INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1769, 'Reviews About Amolatina Dating Site', 'reviews-about-amolatina-dating-site', 0, '2022-12-15 22:37:44', '2022-12-15 22:37:44', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Reviews About Amolatina Dating Site</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Steve Y Smith\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Steve_Y_Smith/2565218\" rel=\"author\">Steve Y Smith</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On June 29, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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But, beware there are also huge number of bogus sites are running on the internet. But directly jump to these sites, check their genuine and trust level before enrolling themselves on those sites. Must verify that they are top rated site or not. Also go through the customer reviews and feedbacks which help you a lot in getting the proper idea about those sites.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For proper knowledge about that online dating site must check their previous feedback and reviews of the users. In this process, amolatina reviews are extremely negative which showcase that users of this site are not happy with their services.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Most of their customers say that this online dating site will provide them fake information regarding their selected match and even not displaying their real picture.<br />There are somehow showcase the picture of any third party, picked up randomly from the internet. Initially they are providing, you a free enrollment service but after few days, (almost less than one month) they are forcing you to take any one of the dating plan which is of higher amount.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Some of the users are even cheated by their selected person as they are not the genuine person (they are either thieves or anti-social elements).Almost every online dating site is large in size and having a bigger number of users. To attract new members they are try to offer the new members some fake discounts and showcase the bogus offers.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In some critical cases, they ask you to provide your real information for further proceeding in your case. Even in some special case, display some quality pictures of the matching partners and said that all you need to do is to pay this much amount in your account through our websites and then, we display the contact information of that person to you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As soon as members paid that amount to amolatina.com site, they either provide fake information about that person or simply blocked that person from their website. Some times after the objection of their users, they are start providing you random matching options for dating purpose.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In some case, as soon as you paid the complete amount they suddenly escape from the internet and all their contact numbers stop working. So my genuine advice to you is that not to go for amolatina.com site. They are fake as well as few days ago, we all heard about their scam.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This Review Explains If&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.amolatinascam.net/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">AmoLatina</a>&nbsp;A Con Or A Legitimate Method To Meet Latina Women In Foreign Countries.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Steve_Y_Smith/2565218\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Steve_Y_Smith/2565218</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1770, 'How to Make a Clean Break From a Stinky Relationship and Feel Guilt-Free', 'how-to-make-a-clean-break-from-a-stinky-relationship-and-feel-guilt-free', 0, '2022-12-15 22:38:08', '2022-12-15 22:38:08', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">How to Make a Clean Break From a Stinky Relationship and Feel Guilt-Free</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author ChiKoong Chong\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/ChiKoong_Chong/1348083\" rel=\"author\">ChiKoong Chong</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On November 22, 2013</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author ChiKoong Chong\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/ChiKoong-Chong_1251161.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author ChiKoong Chong\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you\'re in a relationship for the first time that has broken down, it\'s often difficult to let it go and find a \"closure.\" The word \"closure\" literally means shutting the door on anything or on a person.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In other words, closure is about leaving the past and not to drag it forward into the present. In the context of a relationship, this means letting go of that relationship and starting afresh with someone new, hopefully leading to a better one.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In fact, you can find closure in many ways. But how you do it very much depends on your mindset and specific case.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Here are 10 ways to find closure after a break-up in a stinky relationship:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>1.</strong>&nbsp;<strong>Let your close friend know that the relationship has ended, and you\'re okay with it</strong>. Get emotional support from your close friend to help you remain focused on the present as well as the future and not to dwell on the past.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>2.</strong>&nbsp;<strong>Call or meet the person you\'re ending the relationship with and initial a clean break.</strong>&nbsp;Tell the person honestly that the relationship isn\'t going the way you\'d wanted it, and it\'s better for both of you to go your separate ways.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>3. Shift your focus back to yourself.&nbsp;</strong>Your personal interests may have taken the back seat while you\'re busy with your previous relationship. It\'s time to refocus on yourself and restart from where you\'ve left out on the things that you\'ve always wanted to do.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>4. Embrace a new hobby or activity to keep you occupied.</strong>&nbsp;If you\'re always out on Friday evenings, perhaps it\'s now time to spend time with your close friends for some meaningful activities or to watch movies. Alternatively, you could help out at some charitable events.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>5. Stop thinking about your old relationship.</strong>&nbsp;Try not to think about your old relationship anymore. If you do, tell yourself reasons for letting the person go and that it isn\'t worth hanging on to it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>6. Use a mantra to help you refocus.</strong>&nbsp;Keep repeating this mantra in your mind, and soon you\'ll begin to believe in it. You\'ll soon begin to behave differently, but for the better.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>7. Get rid of stuff that reminds you of the relationship.</strong>&nbsp;You need not throw them away, but just keep them away in a box where the stuff could be out of your sight. Perhaps, at some time in the future you\'ll have the strength to revisit them, which will bring back fond memories instead of being tugged back into the past.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>8. Maintain your well-being.&nbsp;</strong>Adopt a healthy lifestyle by practicing healthy eating, having regular exercise and having enough sleep. Be sure to keep yourself well-hydrated by drinking plenty of water throughout each day.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>9. If you\'re feeling sorrowful over the break up, let it out.</strong>&nbsp;It\'s understandable for you to feel sorrowful when the relationship ends. Don\'t hold back your emotion; just cry it out.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>10. Find out what has gone wrong in the relationship.</strong>&nbsp;Look back at this when you\'re comfortable, that this will not stir your emotion.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- If it\'s too hurtful to talk to the person, write the person a note instead.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- Remove the person\'s contact from your phone memory.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- Remove photographs where the two of you were together.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- Keep away the presents the person gave you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- Write in your diary on your feelings, so you can get them out rather than bottling them in.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- If you\'ve done something that could have played a part in the break-up, acknowledge it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- Take cognizant of the signs that foretell the impending ending of the relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- Resolve not to make the same mistakes in your future relationships.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you\'re the one not wanting the relationship to end, it\'s likely you may still be \'holding the torch\' for that person. In this case, you may find it hard to find closure, but remind yourself that the emotional cost for holding out hope could be way too high for you to bear.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In the best interests of your well-being, conscience and happiness, turn over a new chapter in your life and accept that the relationship has ended. Let go of the past, shut the door and go into a brighter future.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For more informative articles from this author, please visit his Blog at&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://avanti-e.store/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://avanti-e.store</a>.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/ChiKoong_Chong/1348083\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/ChiKoong_Chong/1348083</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1771, 'How to Know His the One', 'how-to-know-his-the-one', 0, '2022-12-15 22:38:28', '2022-12-15 22:38:28', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">How to Know His the One</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Jennifer Patrick\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Jennifer_Patrick/2562965\" rel=\"author\">Jennifer Patrick</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On July 05, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=9971296&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In a world were there are a lot of pretense and impression management. How do you know his the one.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Someone posted a picture on Facebook she said \'\' I must do a lot of stroking because the pretense is too much\'\' the picture shows a handsome guy with a perfect beard at the right but the left side of the face shows his beard was fixed not actually real.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When a young man is ready for marriage except fear nothing else holds you can walk up and propose but when a young girl is ready she can\'t just propose all she does is to make known she\'s available.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">My mentor usually say \'\' love may bring people together but love does not keep people in marriage you need more than just love to stay in marriage \".</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Natural affection alone can not stand the stress of marriage. It is not enough to just look at the physical attraction in a person and the end up with the person. There are principles for choosing a life partner. These principles are</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; KNOWLEDGE: The only reason people choose wrongly in the choice of a life partner is because they lack knowledge, not having the right information. The society feeds us with the wrong information on marriage. Some people follow the tends of social media to choose a life partner and ends up walking out of the marriage. A friend of mine said, she won\'t get married till she has ten million for the wedding. Although, there\'s nothing wrong with getting ten million for marriage but having that kind of idea will get you either the wrong or the right partner.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; DIVINE GUIDANCE: We need guidance from God to know his the one. How can you get this guidance, simple! from the word of God. Study the word of God and what it talks about marriage. Pray about it and you will definitely receive your answer. &bull;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; SEEK COUNSEL AND CONFIRMATION: Talk to your mentors, take him to your family, talk to people; You can\'t know it all. You need someone to confirm what you have in your spirit, you might have received the word but you need confirmation.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; WHAT DOES HE PROVOKE IN YOU: Does he provoke your weakness, does he provoke your emotional needs, your physical needs or does he provoke PURPOSE in you. Does he make you want become a better you. Check what he provokes in you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; HIS HE WILLING TO SHARE: His he self sacrificing, does he share his time, his joy and of cause is money with you.