are into it and the most famous present-day heroine Karina Kapoor is marrying a Muslim star who has 2 grown up children.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I began to wonder why this is so after all just a few decades the Muslims and Hindus did not have much of intermarriages. Before independence and the advent of the Raj, the Muslims were the rulers and they could have their pick of girls from the Hindu community. Even the warrior Timur selected 200 of the most beautiful girls for his harem. But it all ended with the Raj and independence.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So frankly I am intrigued to see so many Hindu girls marrying Muslim men. The contrast is stark as in all cases these girls convert to Islam. This is mandatory and is something that happens, but I suppose there is very little coercion involved, except in Pakistan where the situation is entirely different. I wonder what could be the psychology behind these marriages.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>The Big Divide</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Obviously, there is some background to it. One thing that strikes me is a loss of power by the Muslims the Hindu girls became unattainable. So the Muslim men with a not a little encouragement from the Mullahs began to assiduously woo these girls. The idea was to win them over and marry them and beget children. It\'s like a victory in battle, after all in ancient wars the women were the prize.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">These are harsh thoughts, but I suppose there is some truth in it. Thus the Muslim man will go out of his way to court a Hindu girl. What about the Hindu girl? There is a new found freedom given by independent India and the Hindu girl is exercising it to the hilt. One manifestation is these marriages. In contrast, the reverse of Muslim girls marrying Hindu boys is just a trickle. Rigidity in Islam is intense?</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\"></div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Madan_G_Singh/148323\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Madan_G_Singh/148323</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1842, 'After Infidelity-Stay or Go?', 'after-infidelity-stay-or-go', 0, '2022-12-15 23:19:46', '2022-12-15 23:19:46', '<div id=\"page\" class=\"article-view\" style=\"background-position: 0px 30px; margin-top: 54px; float: none; width: 960px; background-color: #ffffff; overflow: visible; border-radius: 3px 0px 0px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;\">\r\n<div id=\"page-inner\" style=\"padding: 1em 2em;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">After Infidelity-Stay or Go?</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Tina Tessina\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Tina_Tessina/34086\" rel=\"author\">Tina Tessina</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 19, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When you get the devastating news that your spouse has had an affair, how do you decide whether to stay or go? Because you feel betrayed, your first impulse is usually anger, and wanting to leave-fight or flight. But, after you calm down, you realize there\'s a lot you\'ll lose, and you may have children to consider. Don\'t make an instant decision you may regret later, after the damage is done. It\'s possible to find an extraordinary love after divorcing late in life, but most of my clients report the potential partners out there are no better than the ones they left.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">While I don\'t think you should stay and suffer if nothing\'s working, in my practice I see many couples who do the work and wind up happier than before. The affair may have happened after long-standing problems in the marriage, which can actually be corrected to the satisfaction of both partners. Often dissatisfaction grows from resentment, and the root causes can be fixed with the help of counseling. If both partners are willing to change what\'s not working, a marriage can be improved can be turned into a satisfying life of enjoyable companionship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I also see a fair number of couples who get back together after a divorce, because they had a chance to see what it\'s like to be alone, and to calm down and get over petty resentments. Unfortunately, now they\'re a lot poorer because of the costs of the divorce, dividing up property, and so on. Here are some reasons to stay or go:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Top 5 reasons to stay:</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Your spouse truly recognizes he or she has a problem, and is willing to get help to fix it, and to be accountable for rebuilding trust.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; You two are going to counseling, and understanding why the affair happened, and how to fix the problems.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; You\'re getting your own sex life back on track, if it was off track.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; You have a long, shared history, joint finances, and family ties that make it worth keeping the marriage together.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; You still love each other, and it\'s clearly mutual.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Top 5 reasons to go:</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Your spouse is in denial, makes excuses, and blames you. This means he or she is invested in the cheating behavior, and not ready to change.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; You have had it, no longer feel connected, and are not willing to work on it. Be sure this isn\'t just temporary anger.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; You are prepared to be on your own.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; You either have no children, they\'re grown, or you\'re certain a divorce will be better for them than what\'s going on.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Your spouse refuses to give up the other relationship, or infidelity in general.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Working these issues out together will either repair and improve the relationship you have, or teach you skills and attitudes you need to know to make any relationship great.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\"></div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Tina_Tessina/34086\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Tina_Tessina/34086</a></p>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div class=\"footer-container\" style=\"width: 960px; height: auto; position: relative; overflow: hidden; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div class=\"bottom-gdfp-container\" style=\"width: 960px; margin: 10px auto;\">&nbsp;</div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div class=\"clear-both\" style=\"clear: both; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; background-color: #ffffff; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;\">&nbsp;</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1843, 'Love in the Far East of Russia', 'love-in-the-far-east-of-russia', 0, '2022-12-15 23:20:08', '2022-12-15 23:20:08', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Love in the Far East of Russia</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Madan G Singh\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Madan_G_Singh/148323\" rel=\"author\">Madan G Singh</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On April 04, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Madan G Singh\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Madan-G-Singh_121887.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Madan G Singh\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">At one time Russia rivaled the USA as a global power, but then came Gorbochov and we all know that Russia broke up into 18 states. This was also the end of the Russian dream for parity with USA, as the population was reduced by half and so was the area.