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Relationship expert,writer and motivational speaker, Jennifer Patrick has a deep insight on matters of the heart including self love and family. she also teaches stuff that has nothing to do with dating, but are beneficial.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You can reach her or send her a mail on&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"mailto:jenniferpatrick838@gmail.com\">jenniferpatrick838@gmail.com</a></p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Jennifer_Patrick/2562965\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Jennifer_Patrick/2562965</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1772, 'Do Not Be Unequally Yoked With Unbelievers', 'do-not-be-unequally-yoked-with-unbelievers', 0, '2022-12-15 22:39:08', '2022-12-15 22:39:08', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Do Not Be Unequally Yoked With Unbelievers</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Robert Alan Stewart\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Robert_Alan_Stewart/2287449\" rel=\"author\">Robert Alan Stewart</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On July 08, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Robert Alan Stewart\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Robert-Alan-Stewart_2150136.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Robert Alan Stewart\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">\"Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness.\" 2 Corinthians 6:14</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">What does it mean to be yoked to someone?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When you are yoked to someone you are joined to them; as far as matrimony goes, you are yoked to someone who you are married to. It is not necessarily applicable to marriage however, as you could be yoked to someone by simply being close friends with them.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">What does the dictionary give as the meaning of yoked?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It is a wooden bar attached to two collars which is laid across the necks of animals, such as oxen to hold them together, and to which a plough, or other tool may be attached.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Another meaning of yoke is when someone is being oppressed.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">A person who is yoked to someone is joined to them.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In the parable of the prodigal son, the younger son when he hit rock bottom joined himself to the citizens of the land. He was mucking out pig sty.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">What this tells us is that his lifestyle choices led him to the bottom of life\'s barrels. He would have gladly filled his stomach with what the swine ate but no one gave him anything. The lesson here is that you will only discover who your real friends are when you hit rock bottom, and the younger son in this parable chose friends who were only after his money. They were false friends.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The people who he joined himself to were not compatible with the values he was taught by his father and he became just like them.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You become more and more like the people you spend most of your time with.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">What do righteousness and lawlessness have in common or light have in common with darkness?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you have been taught the right values by your parents then you should be THE light in the darkness.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">A believer should not form relations with an unbeliever; you may say, \"I will change them.\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">No you won\'t, they will change you. When you form a relationship with someone you inherit their network of friends and you will gradually conform to their lifestyle.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This involves saying, \"No,\" to invitations to join others in doing stuff with you know you shouldn\'t.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Some people will not like you for it but if they get upset then let them, that is their problem, not yours.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">My blog&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"http://www.christiancapers.wordpress.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">http://www.christiancapers.wordpress.com</a>&nbsp;has further information on dating for christians and some advice on choosing a life partner.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Robert_Alan_Stewart/2287449\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Robert_Alan_Stewart/2287449</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1773, 'The Dangers of Bad Company', 'the-dangers-of-bad-company', 0, '2022-12-15 22:39:27', '2022-12-15 22:39:27', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">The Dangers of Bad Company</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Robert Alan Stewart\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Robert_Alan_Stewart/2287449\" rel=\"author\">Robert Alan Stewart</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On June 23, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Robert Alan Stewart\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Robert-Alan-Stewart_2150136.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Robert Alan Stewart\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">1 Corinthians 15:33<br />\"Don\'t be deceived, bad company corrupts good habits.\"<br />What does it mean to be deceived?<br />It means to be misled.<br />If you will open your eyes to observe life around you, you will learn about life and how other people live their lives. It will give you the ability to make better choices and reduce your chances of being.<br />Bad company will lead you astray.<br />There is an expectation with every group of people you hang around with and it is this; they will expect you to conform to their mindset and this will lead you to conform to their behaviour patterns. This is applicable whether the group has good or bad values. It is up to you to use your commonsense.<br />What is bad company?<br />That is a company that is involved in activity which you know is wrong and this may not necessarily be illegal.<br />Bad company will corrupt you.<br />What does corrupt mean?<br />According to the Collins School Dictionary Corrupt means, \"To corrupt someone is to make them dishonest or immoral.\"<br />You may be doing all of the right things, you don\'t smoke and only have the occasional drink, have a job, and go to church but then begin to hangout with someone who does not know God and is involved in activity which you have been taught is wrong. It will not be long before their lifestyle becomes part of yours.<br />At first the changes in your mindset is negligible but day by day just as a dripping hot water tap will use up all of the hot water one drip at a time, your lifestyle will gradually change to a point when you have more in common with sinners than you have with your church brothers and sisters.<br />Finally what are habits?<br />They are a pattern of behaviour you have developed during your lifetime; they can be good habits or bad habits.<br />A good habit is to have the habit of saving money from your wages for future prosperity while a bad habit is to spend every single penny you earn and borrow for stuff you cannot afford to buy.<br />Some scriptures translations replace the word habit with character.<br />Character is who they are but reputation is what people say about you.<br />\"You can tell a person\'s character by the company they keep,\" my father sometimes said and it is true.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Bad company destroys lives. It ruins a person\'s potential, therefore it is important to be diligent with the company you keep. My blog&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"http://www.christiancapers.wordpress.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">http://www.christiancapers.wordpress.com</a>&nbsp;has a lot to say about that.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Robert_Alan_Stewart/2287449\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Robert_Alan_Stewart/2287449</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1774, 'Happy Habits for Relationships', 'happy-habits-for-relationships', 0, '2022-12-15 22:40:03', '2022-12-15 22:40:03', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Happy Habits for Relationships</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Tina Tessina\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Tina_Tessina/34086\" rel=\"author\">Tina Tessina</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On June 16, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Tina Tessina\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Tina-Tessina_146914.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Tina Tessina\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Romance is a way to express your love, the icing on the cake. But don\'t wait for special occasions to express your love. Make sure that you nurture your loving relationship by practicing these basic habits in your day-to-day life. These may seem very basic, but how many do you practice regularly? Don\'t despair... it\'s never too late to adopt good, loving habits.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Most couples who come to my counseling practice because of problems report that their marriage lost its romance long ago. It\'s easy to feel romantic when you live separately and date each other, because every moment spent together is special. From the moment you begin to live together, such romantic moments are no longer automatic. Instead, much of your time together is spent on more mundane things: doing laundry, washing dishes, paying bills, or going to work. Although this can be new, exciting and fun at first, as soon as the initial newness of living together wears off, such everyday things cease to feel exciting and romantic, and you may find yourself feeling worried that your partner no longer cares as much or is as excited to be with you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Developing these good relationship habits will make a big difference in your happiness.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Good Relationship Habits</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>1. Don\'t resist, listen.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">We often have a knee-jerk negative response to what a mate tells us, or wants to do. Instead of replying negatively, \"That won\'t work... \" \"We can\'t do that... \" Try listening and thinking for a few seconds more. You may find out your initial response changes, and at any rate, listening and understanding is not the same as agreeing. When your spouse feels that you care about what he or she is saying, the nature of the communication will change for the better.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>2. Ramp up the sweetness.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Married life has its unavoidable stresses and strains. To keep things in balance, we need to put a bit of energy into increasing the sweetness between us. Thoughtfulness, \'thank you\'s\' and gestures of politeness and affection are the WD-40 of your marriage. Say \"I love you\" every day. Keep things running smoothly by remembering to add a spritz of sweetness frequently. You\'ll be amazed at how good you feel, and how much more responsive your partner is.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">3.&nbsp;<strong>Kiss good-bye and hello.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Throw in a hug while you\'re at it. Affection keeps the juices flowing, and the romance alive.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>4. Keep your courting behavior.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Treat your partner even better than when you were dating... Remember that you are sweethearts. Touch each other. Sit near your significant other, and gently place your hand on his or her shoulder, leg, or arm. If you\'re in the car, lightly touch his or her shoulder or arm. You\'ll find your conversation becomes warmer and more caring. If you\'ve been struggling, or are ready to forgive each other, facing each other and holding both hands will help you feel more positively connected and reassured.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>5. Don\'t sweat the small stuff.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You can let his/her bad habits bother you to distraction... or you can accept them, and work around them. Does she leave the cap off the toothpaste? Buy separate tubes... Does he leave clothes laying around? Ignore them, or pick them up, remembering just how much he does for you in other ways. Or, make it easier for your partner to satisfy you... place hampers and clothes trees within easy reach.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>6. Concentrate on the positive.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Instead of thinking about the ways that s/he lets you down, think of all the positive things about your partner that drew you to them in the first place.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>7. Take a breather when you\'re mad.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t try to talk when either of you are angry. Take a few minutes to walk around the block, lay down, just get away from each other so you can regroup. A short break will allow you both to stay on track and discuss what\'s bothering you instead of accidentally making personal insults that you will regret later.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>8. Don\'t use your partner\'s secrets or weaknesses against them... ever!</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">What may seem insignificant, trivial, or cute to you may be serious to your partner. Recognize what is important to your partner, and don\'t discuss it with your friends, mother, his family, anyone! And certainly don\'t throw the words back at them in an argument. A loving relationship is one of the most intimate and trusting that anyone can have.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>9. Think about your partner first.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If both of you do this, then you can\'t help but win! Remember that first and foremost, before anything else, you\'re partners. Keep that in mind and check frequently to make sure you\'re acting like partners, and not competitors or avoiders. You\'re in this thing together, and partnership is what it\'s all about. Say \'yes\' to your partner as often as possible... go to that sports event with him, get him out on that golf course because he loves golf, visit her family, make life easier for your partner, and hopefully they will do the same for you! Mutuality is the key.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>10. Respect each other.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t badmouth your partner to anyone, even joking! Negative words have a habit of lingering around and popping up when things go wrong. When you talk about your partner, let your respect and love shine through. Unless your partner is talking about something really sad (job loss, death, etc.) where a smile would be inappropriate, look him or her in the eyes and smile while you\'re listening. Your companion will automatically feel more understood and cared about, which will change the feeling level of the discussion. This doesn\'t mean to stare unblinkingly, but just to look frequently for a few seconds at a time, to communicate your attentiveness.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>11. Find a way to regroup together every day.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Discover what works well for you both... eat a meal together, meet for happy hour drinks, skip TV at night and just lay in bed in the dark, take a walk around the block, etc. You can even mix things up and vary your routine. If one of you is travelling, call home at night just to hear their voice. The point is to spend time together daily, just talking or breathing the same air, feeling connected. No matter how crazed you are with work, kids and bills, it\'s essential to put aside regular time each week for the marriage. Have a \"date night\" which includes a \"state of the union\" discussion or take a pleasant walk or drive. Keeping connected means things don\'t build up to fighting status, and you\'ll remember how good you are together. Don\'t forget to celebrate and appreciate each other. Motivation comes from celebration and appreciation, so when you spend pleasant time together, you\'ll both be more motivated to make your marriage as good as possible.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>12. Try laughter.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If something frustrating is happening, try easing the tension with a bit of humor. After a difficult interaction in a store, on the way out, you could say, \"That went well.\" with a touch of irony. Or, when someone drops something and makes a mess, you could say, \"the gremlins are here again\" \"It\'s always something\" or \"It could happen\" to change stress to silliness. Don\'t poke fun at your mate, but use shared humor as a way to say \"I know this is tough, but we\'ll get through it.\" Your mate will think of you as someone soothing and helpful to have around when problems happen.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>13. Use pleasant surprises.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Try a love note in your spouse\'s briefcase, a post-it with a smiley face on the underside of the toilet seat, a flower, plant, card or balloon for no reason, or an unexpected gentle pat on the rear, a hug or a kiss to say \"I\'m thinking good thoughts about you, and I love you.\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>14. Reminisce about Good Times.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">\"Remember when... \" is a great beginning to a loving conversation. It creates so much good feeling to remember how you were when you were dating, when you got married, when you first bought your house, when you had your first child, when you got that promotion. Reminding yourselves of your solid history together is a way to increase your bond.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>15. Brag to friends in your mate\'s hearing.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Of course, tell your mate to his or her face how much you care, but also be sure to tell your friends, while your mate is around, what a great guy or gal you married. \"Harold is so thoughtful. Today he helped me around the house.\" Or \"Sue is such a great mom. She really gives the kids a sense that they\'re loved and she still keeps them toeing the mark.\" Or, \"Did you hear? Fred got a big promotion. I\'m so proud of him.\" Or, \"I don\'t know what I\'d do without Judy. She\'s so great with money.\" Or, \"Doesn\'t my sweetie look great today? I\'m so lucky.\" Don\'t worry if your partner looks embarrassed. He or she will also be pleased, and remember your brag for a long time.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Remember... the more you put into your relationship, the more you gain! Make love and romance a part of your daily life!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Adapted from:How to Be Happy Partners: Working it out Together&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://tinyurl.com/ycvrckus\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://tinyurl.com/ycvrckus</a></p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Author Bio: Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. (www.tinatessina.com) is a licensed psychotherapist in S. California since 1978 with over 40 years\' experience in counseling individuals and couples and author of 15 books in 17 languages, including Dr. Romance\'s Guide to Finding Love Today; It Ends With You: Grow Up and Out of Dysfunction; The Ten Smartest Decisions a Woman Can Make After Forty; Love Styles: How to Celebrate Your Differences, The Real 13th Step, How to Be Happy Partners: Working it Out Together and How to Be a Couple and Still Be Free. She writes the \"Dr. Romance\" blog (drromance.typepad.com), and the \"Happiness Tips from Tina\" email newsletter. Online, she\'s known as \"Dr. Romance\" and offers courses at GenerousMarriage.com. Dr. Tessina appears frequently on radio, TV, video and podcasts. She tweets @tinatessina</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Tina_Tessina/34086\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Tina_Tessina/34086</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1775, 'With All These Riots of Black Discrimination Its Still Fun to Date Black Girls', 'with-all-these-riots-of-black-discrimination-its-still-fun-to-date-black-girls', 0, '2022-12-15 22:40:37', '2022-12-15 22:40:37', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">With All These Riots of Black Discrimination Its Still Fun to Date Black Girls</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Madan G Singh\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Madan_G_Singh/148323\" rel=\"author\">Madan G Singh</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On June 05, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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It will not be out of place to mention that africabeauty.com is a site that panders to the exotic. Ever since Dr. Ward of London started a black white sex group the white man has always thirsted for an exotic relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This site caters to that fantasy and is dedicated to the man who desires an exotic black woman from Africa or America. Africa Beauties lets you browse through ladies profiles for free; however communication requires upgrading to a paid membership and earning credits. The site is an American site and was founded in 2001&lt;br /&gt;Many services are available, including email and even translation services. Video profiles make it easy for you and your potential match to get to know each other, even from a long distance The site has global reach and men anywhere in the world can become members of this site.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">AfricaBeauties: What Makes It Better? As in all fields of commerce, this site also have a number of rivals. The important ones are beyondblackwhite.com, bvbarmy.com, black weblog awards.com among others. The field is crowded and there is a bewildering array of sites. However Africa beauty has some distinct differentiations compared to other similar sites.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Firstly the reach is global and even if you are a man in the USA or Italy for that matter, the site is easily accessible. Secondly there are a lot of africacoupon.com and coupon codes on line that can be used by you. Africa Beauties has also developed a wide range of dating tools with which their partners work and earn money. A major advantage of the site is that many of these women come from English knowing backgrounds.As an American-owned company, Africabeauties.com is subject to and fully compliant with the International Marriage Brokers Regulation Act (IMBRA), a US federal law which regulates U.S. based International Marriage Brokers (IMBs).</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">They also have Date a Lady; program, which requires you to write at least five letters to a lady and open at least five responses from her. Once the exchange of letters is complete, you may proceed further.This site is worth exploring and there is no harm in giving it a try. Why! even men from India and Pakistan can have a shot and may be a lovely African girl could be your date and in your arms.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\"></div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Madan_G_Singh/148323\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Madan_G_Singh/148323</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1776, 'Romance Is Not Necessarily Love', 'romance-is-not-necessarily-love', 0, '2022-12-15 22:41:59', '2022-12-15 22:41:59', '<div id=\"page\" class=\"article-view\" style=\"background-position: 0px 30px; margin-top: 54px; float: none; width: 960px; background-color: #ffffff; overflow: visible; border-radius: 3px 0px 0px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;\">\r\n<div id=\"page-inner\" style=\"padding: 1em 2em;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Romance Is Not Necessarily Love</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Tina Tessina\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Tina_Tessina/34086\" rel=\"author\">Tina Tessina</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 22, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In romantic depictions of love, cute little images of cherubs and cupids abound. But Cupid, in his real incarnation, is not so sweet and cuddly. His arrows can create deep and lasting wounds, and can strike you blind and irrational in a heartbeat. A few disaster-filled run-ins with Cupid\'s dart and you can readily believe that love will never work for you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Even if you take responsibility for your own life in most ways and successfully handle most work and social situations, when it comes to intimate relationships you may feel helpless and out of control. You may find yourself inexplicably obsessing on someone who isn\'t available or interested, or even feeling so needy and helpless that you are unable to protect yourself when you are criticized, abused or degraded. It\'s a very painful experience when a romantic relationship with the partner whom you hope and expect will provide you with love, joy and fulfillment of our dreams turns into a miserable, disappointing and dismal failure.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>A Dependent Image of Love</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When it comes to love, it\'s easy to forget how to think clearly, because we have all been bombarded with images that imply love and dependency are the same thing:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Lovers should depend on each other to supply their needs, to take care of them and \"make it better\",</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Lovers should need each other \"You are my happiness, I\'d die without you\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Lovers are incomplete without each other, and that two should \"become one\"-losing their individual personalities, friends, interests and opinions in the process.