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">But when Russia was a monolith place under communist rule it was organized and Indians were well respected. As an air force officer of the Indian Air Force, it was a great experience visiting the country. The best part were the Russian girls, golden and blonde who were great company.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I once landed at Moscow airport and a Russian Air Force helicopter whisked me and 2 of my colleagues to the Air Force base. It was a grand welcome and I was given a orderly a Corporal, a Russian girl. She was slim and smart and I will be frank I had lascivious thoughts about her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">We were told that we would be \'honored\' with a flight to the Russian far east, to the Pacific port of Vladivostok. As I was leaving the room I asked the Russian colonel who all were going along. He asked me if there was anyone I would like to accompany me and others. Of the cuff I blurted if the NCO could come with us. He laughed and went away.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">We boarded the supersonic transport early morning. It was the TU 144 and it could fly at Mach 2. It was a rival of the Concorde, but bigger. I looked around and I was surprised to see my orderly with a knapsack slung on her back also waiting to climb in. This was a freighter version with very few seats. She waved to me and said Thank you for the trip to me.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The flight to the east was magnificent and the girl sat next to me. She had brought a couple of sandwiches of beef and meat and all of us relished them with hot coffee. Come to think of it what a hullaballoo is created now on beef. We landed at the airport, but the Russians were wary of our entering the cockpit, so we just sat as the plane hurtled at mach 2. What an experience! whew simply unforgettable!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">On landing my orderly told me she would be with me as per instructions. We had two days at the place. I asked her if we could go for a bike ride. This delighted her and she arranged a Ural bike. This is the Russian version of the BMW R7. Two days to while away before we fly back. We were told not to leave the base, but I put my orderly now in mufti along with me and drove away. She carried her knapsack and told me she had arranged sandwiches from the mess.We drove deep into Siberia and the Bike a 650 cc monster was simply powerful. We drove among the woods and small forests, and a drizzle began. The girl at the back clung to me. At many places we saw log huts and we stopped at one of them for the rain to go away. Frankly I wanted it to rain even more heavily. We went inside and there was just a stove and a small cot.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I got to know the girl better and for me these were magical moments with the rain belting away. The inevitable did happen and I won\'t go into details of it. Suffice the rain stopped, but we didn\'t leave and continued for the night and the next day.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">With the sun out we drove back to the base, with the cool breeze enveloping us. It was a pleasure, but I got a wallop when I got back. My AOC was livid. How he asked could I break a rule and go away with an NCO? I said sorry, but he told me he would report me. Did he? No the old foggie never filed a report and later in India asked me, how was everything?</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\"></div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Madan_G_Singh/148323\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Madan_G_Singh/148323</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1844, 'Blast From the Past - Love to Remember', 'blast-from-the-past-love-to-remember', 0, '2022-12-15 23:20:29', '2022-12-15 23:20:29', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Blast From the Past - Love to Remember</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Madan G Singh\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Madan_G_Singh/148323\" rel=\"author\">Madan G Singh</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On January 02, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Madan G Singh\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Madan-G-Singh_121887.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Madan G Singh\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Not a Leaf Moves Without My Will<br />In India, particularly in the city of Mumbai are small tea stall run by women. These stalls are allotted by the government and they serve a definite purpose in society. Years back I had an emotional encounter with a young girl who ran a tea stall. I could never locate her again as she seemed to have vanished in the depths of this great city.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It all started in the month of June, the period when the monsoon is in full force. I drove to my office, when thunder boomed and boomed again. Torrential rain commenced and I thought it a good idea to stop the car and wait for the rain to stop. With lightening flashing, I looked around and through the rain espied a small Jhunkar tea stall. I rushed to the stall and saw it was run by a young girl. She was perhaps about 22 or 23, but she looked lovely in her sari that clung to her body. The thundering rain all around created an enchanting world. Perhaps it was the will of the lord Krishna as a magical world was created.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The girl prepared and served me tea and hot samosa. I was loathe to leave and continued sitting there. We got into a conversation and she told me she was married for 3 years and had no kids.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This was the beginning and almost everyday I visited the tea stall. A strange intimacy developed between us. It was as if the Lord KRISHNA had willed it. I became a frequent visitor to her stall. Sometimes we chatted for a long time. One day I found her crying and she told me she had been beaten by her inlaws as she didn\'t have a child. Spontaenously I gathered her in my arms to console her. The effect was electric and we ended kissing each other</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Love blossomed, at least for me and we had regular trysts in the stall. Many a time she would shut the stall as the monsoon crashed on earth. I was swept by passion and this continued for 2 months.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">One fine day, I entered the stall, but could not see my girl. An old woman sat and she prepared tea. I casually asked where the young girl was. The woman beamed and told me god had blessed her and she had gone to her village.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I sat stunned, wondering what to do. I didn\'t even know her name or address. I wondered what the lady meant by the words \" blessed by God\". I had a lurking fear of what it meant, but fate had decreed and I had to obey. Memories die hard. But I am reminded of a saying attributed to Lord Krishna in the GITA..The lord Krishna says \' Not a leaf in this world moves without my will\'. I accept it.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\"></div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Madan_G_Singh/148323\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Madan_G_Singh/148323</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1845, 'The Philosophy of Deflowering a Virgin', 'the-philosophy-of-deflowering-a-virgin', 0, '2022-12-15 23:22:37', '2022-12-15 23:22:37', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">The Philosophy of Deflowering a Virgin</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Madan G Singh\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Madan_G_Singh/148323\" rel=\"author\">Madan G Singh</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On December 17, 2019</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Madan G Singh\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Madan-G-Singh_121887.