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This dependent image of love has been reinforced for generations of songs, poetry, plays, books, movies and television soap operas that have celebrated a dependent model of romantic relationships that contains neediness, desperation and the idea that only love (from a perfect partner) can make life better. This \"ideal lover\" is supposed to:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Love you no matter how unreasonable you are,</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Always be there when you want or need him or her,</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Always know exactly how to sooth your hurts,</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Always know (and be prepared to give you) precisely what you want (even if you\'re not sure yourself), and</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Put your needs before his or her own needs.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This \"romantic\" image of love sounds good, but although it seems exciting and fulfilling at first, such a relationship cannot flourish. Since no one else can ever care for you as well as you can yourself (they can\'t know your needs and wants as well as you do, they can\'t tell what their care-taking feels like to you, and they also have their hands full with their own needs), one or both of you will wind up feeling ripped off, used, neglected, unloved, and generally dissatisfied.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The romantic ideal creates dysfunctional relationships, in which the ground rules are:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; You can\'t talk about it (it might upset the other person),</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; It\'s hopeless (since you can\'t talk about it, you can\'t solve it together), and</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; We\'re both helpless (we can\'t control our own behavior, or outbursts of anger, or make effective choices).</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Partner as Parent</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In part, we have unrealistic fantasies about love because our first experience (and basic model) of intimate relationships was with parents who took care of us as children (and perhaps did not encourage us to become self-sufficient and responsible); or with parents who were not fully there to take care of us (as we knew they should).</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">While, on the surface, we are looking for someone we can enjoy and have fun with, our dependent, romantic inner self is secretly searching for a substitute for a parent-someone who will take care of us make our old wounds better, care about our feelings, and accept us for who we are. If you, like so many people, come from a family where you suffered rejection or abandonment at an early age, when you begin to search for a romantic partner, all too often, you find a substitute parent who is like the real parent who let you down, and you wind up repeating the old, subconscious patterns.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you and your partner are fighting over silly things, if one or both of you suddenly \"blows up\" or gets angry and the other one doesn\'t understand why, or if you feel very unsatisfied and restless in your relationship, consider that one or both of you may have some confusion about the difference between parental love, and love between equal partners.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>A Mature Model of Love</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When you let go of the dependent, childish view of love, and use the more adult model, you\'ll get a different picture of familial love. Mature love is mutually caring, mutually giving and mutually responsible, without the dependent, needy or controlling imbalance of power present in the child/parent model. When you take responsibility for making love mutually satisfying, and expect equal maturity, responsibility and respect from your partner, you increase your power to receive and give love at full capacity, while retaining your self-esteem and sense of competence.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For more understanding of this, read \"&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"http://www.tinatessina.com/when-love-is-kind.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">When Love is Kind: Mutuality in Relationships</a>&nbsp;\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Adapted from:&nbsp;<em>Lovestyles: How to Celebrate Your Differences</em>&nbsp;(Kindle and Paperback)</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\"></div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Tina_Tessina/34086\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Tina_Tessina/34086</a></p>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div class=\"footer-container\" style=\"width: 960px; height: auto; position: relative; overflow: hidden; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div class=\"bottom-gdfp-container\" style=\"width: 960px; margin: 10px auto;\">\r\n<div id=\"1671073541370329235\"></div>\r\n</div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div class=\"clear-both\" style=\"clear: both; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; background-color: #ffffff; text-decoration-thickness: initial; text-decoration-style: initial; text-decoration-color: initial;\">&nbsp;</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1777, 'Age Differences in Dating', 'age-differences-in-dating', 0, '2022-12-15 22:42:23', '2022-12-15 22:42:23', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Age Differences in Dating</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Tina Tessina\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Tina_Tessina/34086\" rel=\"author\">Tina Tessina</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 19, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Tina Tessina\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Tina-Tessina_146914.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Tina Tessina\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Dr. Romance gets a lot of letters about older women dating younger men, which appears to be shocking to some people, but I don\'t find it so unusual.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Why would a younger man want to date an older woman? Who isn\'t attracted to success, smarts and experience? Young men can find this just as attractive in an older woman as in anyone else. Perhaps he enjoys the mentoring, perhaps just the emotional stability of an older woman who knows her mind and her heart. These relationships can last; it\'s not age that makes the difference, but how well the couple build trust, partnership and a life together.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Socially, there is a role reversal of sorts going on, women are more powerful, and may want men who are younger and therefore, more flexible: men who can handle it if the woman\'s career and lifestyle are more important. Movies and TV shows are also showing women that dates don\'t have to be older. Women who have high-powered careers or a well-developed self-image and want freedom and flexibility are exercising more choice. Women who have been divorced and are established single moms may enjoy having a playmate, someone to have fun with, who doesn\'t try to control her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In my counseling office, I have seen many relationships succeed with this kind of older woman/younger man scenario. The media focuses on the age difference, but what really makes or breaks the relationship is how well the couple can form a partnership or team that works.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Age difference is an adolescent worry: when you\'re a teenager, an age difference of even two or three years makes a vast difference in your experience and your outlook on life. Such a difference can interfere with communication, life goals, outlook, and relationship experience. In addition, for the young, the social reaction to such a relationship is often very negative. If one partner is underage, a sexual relationship is even against the law.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">But, as you get older, life experience and emotional growth help to equalize your relationship skills and resources. A ten-year or more difference in your ages makes little difference in how well you can conduct your relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t focus on an arbitrary numbers difference in your ages. If you are getting along, you have good communication and problem-solving, and you love each other, that\'s a precious thing, and far more important than any age difference could be. If other people have a problem with it, let it be their problem.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Whether or not a relationship is healthy is not determined by age differences, but by the interaction between the partners. A ten-year difference is not too difficult to bridge, but differences of twenty years or more in age can lead to some difficulties as the partners get older. For example, the younger partner may mature and reconsider his or her choices, or an older partner may confront aging problems much sooner. But, as long as both parties are adult, and the couple has talked about their age difference and the future possibilities, I don\'t make judgments about their respective ages.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The reasons some people choose to date individuals much younger (or older) than themselves are myriad, and often go back to childhood. There are healthy and unhealthy reasons to date someone of a different generation. One inappropriate motivation for dating a younger person is fear of aging on the older person\'s part. A younger partner isn\'t going to reverse the aging process or protect you from old age. Obviously, a man or woman who dates someone as young as his or her children is going to run into some social opposition, but the differences that can cause the biggest problems within the couple relationship are differing maturity levels.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Most of us are used to older men dating younger women, but as more and more women choose younger partners for relationships, the question arises: Are women in their late 30\'s and early 40\'s likely to be successful with partners who are 10-15 years younger than themselves?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Success in these relationships depends on what the motivations of both people are. Some older people feel younger at heart than their contemporaries, and like to date people who are as active as they are. Chronological age doesn\'t always reflect either physical capability or emotional maturity. Sometimes an age difference is a mentoring relationship-the older person advises the younger one on life or career. This can backfire if and when the younger person decides he or she has learned enough, and wants to move on.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you\'re asking: \"Is it OK for me to have a partner who is much older or younger than I am?\" You\'ll do better if you forget about your ages, and concentrate on whether the relationship works for both of you, or not. What really makes a romantic relationship succeed is the emotional connection, rather than external appearance. Men are more visually focused. A woman who connects with a much younger man may be powerful in career, and looking for someone to play with. It\'s difficult to tell without knowing the couple.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\"></div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Tina_Tessina/34086\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Tina_Tessina/34086</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1778, 'How to Fall in Love Easily Again Without Appearing Desperate', 'how-to-fall-in-love-easily-again-without-appearing-desperate', 0, '2022-12-15 22:42:45', '2022-12-15 22:42:45', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">How to Fall in Love Easily Again Without Appearing Desperate</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Stan Onodu\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487\" rel=\"author\">Stan Onodu</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 15, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Stan Onodu\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Stan-Onodu_603951.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Stan Onodu\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Have you been so hurt in your relationships that you have sworn never to love again? Has your heart been broken and shattered by someone you trusted entirely?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I had suffered severely in the hands of one girl early in my search for true love. No sooner had we met, did she present to me a myriad of fake conditions that seemed pathetic. She tricked me into believing that she had a lot of family challenges ranging from her mother being bed-ridden in her village to her facing imminent eviction from her apartment by her land lady. I saw myself as a God-sent for her and I was doing all I possibly could to support her. I paid her house rent for an outright twelve months. I put food on her table. I covered her nakedness and I was constantly footing the medical bills for her sick mother. On the few occasions when the animal in me would rise to demand for sex from her, my conscience would tell me that it would look as if I was helping because of sex. I never deliberately hurt her for any reason. At a point, in spite of the challenges, I was then focusing on proposing to her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">But along the line, I started having pressure as my financial reserve was fast depleting. And to make matters worse, I was released from my job. I became jobless.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Unbelievably, as my girl got the wind of this, she started her tactical withdrawal plan. When the going was good, she used to come visiting practically unannounced with one problem or another. And I would go out of my way to provide a solution(s). But as at that time, she was then showing up at my house once in a blue moon with a range of excuses. I was washing clothes all day! I went to the market and I got so tired after, etc. She would not care about me anymore. I became a nonentity for her. I became an idiot for her. And eventually, she disappeared.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I was deeply depressed. And I fell into love comatose for good six months. When I \'woke\' up from that coma, I decided that there was no way I was going to love again.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Surprisingly, statistics around the World show that I was not alone. A lot of men and women have been maltreated or mistreated in their relationships that they had sworn never to love again.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">But what I have found is that no man is an island. It\'s love that makes the World go round. I could imagine if it had worked out between two of us, how blissful that would have been - loving each other so dearly and experiencing the kind of relationships we had dreamed about together.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I had 3 key things I did to help myself come out of that pit of sorrow onto the limelight of love again.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&iuml;&sect; Forgive and Forget: I discovered that the only way to move forward in life and especially in relationships is to release myself and my ex by forgiving and forgetting. It was not easy I must confess, but I had to put in that deliberate effort to make it happen. And I can tell you that it was actually rewarding.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&iuml;&sect; Focus on Future Relationships: Yesterday was history and it is important that you focus on the present and the future. That experience helped me to learn a lot. It helped me to re-evaluate my values and set my relationship boundaries more appropriately.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&iuml;&sect; Focus on Your Passion: What are you good at? Or what do you want to be good at? This has a lot to do with self love. What is it that makes you happy. I re-discovered my passion, and that is helping people come out of their relationship challenges. I derive a lot of fun doing it!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Love is worth re-igniting irrespective of how many times you might have been disappointed and your heart broken. Open your eyes to see so you can fall in love again with the person worthy of your love.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Stan Onodu is the author of \'Just Your Prince, Kiss Frogs No More\' who helps men and women that are ready to marry attract and choose their perfect life partners without pre-marital sex. You can learn more here: [http://www.lastinghotlove.com].</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1779, 'Are You His Priority or He Is Too Busy to Love You?', 'are-you-his-priority-or-he-is-too-busy-to-love-you', 0, '2022-12-15 22:43:05', '2022-12-15 22:43:05', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Are You His Priority or He Is Too Busy to Love You?</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Roshni Poddar Chawla\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Roshni_Poddar_Chawla/124513\" rel=\"author\">Roshni Poddar Chawla</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 11, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Roshni Poddar Chawla\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Roshni-Poddar-Chawla_105861.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Roshni Poddar Chawla\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Relationships are mutual bond and cannot be handle single-handedly. Accordingly, you always need both individuals to contribute and grow together. But sometimes it becomes very difficult and clouds of insecurities engulf you in difficult times.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>So, what should you do?</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Should you let these insecurities flood dreadful emotions in your relations and de-root all love that is left between you or you should take control and move ahead to build it strong. I will always choose the latter because I don\'t believe in giving up on my relationship until there still hope left. I know it sounds too optimistic but I truly believe that no one is perfect it is how much we want to adjust with the individual. Mutual grounds have to be sometimes created in its absence.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Let me outline a few good indicators to judge that is he really serious and committed to your relationship as much you deserve. Is he making a little effort to hold you back in his life? Is he still into you or maybe you need to take some break and breathe in some fresh air?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Even if he is busy, he makes a little effort to stay in touch</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Yes, maybe he is actually busy but does he make small gestures like texting you a smiley or a heart while rushing to a huge event or have small tea talks to keep you informed and ask you about your wellbeing. I am not saying whether he gives you a call for an hour or not but a small call of a min or two also will make the difference. If he does it trust me these are better signs than fighting over the long call-in weekend.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Your opinion matters</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So, maybe he does not always ask you the t-shirt he should be wearing or the dates he should travel to. However, while making a bigger decision that might impact you both and your relationship, he consults you believe me the love is still there.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>He loves it when you like it</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">He still makes genuine efforts to enjoy with you and make you feel special whenever he can. This matters the most and will help you find if he thinks about you when he is not around you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>You see respect in his eyes</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Mutually you should always respect each other because respect is the foundation of all relationships. No matter what he might cut you short but be apologetic about it and treat you like his lady love. This should make the difference and make you feel incredible</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>He never avoids you and proves to be a good listener</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So, it\'s clear he is busy but he needs to make it up to you when you need him. So even if he is not available immediately when something happens but listens to you whenever you can.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>He supports you in your dreams</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">He is no god to you and there is nothing that he is helping you achieve your dream as a favor. Rather, expect him to be supportive of your dreams and contribute to building a better you to achieve them.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>You are his priority</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Whenever he returns back from work and he gets his me-time you are the first thing in his mind or at least in top 5. Give him space to breathe but you would expect attention from him every now and then. So, if he is nose to the grindstone sucked at work, he might not be expressive about his love every moment but will need to have a balance created to not make you feel secluded and alone</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Just being physical is not the motive. He makes efforts to help you even when it is not convenient.You both are a part of each other\'s life.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Roshni Chawla is a liberal traveler and a kickass blogger with diversified career experience. From being an IT Project Manager to an entrepreneur was never easy. With the experience of working with several brands, she was born and raised in Kolkata. Traveling - a quintessential essence in her life; every day, she added new jewels to her crown. I have a relationship blog&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"http://lovemoneyorme.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">http://lovemoneyorme.com/</a></p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Roshni_Poddar_Chawla/124513\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Roshni_Poddar_Chawla/124513</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1780, 'The World\'s Best Kept Secret to Get Your Man to Commit Even When He Thinks He\'s Not Ready Yet', 'the-world-s-best-kept-secret-to-get-your-man-to-commit-even-when-he-thinks-he-s-not-ready-yet', 0, '2022-12-15 22:43:25', '2022-12-15 22:43:25', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">The World\'s Best Kept Secret to Get Your Man to Commit Even When He Thinks He\'s Not Ready Yet</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Stan Onodu\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487\" rel=\"author\">Stan Onodu</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 10, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Stan Onodu\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Stan-Onodu_603951.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Stan Onodu\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">How long have you dated your present partner?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Some ladies have fallen into the trap of being in a relationship for 5 to 10 years. This is sometimes occasioned by the fear of losing that tall and handsome young man you have met. It could be that you had remained lonely for a long time before meeting him and you\'re now afraid of falling back to loneliness if you left him.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You think of those sweet words that are whispered into your ears when you\'re together. You remember the care and attention he showers on you. He lifts you up when you\'re feeling emotionally drained and when you express your feelings to him, he grants you a listening ear. You remember how he had taken you round the World in \'7\' days and all the great memories you\'ve had together. Not to talk about the explosive orgasmic sexual episodes you do have together.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">With all these seemingly great relationships, the man is still not proposing to you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There are some, however, whose relationships have been violent and turbulent, and yet the lady finds it so difficult to leave the man. Neighbors often break doors to separate fights but the lady refuses to call it quits.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This is worrisome as is disturbing. The question is: why is this so?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When you look back, it\'s been a long time. You have spent the prime part of your life with him and you begin to imagine the societal blame and shame. You see yourself a 100% loser if you should chicken out after these donkey years.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In the course of cohabitation, you have even taken in and delivered a baby. Some have even delivered one, two, three children without any commitment from the man. It has become a matter of between and betwixt. You can neither go forward nor go backwards. It has become a dilemma both for the man and the woman.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">True love is a wonderful experience. When two people who deeply care for each other come together, there\'s a spark of transformation. They want to please each other. They want to support each other. Having found each other worthy in character and value, your man will quickly propose to you. You\'ll then marry the love of your life and experience the kind of relationships you had ever dreamed about together.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">A relative of mine found herself in this mess. Today, she had begotten 3 children in cohabitation. The \'husband\' claimed that she often complains, nags and easily gets angry. He complained of lack of peace in his life and his family ever since he came in contact with her. On the other hand, his \'wife\' insisted that she had been used and abused and so, she cannot allow him to dump her and marry another woman. At the moment, the focus has even shifted from marrying her to the education of the resultant children from the cohabitation.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So, how can you make you man to commit to you even when he thinks he\'s not ready yet for the responsibility of marriage?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You have to develop an impeccable character. Are you open? Are you kind? Are you considerate? Are you charitable? Are you approachable? You need to be a confident woman.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There is no free lunch anywhere these days. You have to be an industrious woman. Are you an employee? Are you an entrepreneur? How much are you bringing to the table? If you want to be the woman men rush to propose to, you must be able to contribute to the domestic economy. Gone are the days that women are liabilities!