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Madan G Singh\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">An Act of God or Passion<br />I am going to pen a few thoughts which I want to get over. I am going to touch on the moral and emotional aspects of deflowering a virgin. Is it wrong, especially if you have no plans to marry her and would like to list this act as a conquest? The answer can be under two heads. Either you believe in religious dogma and feel it\'s wrong or you are a liberated man and see it as a natural act of fulfillment.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">All girls are virgins at some stage and that is the essence of the argument. Somebody will take her virginity, not necessarily the man who will marry her. It could be an act of seduction by an older man or a bout of passion with a boyfriend. Even in India many girls lose their virginity before marriage. As for me in many visits to abroad, never came across a single virgin. In America very few girls will wait till marriage to be deflowered.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Having accepted this argument, I see no reason if the chance is there for an older man to \"break\" a virgin. Firstly it will add years to his life and make him feel younger. As Vatsyayana has said, sex with a younger woman is the elixir to youth. I am sure Vatsyayana is correct and now there is research in Denmark and USA which confirms that younger women add years to health and longevity of a man. Older men and younger girls is a sure shot recipe for good health and longevity.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Let older men try it. Breaking the hymen of a virgin is thus part of life and one step to great satisfaction. How one goes about it is an individual trait. There has to be finesse and tact and overall it has to be a polished effort: something the girl will remember. Many will not go ahead, but I did deflower three virgins and for me those are my most cherished moments. I wonder how many readers will agree with me. Yes, these three were the ones who got seduced. How do I look at it? One has to justify the act to one \'s mind and I feel no remorse as after all Lord Krishna said\"<em>Not a leaf moves without my will.\"</em></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Lastly there should be the inherent belief that you will try and make it memorable for the virgin, something she will remember for all time to come.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\"></div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Madan_G_Singh/148323\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Madan_G_Singh/148323</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1846, 'Finding Love Even If You Are Already In Your Forties', 'finding-love-even-if-you-are-already-in-your-forties', 0, '2022-12-15 23:23:01', '2022-12-15 23:23:01', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Finding Love Even If You Are Already In Your Forties</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Rosemarie Sumalinog Gonzales\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Rosemarie_Sumalinog_Gonzales/1972656\" rel=\"author\">Rosemarie Sumalinog Gonzales</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On September 25, 2019</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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Be that as it may, searching for affection after 40 accompanies its very own one of a kind delights and challenges. By the time you arrive at your 40s, there are numerous potential ways your life may have taken to get you to where you are.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Possibly you\'ve had a considerable amount of dissatisfaction, dismissal, and anguish, however while you can\'t delete your past, you can absolutely gain from it. Truth be told, \"when you\'re in our 40s, you can truly utilize those beneficial encounters. It\'s not simply that you know yourself and what works and doesn\'t work seeing someone, it\'s that when you arrive at your 40s, you\'ve presumably felt the enchantment of affection.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When you\'re single in your 40s, a few people respond to you as though you\'re disregarding some characteristic request. \"Individuals will in general look confused. They need to know why. Actually, in any case, that the course of events of discovering love in our childhood is a self-assertive and obsolete remedy. Possess your singleness as a decision you\'ve made, whatever your reasons are.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Grasp being single. This is significant as an inside frame of mind, however as an issue of how you anticipate yourself. Try not to express a contempt for being distant from everyone else or single. We should be open to being separated from everyone else and adoring ourselves, and that positive vitality will pull in an accomplice who is directly for you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Permit your abundance of life encounters to make you positive about going for what you need. You\'ve carried on a couple of decades, and you most likely have a couple of fight scars. You have history and experience. You\'ve learned exercises and you have parcels to share. You are prepared for give and take and to make an enduring association with somebody who offers your qualities and interests.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In any case, don\'t drag the past into the present. It\'s one thing to gain from your past on a scholarly level. It\'s another to remain buried in it inwardly. It\'s fundamental to move past the past on the off chance that you need to grab up somebody incredible,\" she says, including that it\'s a matter of how you feel, yet in addition a matter of how you anticipate yourself in the beginning times of dating.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Treat everybody as a person. One approach to get \"past the past\" is to advise yourself that each new individual you meet is actually that: another individual. \"Because you\'ve had some awful encounters, that doesn\'t imply that everybody you meet will prompt that equivalent awful experience. It\'s not reasonable for anybody to extend your past encounters onto them, and you\'re undeniably bound to truly become acquainted with an individual in the event that you see them as an individual, as opposed to as a type of resurrection of a relationship past.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Try not to be a pessimist. Owning your past, perceiving mix-ups you\'ve made, and notwithstanding working through the agony of having been wronged isn\'t equivalent to coming at dating with a negative frame of mind. \"Try not to give your life a chance to experience transform you into a critic. Rather, attempt to interface with the old vitality and energy you had before you had these experiences.Connecting with those positive emotions doesn\'t mean overlooking the exercises you\'ve learned, he calls attention to. It just means enabling yourself to appreciate the minute with a portion of your young abundance.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Go to each date with a receptive outlook. Control your desires. It\'s one thing to trust you find what you\'re searching for, yet don\'t anticipate anything. Desires lead to frustrations. Keep your expectations high and your desires low. This will help ease the heat off both you and your date.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Most people over 40 are established in their lives, with steady careers and families. You make better choices. When you date again, it can be scary because you haven\'t done it for a log time. But don\'t be scared. You are older, wiser, and more experienced.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The secret is you know yourself really well by the age of 40 and know what you want, therefore, making better choices, even in choosing a date or finding another love.