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You must be supportive. It\'s not only about supporting your partner financially but also, encouraging him to accomplish his goals. You advise him whenever he demands it from you. And most importantly, ensure he enjoys peace whenever you\'re together.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When you exhibit these traits, men will be falling over themselves to commit to you. They\'ll be desperate to propose to you. You\'ll be the one qualifying them and doing the selecting. The challenge you\'ll have is the ability to choose the perfect life partner for you.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Stan Onodu is the author of \'Just Your Prince, Kiss Frogs No More\' who helps men and women that are ready to marry attract and choose their perfect life partners without pre-marital sex. You can learn more here: [http://www.lastinghotlove.com].</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1781, 'Top 5 Tips on How the Lonely Single Can Kill Boredom During Challenging Times', 'top-5-tips-on-how-the-lonely-single-can-kill-boredom-during-challenging-times', 0, '2022-12-15 22:43:44', '2022-12-15 22:43:44', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Top 5 Tips on How the Lonely Single Can Kill Boredom During Challenging Times</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Stan Onodu\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487\" rel=\"author\">Stan Onodu</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 01, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Stan Onodu\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Stan-Onodu_603951.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Stan Onodu\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Are you lonely and getting bored? How can you manage or totally eliminate boredom in your life especially during this trying periods in the World history?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As a result of the Coronavirus pandemic that had laid a siege on the entire World, I had been locked down at my home. In the first few weeks, my life literally degenerated to mere sleeping, eating and watching the television. I started getting bored in-spite of the fact that I am even quarantined with my entire family. In any case, my partner has been wonderful supporting in the cooking and homemaking while the kids do the dishes and other minor home chores.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I now begin to put myself in the shoes of my friends and colleagues around the World who are single and lonely even in this circumstance. I know because I was once single, lonely and felt bored.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Boredom brings about tiredness and loss of vision. When you are bored, you feel like someone thrown into the desert with no sense of direction. You feel like you are lost. You become clueless on what next to do with your life. Happiness and joy begin to elude you. You begin to lose interest in yourself and all that concerns you. You start to withdraw from friends and well-wishers. It could be a period you could fall into depression and begin to nurse suicidal thoughts.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Being single and lonely are no problems on their own, it is what you make out of the situation. It is always hilarious when the burden of boredom is lifted off your shoulders. You will have energy, poise and the motivation needed to take action to move your life forward in the right direction. You will be much clearer on your life\'s mission and vision.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So, what are the top 5 ways you can eliminate boredom, and thrive in your life.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; To-Do List: You\'ve got to keep a schedule of your activities on a daily basis. Organize this list the night before the next day. Do not give any room to fighting any \'fire\' by taking time out to carefully plan your activities everyday in advance. And when you have planned out what to do and you\'re doing the actions religiously, boredom will cease to exist in your life.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Read Another Book: Reading another book in your area of interest is another way of waving boredom goodbye. When you\'re reading a book on a subject you\'re passionate about, your entire being is absorbed in it. You want to get the meat out of the book. You\'re trying to decipher the information and the message the author is passing across.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Learn a New Skill: What is that skill you\'ve been wanting to learn all these while? This is the great opportunity! You want to be a dancer? You want to be a seamstress? You want to learn how to play the guitar? If you\'re an entrepreneur, this is the time to sharpen your marketing skills for the current realities. And you\'ll discover that the curiosity to know the next steps would replace your boredom.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Connect: This is the time to create new relationships and probably re-connect with your good old folks. And good enough, we are no longer limited by time and space. Thanks to the numerous social media platforms where you can make new friends around the World in a fly 247.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Exercise: During this lock-down, many a single and lonely folks have gained some extra pounds. It is fast becoming a twin problem of boredom and overweight. And so, you need to incorporate exercises into your regimen to address your health and boredom challenges.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Boredom can be eliminated. The onus is therefore on you to keep yourself mentally and physically engaged in order to push feeling of getting bored behind you.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Stan Onodu is the author of \'Just Your Prince, Kiss Frogs No More\' who helps men and women that are ready to marry attract and choose their perfect life partners without pre-marital sex. You can learn more here: [http://www.lastinghotlove.com].</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1782, 'Sexual Urges: How Can the Lonely Single Control Sexual Desires', 'sexual-urges-how-can-the-lonely-single-control-sexual-desires', 0, '2022-12-15 22:44:04', '2022-12-15 22:44:04', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Sexual Urges: How Can the Lonely Single Control Sexual Desires</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Stan Onodu\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487\" rel=\"author\">Stan Onodu</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 01, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Stan Onodu\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Stan-Onodu_603951.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Stan Onodu\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Are you experiencing sexual urges in your loneliness? Do you know that you can actually control those emotional tensions?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">These sexual urges are natural. They are there in humans and even in the lower animals. We are all created with that nature. If it were not so, what would you think would have happened to human and animal species? We would have all gone extinct. The Supreme Being made it so for purposes of procreation.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">However, the intensity of these sexual urges vary from age to age. It is the strongest in adolescents. This is because their sexual hormonal levels are at their peak at that age. As humans advance in age, the hormonal levels deplete and so also the sexual outbursts.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When you are alone and single, the urge must come. And incidentally, the young men and women in the marriageable age experience this surge the most but in most cases, they do not have the \'relief valve\' as and when needed.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Ordinarily, this natural phenomenon is not supposed to pose a problem of any type but it is actually a problem among young people.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In order to quench the \'fire\', many young people engage in all manner of pre-marital activities that get them into trouble. What has become rampant is \'boy-meet-girl\' and they begin to have intimate relationships that expose them to all sorts of sexually transmitted diseases. Some young women are even put in a family way and the pregnancies terminated through abortions. And some have got their reproductive systems destroyed and others even died in the process.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Many others have followed the path of masturbation. There are homosexuals and lesbians. All these are happening because young people are looking for ways to release sexual tensions.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The question is: how can these sexual desires be controlled?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Here are 5 simple ways...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&iuml;&sect; Your Thoughts: Yes, the sexual urges will come! But sex is a thing of the mind. If you do not focus your mind and thoughts on it, it gets disabled. You therefore need to control your thoughts. Get your mind occupied with other things and you will watch the surge go down naturally.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&iuml;&sect; Keep Busy: They say an idle mind is the devil\'s workshop. If you don\'t keep busy, you will be overwhelmed by the sexual desires. How do you get yourself engaged? Read books; learn new skills; engage in regular exercises; etc. What is your vision? Where do you want to be and what impact do you want to create in your community and indeed the World? Do not allow sexual tensions that are ephemeral rob you or cut short your life mission!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&iuml;&sect; Stay Away from the Triggers: There are some attitudes that exacerbate the urges. You need to avoid such triggers like the Coronavirus ravaging the World today. One of them is watching pornographic videos. What are you feeding your eyes with? What are you feeding your mind with? Remember, your mind is the engine room. How about alcohol and drugs? Stay clear of those!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&iuml;&sect; Avoid Masturbation: You can get addicted to masturbation. As you continue to use masturbation as a means of releasing emotional pressure, it moves from habitual to addiction. When it gets to that level, it becomes difficult to stop and the urge will keep mounting. The best option is to nip it in the bud.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&iuml;&sect; Keep Good Company: Who are your friends? They say tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are. Also, it is said that you are the average of the five people you are always in close contact with. Choose your friends very carefully - those who have good characters and those that put great values around their lives.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Sexual urges are signs of puberty. It is a sign that you are ready for procreation. The Scripture says that there\'s a time and season for everything. Control yourself until it is your time to commit in marriage.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Stan Onodu is the author of \'Just Your Prince, Kiss Frogs No More\' who helps men and women that are ready to marry attract and choose their perfect life partners without pre-marital sex. You can learn more here: [http://www.lastinghotlove.com].</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1783, '3 Simple Strategies to Find Your Perfect Life Partner As a Christian Even When You Do Not Fear God', '3-simple-strategies-to-find-your-perfect-life-partner-as-a-christian-even-when-you-do-not-fear-god', 0, '2022-12-15 22:45:13', '2022-12-15 22:45:13', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">3 Simple Strategies to Find Your Perfect Life Partner As a Christian Even When You Do Not Fear God</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Stan Onodu\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487\" rel=\"author\">Stan Onodu</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On April 23, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Stan Onodu\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Stan-Onodu_603951.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Stan Onodu\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Are you single, living alone and lonely? Do you want to find your soul-mate even in this time that it appears that the whole World is gone asleep?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">A lot of young women who want to marry had actually begun the new millennium with the intention of finding their perfect life partners and getting married to the love of their lives this year, 2020.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">They had set out their strategies.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Some had planned to dress to \'kill\'. And before this time, a lot of women have moved to the new normal of dressing inappropriately. They dress to unduly reveal their sensitive parts. They show their boobs, their thighs, and wear tight dresses that show all their body curves and contours.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Others had planned to take their social lives to the next level. They would attend any \'networking\' events in town with the sole purpose of attracting a probable suitor into their lives.