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Rosemarie_Sumalinog_Gonzales/1972656\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Rosemarie_Sumalinog_Gonzales/1972656</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1847, 'Do Fairy Tales Exists?', 'do-fairy-tales-exists', 0, '2022-12-15 23:23:24', '2022-12-15 23:23:24', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Do Fairy Tales Exists?</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Vance Larson\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Vance_Larson/1729477\" rel=\"author\">Vance Larson</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On August 01, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<p><a class=\"photo-container\" style=\"color: #a30006; position: relative; float: left; margin: 10px 18.2344px 15px; overflow: hidden; box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.3) 0px 1px 3px; border-radius: 5px; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Vance Larson\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Vance_Larson/1729477\"><img class=\"photo\" style=\"border: 0px; max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Vance Larson\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Vance-Larson_1614787.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Vance Larson\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Love at first sight. They see each other from across the room. Their eyes lock. Every other person fades out. The music starts. He walks over to her and it\'s just as if they\'ve know each other their entire lives. They kiss. They marry. And 2.5 kids later and a black lab, they live happily ever after. After all. It is a fairy tale.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I do a fair amount of relationship work with my clients. And it is no surprise that I hear the same complaints over and over again from both men and women. It is almost like both have forgotten that relationships take work.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I had one women with whom I have worked with over the course of the years tell me that monogamy is a thing of the past. For some yes. For many, no. When we reviewed her dating history, all of her relationships ended in infidelity, or simply she was ghosted. Digging deeper into this conversations, I asked if she was ever the one who committed the infidelity? She said yes. About a third of the time. When I asked why she stepped out? She said that she didn\'t want to be the one getting hurt first. Hmmm...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When does causing pain ever justify not working for progress? There comes a time when you have to decide that being in a relationship is not all about you. I have had several clients {and friends} who have been married 4 or more times. Guess what? It\'s not them. It more than likely is you. Marriage often gets a bad rap. Despite having a bad rap, the divorce rate continues to decline. The whole 50% of all marriages end in divorce has not been true for quite some time. A marriage is just like a fairy tale. They both take work.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I often get asked what\'s the best advice you can give someone who is getting married? The short answer. If you\'re not willing to give it your all, especially when your partner clearly isn\'t, marriage is not for you. Yes a healthy marriage is reciprocal. But you can\'t control that. All that you can control is what you\'re putting into a relationship. I am not suggesting that you endure a lifetime of unhappiness. I am suggesting that it is very rare that you and your partner are going to be giving your very best to the relationship at the same time.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I know of couples that broke up because one took ill. They literally left because their partner was in bed for a few weeks. I am not judging these individuals. I am however questioning if they ever loved their partner in the first place. Or, was it more like they loved the idea of how their partner made them feel?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So do fairy tales exists? I believe they do. But they do require work. And if you work. You may just see that happy ending that you are looking for.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\"></div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Vance_Larson/1729477\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Vance_Larson/1729477</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1848, 'What Is The Likelihood Of A Second Affair After A Man Has Cheated Once?', 'what-is-the-likelihood-of-a-second-affair-after-a-man-has-cheated-once', 0, '2022-12-15 23:25:13', '2022-12-15 23:25:13', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">What Is The Likelihood Of A Second Affair After A Man Has Cheated Once?</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Katie Lersch\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Katie_Lersch/106531\" rel=\"author\">Katie Lersch</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On December 06, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10046447&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I often hear from women who are dealing with infidelity and who admit that, in a perfect world, they would like to one day be able to save their marriage. But of course, almost all of them have reservations and doubts. One of the biggest concerns that I hear is the fear of repeat cheating. It is absolutely normal to worry that the very second that you allow yourself to trust him again, he\'s going to repeat cheat and absolutely shatter you. The fear is so large and so real that some people consider not attempting to save the marriage for the fear of the second affair.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Someone might say, \"I need to know the likelihood that my husband is going to cheat again. He swears that he won\'t. He is saying and doing the right things. And yet, I can not bring myself to trust him completely. I am always on guard. Trying to get through this process has taken everything that I have. It has shattered what I thought I knew about my husband and my marriage. I am suspicious of everyone and everything. I see the world as a hostile place now and this was never true before. It has placed a dark cloud over everything. I am slowly trying to recover, but it has been crippling. I can\'t do this again. My husband swears that he would never put himself in this position again. I want to believe him. But he found a way to cheat once, so who is to say that he will not cheat again? What do statistics say about the likelihood of a second affair?\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you have looked, I\'m sure you have seen that the statistics vary. Unfortunately, there doesn\'t seem to be an agreement. I have seen three sets of statistics. One indicated that only 22 percent of people cheated more than once. Another contradicted that and said that as many as 55 percent of people repeat cheat. Plus there was an online survey of people who\'d had affairs and 60 percent of them said that they had been unfaithful more than once. (I would take this one with a grain of salt, as the folks who are online and willing to talk about their infidelity might be a different subset than the people who just want to move on with their lives.) However, as you can see, the statistics vary widely, but you can get as high as about half of the unfaithful people will cheat again. And you can get as low as only 1/4.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I understand why you want to know about statistics. I can spout off a lot of statistics about affairs and their recovery because I did a lot of research due to my own experience. But I can tell you something else. You can read statistics all day long, but truly, they don\'t have any impact on your life. Just because a certain number of other couples have one experience, that does not mean that you will.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The better indicator of whether you will deal with another affair is not what happens with other couples - it is what happens with your husband, with yourself, and with your recovery. I can tell you something else that I learned. You can only do as much as is humanly possible and there are still no guarantees, but it does get better. Time is a wonderful tool with this. Early in our recovery, I always worried over the slightest little perception of deception. Most of the time, it was just my suspicions working overtime But with time, you begin to see that your first fears aren\'t coming true and you allow yourself to relax just a tiny bit more. And one day, you realize that if you do the counseling, if you insist that your husband take responsibility and become rehabilitated, and if you work on yourself and you become as strong as you possibly can, then at some point, you have to just take a breath and know that you can\'t fully control this. You can and should make your marriage and your recovery as strong as possible. And you should always be aware. If my husband started acting weird tomorrow or showing troubling behaviors, of course I would be concerned and I would investigate that. But I no longer want to live my life always on my guard. My husband and I worked long enough and hard enough that I feel safe in releasing just a bit. If my husband\'s behaviors made it necessary for me to change, then I would, but I got tired of living my life for fear of tomorrow.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You are early on in this process, so you haven\'t had the advantage of time yet. But if you are still invested in your marriage, then you can only see to it that you get all the help that you need and do everything that you and your husband possibly can to get back on track. You can be clear about your expectations and you can have each of them met. And at some point, you just have to exhale and know that if the worst should come, then you will handle it then, but you aren\'t going to compromise the rest of your life always living with suspicion and walking on eggshells. Only you will know when you\'ve reached this point. Usually, quite a bit of healing needs to happen first.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">But no matter what the statistics say, many marriages are able to get to this point.&nbsp; Because sure, there are certainly people who have a second affair. But there are also people that don\'t. &nbsp;I completely understand the concern, but it\'s very hard to live your life like that for the long term. &nbsp;Take it one day at a time and tell yourself that you will handle things as they come. &nbsp;You\'re welcome to&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"http://surviving-the-affair.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">read more</a>&nbsp;about my own experiences at&nbsp;&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"http://surviving-the-affair.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">http://surviving-the-affair.com</a></p>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1849, 'When I Tell My Husband That His Cheating Wrecked My Self-Esteem, He Claims His Confidence Is Low Too', 'when-i-tell-my-husband-that-his-cheating-wrecked-my-self-esteem-he-claims-his-confidence-is-low-too', 0, '2022-12-15 23:25:32', '2022-12-15 23:25:32', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">When I Tell My Husband That His Cheating Wrecked My Self-Esteem, He Claims His Confidence Is Low Too</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Katie Lersch\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Katie_Lersch/106531\" rel=\"author\">Katie Lersch</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On October 22, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10026455&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Many wives who are dealing with the aftermath of an affair will tell you that this process has affected their self-respect or their self-esteem. This may not make sense unless infidelity has happened to you, but having your spouse cheat on you can make you feel like you are less than everyone else and that you weren\'t very intelligent or observant for having this happen to you. Thus, you can become angry at yourself on so many levels for allowing this to happen. I know that this might seem crazy, but it\'s true. Many wives share their frustrations about this with their husbands and are surprised when he claims that his self-esteem and self-respect have also taken a hit. This upsets many wives because they think that not only is he not validating their feelings, but he\'s now trying to play the victim in order to take the wind out of their sails.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">She might say, \"one of the biggest struggles that I am having after my husband\'s affair is that of my self-respect. I\'ve always considered myself to be a strong person. I don\'t let people walk over me and I speak up when I feel that I\'m not being heard or am being taken advantage of. I like to think that I am competent personally and professionally. However, now that I am considering trying to work on my marriage after my husband cheated on me, frankly, I think less of myself. I see myself as a meek housewife with no self-respect. Granted, I could support myself and one the biggest reasons that I am still here is because of my kids, but still. I shared this with my husband and I was hoping that he would tell me that this was silly because I was strong and that I was certainly not letting him off easy. But do you know what his response to me was? That he understands because he feels less self-respect too. What? How does this make sense? I am the one who is staying when I am the injured party. I was the one who was betrayed. So why is he suffering from lower self-esteem?\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Why Cheating Men Can Have Self Esteem Issues</strong>: I can pass on what many men have told me and what I have read. In no way am I defending your husband. But men can take a hit with their self-esteem and self-respect because they are embarrassed and ashamed of their choices. They betrayed their family. They put what they valued most at risk. And they can feel very helpless when they go to fix it. They can\'t take your pain away. They can\'t make you believe that they are sorry and won\'t cheat again. They can\'t take this back. They can only feebly try to improve a bad situation, all the while knowing that the people who they love are in pain because of their own actions. They can wonder how they could have been so stupid.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So yes, what your husband is saying isn\'t completely uncommon. But that doesn\'t mean that he should not validate your concerns as well. He may not be consciously trying to bring the attention onto himself or to divert away from your own concerns, but I can see why you would think that and feel angry. Ironically, often the person who cheated and the person who was cheated on feel exactly the same way when they are dealing with the aftermath - frustrated, angry, helpless, scared, and incompetent. Of course, they feel this way for different reasons. And the person who didn\'t cheat really doesn\'t deserve to feel this way because you truly are the injured (but innocent) party.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Insights That May Offer A Little Relief</strong>: If it helps, I will tell you some things that helped my self-esteem. I was angry at myself because I didn\'t suspect the affair, but in truth, it was when my husband was in another area for work. So I consciously decided that unless I was just a paranoid wife who was overly suspicious of her husband, why would I have seen it coming? I gave my husband the benefit of the doubt, as trusting spouses are supposed to do. It was unfair of me to blame myself for that. Another place where I beat myself up was that I worried that I was no longer attractive. I worried that I\'d lost my looks and that my husband would never love or genuinely desire me. But then I realized that I looked the same as I did the week before the affair. And at that time, I wasn\'t exactly delighted with my looks, but I didn\'t think of myself as hideous either. I did address issues that bothered me (like my teeth,) but I didn\'t go crazy with unrealistic changes. I\'m a mom. I am of a certain age. I decided to take care of myself and to be healthy, but beyond that, I\'m not going to chase unrealistic ideals. As far as deciding to stay, yes my kids did influence me. But I stayed because I love my husband, my marriage, and my family. This doesn\'t make me weak, uneducated, or a pushover. It means that I am someone who prioritized my family more than staying angry. It means that I am a problem solver more than I am someone who runs away. My decisions weren\'t the right ones for everyone, but I made them and I wasn\'t going to feel \"less than\" because of them. I am still a strong and capable person and I am sure that you are too.