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">All those strategies have failed. No thanks to the current circumstances around the World today. No thanks to the virus that is raving and ravaging the World. The invisible and invincible Coronavirus has quarantined the World. The entire World seems to have fallen asleep as various governments have ordered its citizens to stay at home on lock-down.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">No one knows when this \'incarceration\' will be over. But life must go on and love must go round.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">And that\'s why the christian way of finding love or finding a husband is better.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The christian lady has these habits...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Authenticity: A genuine christian lady is always open. She is always herself. She is the same personality in her bedroom as is when she is in the public glare. She\'s guided by the statutes of her Maker. In this way, she would attract the kind of man who would accept her the way she is.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Good Attitude: A good christian lady is known for her good character. She is kind, considerate and empathetic. She is selfless. She puts herself in the other person\'s shoes. She feels for the other person. As a result, she\'s everybody\'s darling. There is reciprocity. Everybody is looking for ways to reward her. She gets referrals for marriage as well.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Service: Are you charitable? Are you ready to serve others? When you help someone solve his problem, you add value to his life. You have supported his cause. Men are always on the lookout for ladies who will help them become the leaders they are created to be.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you must find your life partner in this relationship recession period, you must adopt the christian lady strategy for finding love. This is irrespective of whether you fear God or you do not believe in God at all.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Stan Onodu is the author of \'Just Your Prince, Kiss Frogs No More\' who helps men and women that are ready to marry attract and choose their perfect life partners without pre-marital sex. You can learn more here: [http://www.lastinghotlove.com].</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1784, '4 Benefits of Being a Sugar Daddy', '4-benefits-of-being-a-sugar-daddy', 0, '2022-12-15 22:48:14', '2022-12-15 22:48:14', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">4 Benefits of Being a Sugar Daddy</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Dhanusuya K\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Dhanusuya_K/2703487\" rel=\"author\">Dhanusuya K</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On April 20, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10285096&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The term sugar daddy refers to a rich old man who provides financial support for a younger companion who is usually a female. In exchange, he gets companionship or other services. Often, being rich is enough to attract many girls or women who want a relationship. Given below are a couple of benefits of being a sugar daddy.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>1. You Get What You Want</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You don\'t need to play any games, and you don\'t need to wait. If you assume this role then you can get you want. Using an app, you can look for an exact match. Since there are at least 10 women for 1 man, you have the freedom to make a choice.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you have had a dream of befriending a young girl, now is the time to turn that dream into reality. If you are a successful sugar daddy, you deserve to make this decision.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>2. You have No-strings Relationship</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">A great characteristic of a sugar daddy is the freedom of terminating the relationship whenever you want to. There is no need to maintain the relationship for the long term. Both the parties know that the relationship depends upon mutual convenience.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You will keep remunerating her for as long as she keeps you happy. You don\'t have to meet the responsibilities of being committed to the relationship. This is the reason that these are attractive for women who are looking for a way to have a relationship and earn goodies at the same time.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>3. It Saves Time</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Typically, sugar daddies are successful men in their respective fields. Therefore, if you run a company or take care of a business empire, you may not have the time to nurture and develop a relationship with a younger woman. If you are a sugar daddy, your partner already understands the expectations of the relationship. Therefore, you don\'t need to kill your precious time beating about the bush.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As a sugar daddy, you can flaunt your companions. Aside from this, it feels great to have a relationship with a beautiful, young lady. Other men will enjoy the treasure you have. This is the feeling that you can have if you become a sugar daddy.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>5. You Feel Younger Again</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you assume the role of this, you can feel younger once again. As a matter of fact, this role is your fountain of youth. Your partner is adventurous, energetic and quite willing to new enjoy new experience. Aside from this, the best part of this is that she can spend a good deal of time with you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Since you have dedicated your time to collect the wealth you have, you can now sit back and enjoy your freedom. This is what many people can only dream of.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In short, these are some of the prominent benefits of being a sugar daddy. If you want to get the most of this phenomenon, we suggest that you check out an online dating platform. This will make things easier for you.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you want to be a&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://4sd.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">sugar daddy</a>, we suggest that you check out 4sd. This platform can help you get started. You can check it out at 4sd.com.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Dhanusuya_K/2703487\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Dhanusuya_K/2703487</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1785, 'Too Good To Be True, Run Away!', 'too-good-to-be-true-run-away', 0, '2022-12-15 22:50:03', '2022-12-15 22:50:03', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Too Good To Be True, Run Away!</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author David Samuel\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/David_Samuel/305858\" rel=\"author\">David Samuel</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On April 11, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author David Samuel\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/David-Samuel_302133.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author David Samuel\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Many people have come to me with the same problem; \'Everything seems so perfect with this new person I met, I can\'t find anything wrong, so I better leave before I get hurt.\'</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It\'s very common to not be able to figure out what that strange thing is which is preventing you from having that deep connection.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>\'It\'s just too good to be true.\'</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">That feeling triggers subconscious fears of getting hurt and prevents you from making that deep emotional connection. You then just accept that there is a problem you cannot see and run away.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">But the only problem is that you cannot believe you found someone so perfectly aligned to your desires.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The qualities you\'re looking for in a partner are often set at a very high standard. When you actually find someone with those qualities you tend to close your heart or run away because you cannot believe it\'s true.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">\"How could I find someone with all the qualities I\'m looking?\" \"I must be missing something.\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The fear kicks in that if you find that special person, you would be so deeply in love, if they left, you would be totally devastated. So your subconscious fears tell you it is better to pick someone with flaws you can see, so you never let your heart become fully invested in the relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">But of course, that leads to repeated relationships that end in failure, obviously since you pick someone you are not really matched well with.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">We have to learn to trust more and take a chance with a strong heart that is willing to risk being disappointed.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Our courses and articles on Relationshipcoachonline.com make you able to deal with disappointment and rejection and will make you so confident that you will not mind taking that risk.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It\'s only in taking a risk that you stand a chance of success, because the perfect partner is not going to know where you live and coming knocking on your door.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Be willing to try and find out if they actually are too good to be true. If you do not, your relationships will be perpetually disappointing because you will only accept and get into a relationship with someone who has significant flaws or is not what you\'re looking for.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you are lucky enough to find a true gem of a partner, don\'t reject the special one when you find yourself thinking they\'re too good to be true.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you have a feeling that something is wrong and you can\'t figure out what, consider that what is wrong, is your own fear.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Your fear is what keeps you in the endless loop of picking the wrong partner by missing out the right one.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>To have the strength to not fear getting hurt, do these three simple steps;</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ol style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Think about how many times you have been hurt, and that you are still here, you will always recover.</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Look forward, not back. Difficulties are what make us stronger, and the past was just preparing you for the future, so don\'t let it imprison you.</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There is only one thing that makes life perfect, and that is a loving relationship. If you don\'t take the chance, you will guarantee a lonely life. So try and know that if it works, great, but if not, you will recover and try again.</li>\r\n</ol>\r\nEvery day is a new start to a new life. Forget the past and look forward to a happy future.\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">After decades of helping people resolve their relationship issues, both in current and past relationships, and helping people find that new and lasting love, David Samuel is now available to world, on line, to share his wisdom and experiences. Please visit&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://relationshipcoachonline.com/blog/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://relationshipcoachonline.com/blog/</a></p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/David_Samuel/305858\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/David_Samuel/305858</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1786, 'Why Using Sex to Hook Men Does Not Work And What to Do Instead', 'why-using-sex-to-hook-men-does-not-work-and-what-to-do-instead', 0, '2022-12-15 22:50:25', '2022-12-15 22:50:25', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Why Using Sex to Hook Men Does Not Work And What to Do Instead</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Stan Onodu\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487\" rel=\"author\">Stan Onodu</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On April 08, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Stan Onodu\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Stan-Onodu_603951.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Stan Onodu\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Do you use sex as a bait to get men involved? Have you considered the downside of it?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Sex is just a temporary pleasure, and the adverse consequences go beyond what can just meet the eye.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When you are single and you keep getting emotionally and intimately involved with the opposite sex, you get yourself exposed to sexually transmitted diseases such as gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, etc and notably the dreaded \'Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome\', AIDS. Millions of people across the World especially young people who are sexually more active, died out of this disease. Not to talk about a lot more who have been kept miserable over the years by these STDs.