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you don\'t like your husband deflecting about his own self-esteem, you can just try something like, \"well, I guess we can empathize with what the other person feels like. For myself, I\'m going to do a lot of self-work to get my self-respect back and I hope that you support me with that, since you know how I feel.\"</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">ever make any apologies for doing whatever you need to do to make yourself whole again.&nbsp; But make no mistake.&nbsp; This wasn\'t your fault and you don\'t need to feel bad about yourself for it.&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"http://surviving-the-affair.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">There\'s more</a>&nbsp;about my experiences at&nbsp;&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"http://surviving-the-affair.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">http://surviving-the-affair.com</a></p>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1850, 'Although My Spouse Claims He Wants Our Marriage, He Admits He Still Has Feelings For His Affair', 'although-my-spouse-claims-he-wants-our-marriage-he-admits-he-still-has-feelings-for-his-affair', 0, '2022-12-15 23:25:53', '2022-12-15 23:25:53', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Although My Spouse Claims He Wants Our Marriage, He Admits He Still Has Feelings For His Affair</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Katie Lersch\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Katie_Lersch/106531\" rel=\"author\">Katie Lersch</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On September 24, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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You may want to do it more than anything, but even the most optimistic and loyal people will have doubts. Even when the affair is over, it\'s very hard to restore the trust and to believe that your spouse is very willingly with you and will not cheat again. This situation is true even when your spouse appears to be completely over the affair and the other person. But what happens if he\'s not? What happens if you can read his face and know that he\'s somewhat unhappy because he misses her? What happens if he is committed to saving your marriage, despite his remaining deep feelings for the other person?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You might hear about a situation like this one: \"when I found out about my husband\'s affair, I immediately told him that if he were to have any chance with me, he would need to agree to counseling. He did. He had no hesitation at all. He said he would do whatever it takes. And I admit that he has been trying, but neither of us is very happy. I\'m very hurt and distrusting and he just seems lost. I have asked him to stay off the computer, and I can tell that this is very hard for him. He often just has a sort of longing look on his face. When he displays this look, I know that he is still thinking of her. I read some of their correspondence and it was clear that he had intense feelings for her. I think this is what hurts me the most. The other day at counseling, I admitted to the counselor that I\'m afraid that my husband still has strong feelings for the affair partner. The counselor directly asked my husband if this was true. My husband got flustered and swore that there had been no contact between them. The counselor told him that this is not what she asked him. She repeated her question as to whether he still had strong feelings for the other woman. Finally, he sighed and said that you can\'t just turn your feelings off and that yes, he guessed he still had feelings, but that he had no intention of acting on them. I knew this deep in my heart, but it still devastated me. What am I supposed to do with this information? Just know that my husband is only with me to save his family, while he still harbors feelings for someone else?\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Why Perspective Doesn\'t Always Come Immediately</strong>: I am so sorry that you are dealing with this and I know the pain that you are dealing with. But I want to tell you something that might make you feel better. I have interviewed a good number of men who have had affairs for my articles and just because of my own curiosity. If you ask these men after the fact (when enough time has passed) whether they felt actual love for the other person, almost none of them will answer yes. However, some of them will tell you that they thought that they loved the other person. `It can take them a while to have the distance in order to get to the place where they can have the hindsight to understand that what they felt wasn\'t actually love. But once they do, many of them are very embarrassed at their \"feelings.\" In truth, an affair is all about fantasy. No one is worried about child care, household chores, or aging parents during the affair. No one is doing laundry or dealing with fussy children. But one thing is for certain - fantasy eventually turns into reality. Statistics show that even the best relationships move from fantasy mode to reality mode after two years. And that is when deep and meaningful love comes into play. I\'m talking about the infallible love that comes between two people who have faced life\'s up and downs together. An affair can\'t and doesn\'t have that. In fact, for the most part, once reality begins to set in (and this usually happens much sooner than 2 years) that is when an affair will lose its luster.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Pondering How To Play It</strong>: Since your husband ended the affair, this cycle or process is not going to happen naturally because he decided to end it before that happened. That might be one reason why he still thinks that he has strong feelings. I know that it is hurtful and frustrating, but I\'m not sure that there is anything more effective than allowing time to work its magic. If you try to tell him that he doesn\'t or shouldn\'t feel anything, he may become ashamed, defensive, or guilty - which are all negative emotions that might make him retreat even more.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I certainly think that it can\'t hurt to be honest about how much this hurts you, but if you keep a matter-of-fact tone and take the emotion out of it, it will help to dull the emotions of his \"feelings.\" Don\'t feed the fire. Just tell yourself in your own mind that he doesn\'t see reality yet and keep working with your counselor to make your own progress. Everyone has their own path and pace, but as healing starts, many men begin to realize just how silly and delusional they have been. It is at this point that many will admit to you that their feelings were all a mirage and they\'ll try to apologize for putting you through this over a very embarrassing infatuation. Unfortunately, though, you haven\'t gotten to this place yet because not enough time or healing has happened for your husband to get the needed perspective. I know that it\'s very hard not to react to this, but there is probably enough negativity going on without adding more. Sometimes, you just have to wait to get the validation that you deserve. I know that it requires a leap of faith to know that one day he will see reality, but in my experience the overwhelming majority of men eventually do. The question is just when. Once they are away from their fantasy world and begin to gain some objectivity, the picture can become a little more clear to them.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1851, 'Why Do Husbands Risk Having An Affair And Then Beg Their Wives Not To Leave Them?', 'why-do-husbands-risk-having-an-affair-and-then-beg-their-wives-not-to-leave-them', 0, '2022-12-15 23:26:12', '2022-12-15 23:26:12', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Why Do Husbands Risk Having An Affair And Then Beg Their Wives Not To Leave Them?</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Katie Lersch\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Katie_Lersch/106531\" rel=\"author\">Katie Lersch</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On September 17, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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The wife often wracks her brain in order to figure out what his thought process might have been. Because he seems completely sincere in being desperate not to lose his family now. But what about before? Why was he willing to risk them in order to carry out the affair?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">A wife might say, \"honestly, my head is spinning. I truly do not understand. I have always told my husband that I would never, ever tolerate cheating. He seemed to understand this and emphatically said that he would never do that. I believed him. My husband is a man of high integrity. He doesn\'t make a habit of lying and being deceitful. He has been a good husband. But he cheated on me with a coworker that I actually know. I am in a club with her and at times we would chat about our families. My husband had to know this. And still, he had an affair. He knew full well that if I found out, I would probably take our children and move. The other woman also has children and a husband. Worse than this, at my husband\'s company, they are not supposed to date coworkers. So both of them were breaking the rules and there would probably be consequences for their careers if they were caught. Plus, my husband was very careless as if he wanted to get caught. But when I do confront him about it, he freaks out. He chases me around the house sobbing and saying that he can not handle it if leave him and take the kids. When I tell him that he should have thought of this before, he says that this is the problem, that he wasn\'t thinking. But the thing is, my husband is a thinker. He is not the type of person who doesn\'t know what it is doing. He had to be aware of the risks. I am sick that he did this. Why would an otherwise reasonable person risk everything to have an affair? He actually claims that he didn\'t even care all that much about her. He insists she means about next to nothing to him. If this is actually true, why would he risk all of this to cheat with her? I simply don\'t understand.\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I truly do get what you are saying. I had the same questions. I asked these questions of my own husband and of men that I\'ve interviewed for articles. Although each man, each affair, and each set of details are different, you tend to see the same themes come up over and over again. I will share those now in the hopes that something will be helpful.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>They Minimize The Risk In Their Own Mind In Any Way That They Can</strong>: If you straight out ask an honest man why he risked everything for an affair, you might get a blank look. Why? Because when they think about it after the fact, the risk is staggering, but at the time, they didn\'t internalize the risk. In fact, they did everything that they could to minimize it in their own mind. That\'s why this is all so perplexing to wives. If most of our husbands sat down and thought about exactly what might happen if they were caught, most would never go through with it. Because it\'s just not worth that risk. But they don\'t sit down and really think about it. They tell themselves that it will be a one-time thing. Or that they can and will end it very quickly. They tell themselves that their marriage and the affair are two different parts of their lives and they can keep the two away from one another.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">People who have had affairs describe it like juggling a bunch of balls in the air - constantly keeping both things going. Some even try to break off the affair, but the other person makes every attempt to keep it going. Many of them are in the process of ending things when they are caught. At that point, they\'d started to acknowledge the risk that they were taking, and they began to try to untangle themselves from it. But of course by then it is too late and they are caught.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I can\'t claim that there aren\'t some husbands who are invested in the affair and who may want to continue on with it even when they are caught. But in my experience, this is not the case with many. Most of them will tell you that if they had sat down and thought it out, they never would have done it. Most claim that they would give anything to take it back because they don\'t want to lose their family. Statistics bear this out, since more marriages survive an affair than not. In short, most men do their very best not to think about the risk.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>A Day -To-Day Perspective</strong>: When I was trying to come to terms about this in my own life, I realized that, if we are all being honest, there are some mind games that we all play with risk, but on a much smaller scale. For example, I have a family history of skin cancer. When I drive carpool, I am in the car (and therefore in the sun) for a long period of time. I know that I should wear sunscreen and most of the time, I do. But if I get in a hurry and am rushing out the door, there will be times when I will think \"stop what you are doing and put on sunscreen. You know you can\'t leave your skin unprotected.\" But because I am running late and I don\'t want to be at the back of the line, I just go without it. This puts myself and my family at risk (if I were to get cancer.) I fully know this. And yet, I push those worries in the back of my mind and I carry on. I know that this isn\'t an apples to apples comparison. Sunscreen and an affair are two very different things. But I wanted to point out that we all tend to minimize risks in our own minds. It\'s just human nature. This doesn\'t excuse your husband by a long shot. But I did want to show the process that goes into the mind games that we all play with ourselves. On a larger scale, that is how people risk everything for an affair. They simply push thoughts of risk to the very back of their minds - until they are caught or are trying to end it.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>');
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What\'s Wrong With Me?</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Katie Lersch\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Katie_Lersch/106531\" rel=\"author\">Katie Lersch</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On September 10, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; height: 30px; position: relative; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><a class=\"trigger-modal article-action\" style=\"color: #333333; display: inline-block; text-decoration-line: none; padding: 0px; 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Unfortunately, many place at least some of the blame on themselves: Why didn\'t they see it? Were they not a good wife? Is there something wrong with them that contributed to a seemingly good man cheating? Even worse, some of these wives have had previous failed relationships, so they are even more likely to blame themselves and to worry that they are going to now be in a never-ending cycle of hurtful and bad relationships.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">One of them might say, \"my mother would probably laugh at my situation if she were still alive. She told me not to marry my first husband. She told me that he wasn\'t a good person, but I ignored her. Turns out, she was very much right about him. I ended up divorcing him within five years. However, I thought I\'d hit the jackpot with my second husband. We met in a support group because we both had the same illness. My husband was so supportive of me. I thought that after the pain of my first marriage, I had finally found the one. We were really happy. Honestly, I thought that we were still very happy. We are both healthy now and I thought that life was good. But last weekend, I found out that he had cheated on me. It was not a long-term relationship. It was at the end of his treatment when he went out to celebrate. He admitted this to me himself and has begged me not to leave him. He swears that he has never cheated on anymore before. I feel like a fool. Here I thought I\'d finally found a good man. I don\'t know what to do. I loved this man and I enjoyed being married to him. But part of me thinks that something is wrong with me so that I can\'t maintain a good and healthy relationship. And yet, when I look back at my current marriage to see where I might have gone wrong, I don\'t see anything. I think that I\'ve been a good wife and my husband agrees. So why am I possibly looking at two failed marriages? What in the world is wrong with me?\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I will admit that I am biased before I even attempt to answer this question. I have dealt with infidelity. Frankly, I don\'t believe that the faithful spouse has anything wrong with them - at least in terms of infidelity. I admit that in some affairs, there were marital issues. But this is not always the case. Some people cheat who are in very healthy and happy marriages. And even when there are admitted issues, there are so many other options besides cheating. For that reason, I believe the responsibility for cheating lies with the person who cheated. That is just my take on it. And I have learned that there is no upside whatsoever to blaming yourself. You have tried to look honestly at your marriage and can say that you were a decent spouse. I am not sure what else you could have done.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">No matter what you see or don\'t see when you try to look back, the reality is now. You can\'t change the first marriage. You can only learn from it. But you are now in a position to decide what you want to do with your current marriage. However, you don\'t need to decide today, tomorrow, or even next week. You can simply gather information, gauge how you feel, and watch/wait. You could also see a therapist or read some self-help to help you to determine what is truly in your best interests.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It may help to know that people cheat for many reasons that have nothing to do with their spouse or their marriage. They cheat when they are in stressful situations (like illness.) They cheat when they have low self-esteem. They cheat when they do not feel worthy of something. I am not in any way defending the cheating. All people who cheat make a choice. I am just trying to reassure you that a spouse\'s cheating is not because of something you did. It comes back to them. Not you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The cheating also doesn\'t necessarily have to mean more failed marriages, if you do not want for it to. Of course, there are never any guarantees. Restoring a marriage after an affair is hard work. But in my experience, if you have two willing people, it can be done. This is a very individual choice. Some will decide that the marriage can\'t or shouldn\'t be saved. Some will feel that it is healthier for them to walk away. But others will feel that it is more beneficial to at least try to make it work as they are still invested in at least seeing if their marriage might be saved. Neither decision means that there is anything wrong with you. It just means that you are taking care of yourself and doing what is best for you. But one failed marriage and one infidelity doesn\'t mean that you are flawed beyond repair since marriage is a two-way street that involves two people. And you are not the one who cheated.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1853, 'How to Identify a Cheating Boyfriend?', 'how-to-identify-a-cheating-boyfriend', 0, '2022-12-15 23:26:50', '2022-12-15 23:26:50', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">How to Identify a Cheating Boyfriend?</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Kanika Saxena\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Kanika_Saxena/2335315\" rel=\"author\">Kanika Saxena</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On September 03, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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However, in current times the cases of betrayal have become commonplace. And, at such a time there arises a question, \"Should one trust his or her partner completely?\" Unfaithfulness in relationships occurs not only among married couples but also among couples who are not married. There are numerous cases of cheating boyfriends and girlfriends these days.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When a partner trusts another completely, and if he or she is betrayed it comes as a total shock for the individual. However, if a person notices certain changes in the behavior of the partner, he/she could consider investigating to ensure that everything is alright.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Let us take the case of a boyfriend cheating on his girlfriend.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>What are the warning signals for the girl?</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>1. Change in appearance</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">A cheating boyfriend changes physically so that he becomes more attractive to attract a mate. His posture changes, muscles tone up, love handles drop etc. to look pleasing.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>2. He may have issues with his memory</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Since the guy is spending so much time with you and the other lady, his mind will not be at peace. He could become forgetful. He may not be able to keep track of his schedule also.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>3. Will be lost in thoughts</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When your boyfriend is being dishonest to you, he will not give you the necessary attention. Even when he is with you, his mind may be lost in thoughts.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>4. He will become unpredictable</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Since he is trying to divide his time between you and the other woman, he will be restless. This could result in mood swings and unpredictable behavior where he tends to lose his temper often.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>5. Phone Habits change</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">He might become secretive with his phone. He may spend more time on his mobile and hide his phone from you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Although not exhaustive, these are some signs of a cheating boyfriend. Once you have noticed any of these signs or are suspicious of your boyfriend due to any reason, you will get stressed. You may be uncomfortable with your boyfriend. It could lead to a lot of unpleasantness in the relationship. There are also cases when the suspicion may not even be true and could lead to a break-up.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The best way to put your mind at ease is to hire a professional investigative agency to find out the truth for you. You could hire agents who will carry out investigations in a covert manner, maintaining complete confidentiality and uncover the truth for you. You will know for sure whether your boyfriend is cheating you or not and decide the best course of action for you.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>');