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Many young ladies surrendered themselves as sex machines in men\'s bedrooms because of their poverty mentality. A lot of them are not working. Some are so lazy they don\'t even want to work. You do not have money to meet your most basic needs. You cannot provide for yourselves something as cheap as the sanitary pads to manage your monthly menstrual cycles. As a result, you use sex to set trap for the men so you can be given money.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">To remain fashion conscious and savvy, a lot of ladies sacrifice their bodies. Even though your incomes are meagre, you want to be up to date with fashion. You have a lot of boyfriends just because you need a lot of \'donors\' to enable you continue living your fake life.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Why is this a problem?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In the course of those sexual escapades, a lot of young women have contracted unwanted pregnancies. When you conceive for a stranger, you are faced with two monsters. One, you go through abortion to terminate the pregnancy or two, you deliver the baby as a bastard. During the operation, mostly done by quacks, some women get their wombs damaged for life. And others dump their new-borns in waste collection centres or bushes where they eventually cry to death or are picked up for the motherless babies\' homes.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The Scripture says that the love of money is the root of all evils. Today, most men love money more than anything else. And they want easy money and so, they visit idols where they make all manner of sacrifices in order to get money. Women who easily fall for men become preys in the hands of those evil men.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Sex does not equate to love. When you submit to a man sexually, he\'ll use, abuse and dump you. That relationship eventually ends and you become the loser for it because you\'re going to feel disappointed, rejected, frustrated and abandoned.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">On the other hand, when you exhibit good conduct and good character, you become the darling of your man. You command respect. You command honour. You command dignity. Your man cares for you and pays more attention to you and your needs. You\'ll be proposed to. You\'ll get married and experience the kind of relationships you had ever dreamt about together.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When I was still single and searching for my perfect life partner, I had a number of dates. What I discovered was that I had more respect and honour for those I had no carnal knowledge of. I cared more about them. I called them and texted them more often. I paid more attention to them and their well-being. But once I had sex with any, the love and the emotions began to dwindle. If it were someone I didn\'t quite like, I could easily ghost at that point because it looked like there was no other thing remaining to explore.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">What do you do instead to attract the love of your life?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">First, you need to set your boundaries. You need to set your deal breakers. Those are your standards which are your values that you cannot compromise. You politely, from the onset, let your partner know that sex, for example, is a \'no-go\' area for you in the relationship. You need to maintain your integrity because that boundary is going to be tested. The guy would like to check if you meant it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You have to be a woman of good character. You\'ll be polite, kind and considerate. Extend an olive branch to your partner and to all who come your way. Be authentic and be vulnerable! Openness is a great virtue.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Do not be self-centred. Think more of what you can do for him. Support him to achieve his goals insofar as you are invited. Offer advice or help only when he asks from you. Give him peace of mind and never try to change him.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">They say an idle mind is the devil\'s workshop. By all means, get yourself engaged in meaningful activities. If you don\'t have a job, learn one skill or another that you\'re passionate about. You can also join any volunteer service you love in your locality. The idea is to keep busy and get engaged meaningfully.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Overall, if you kept your sanity and your virginity, you become irresistible to quality men. No man likes any woman who uses sex to set trap for him. Marriage is honourable and it is a sacred institution that you do not need to defile your body before the time is ripe.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Stan Onodu is the author of \'Just Your Prince, Kiss Frogs No More\' who helps men and women that are ready to marry attract and choose their perfect life partners without pre-marital sex. You can learn more here: [http://www.lastinghotlove.com].</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1787, 'Smart Dating Tips for Men Looking for Women Online', 'smart-dating-tips-for-men-looking-for-women-online', 0, '2022-12-15 22:50:51', '2022-12-15 22:50:51', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Smart Dating Tips for Men Looking for Women Online</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Jass P Chawla\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Jass_P_Chawla/2113886\" rel=\"author\">Jass P Chawla</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On February 26, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Jass P Chawla\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Jass-P-Chawla_1983734.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Jass P Chawla\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">No matter how you do it, online dating is hard. Technology and culture have changed over the years and the dating skills that men looking for women online needed have changed drastically. Nowadays, more and more people are meeting through online dating platforms and the rules are being rewritten. Whether it is men looking for women online or vice-versa, dating platforms are transforming gender roles and promoting gender diversity.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Choose the right platform</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There are literally thousands of online dating websites and applications available for singles. But it is very important to figure out which dating platform works the best for you. Connectingsingles.com is the trendiest 100% free online dating site that is genuine. With great quality results, this dating site eases the whole men looking for women online dating experience and helps many single people find other single people online. Quality plus affordability are the two major factors that make people choose Connectingsingles.com over other online dating sites.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Add personality</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Creating a profile is an important part of online dating. It is basically your resume to the online dating world and not something that you should pay no heed to. Your dating profile should showcase the kind of person you are. Your bio should have a list of things that you like so that the person visiting your profile can have a clear understanding of your personality. Having enough pictures on your profile is important and make sure you look happy in each one of them. Have a couple of photos with friends but the majority of them should showcase you at interesting places to make sure you attract a certain type of person.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Be honest</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Be honest with your profile by uploading recent pictures and an honest description of yourself. Make sure your profile is flattering, detailed, and eye-catching. Make sure that all the information about yourself that you give out is true. This way people can know exactly what to expect when they meet you so that you can connect with people who are genuinely interested in your personality.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Respect the personal space</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Women set certain boundaries to keep themselves safe in the world of online dating. Men looking for women online should respect these boundaries and ask for consent every time you cross it. These boundaries are a game-changer when it comes to success in online dating and can help you spot red-flags and walk away from a potential heartbreak down the road. If a woman has set some boundaries that don\'t mean that she\'s high-maintenance. It simply shows what she will and won\'t put up with while interacting online.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Stop blabbering and ask questions</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This is pretty basic but needs to be said. You need to ask questions to keep the conversation going. Most men get ghosted by women in online dating because they wouldn\'t shut up about themselves. Start a general conversation and go from there. Don\'t blabber too much about yourself and ask about her. After talking about yourself for a minimal time, throw the ball in her court with something as simple as \"How about yourself?\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t play</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t play with someone\'s emotions. Nobody wins. If you are not interested in someone, be mature enough to let them know. Stop ghosting them or avoiding them every time they text you. If you are interested in someone, don\'t play hard to get or be unavailable. Be kind, understanding, and most importantly, be yourself.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">if you are a single&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.connectingsingles.com/aboutus.aspx\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">men and looking for women online</a>&nbsp;Visit Connecting singles</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Jass_P_Chawla/2113886\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Jass_P_Chawla/2113886</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1788, 'Make Your Penis Bigger and Harder', 'make-your-penis-bigger-and-harder', 0, '2022-12-15 22:51:11', '2022-12-15 22:51:11', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Make Your Penis Bigger and Harder</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Wee Swee Ling\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Wee_Swee_Ling/1735200\" rel=\"author\">Wee Swee Ling</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On July 03, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Wee Swee Ling\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Wee-Swee-Ling_1620171.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Wee Swee Ling\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">First of all, let\'s talk about the usual penis enlargement techniques. They are often extremely expensive and almost never work. Still, there are a few methods that prove to work for many people out there.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The male reproductive system is comprised the penis, the testicles, the seminal vesicles and the prostate gland. The penis is able to become erect, and it contains the urethra, which brings urine and sperm out of the body. The average penis length is 14 to 16 centimeters long, but some people don\'t ever reach that length. That said, exercises can certainly help with penis enlargement.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The key to penis enlargement and penis enlargement techniques is in the three chambers of tissue located within the penis. This tissue absorbs the blood brought to the penis via the circulatory system. When the penis fills with blood, it becomes erect and ready for sex. The key to enlarging the penis is to cause these three chambers to expand and grow in size. This makes the penis able to absorb more blood than it could before, meaning it will become larger. These exercises craft tensile strength via stretching these tissues.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So, to recap, exercising the parts of the penis that cause erections is the perfect way to achieve penis enlargement via these penis enlargement techniques.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Prior to performing these exercises, it\'s important to take a few precursor steps to ensure your own safety and to make sure the procedures are effective. These steps include:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Shaving pubic hair</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Eat healthy meals complete with vitamins, proteins and minerals</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Moisturize the penis before doing these exercises</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Measure the length of your penis during an erection</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Measure the circumference of your penis as well</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Soak a towel in hot or warm water and wrap it around your testicles. Keep it on for two minutes and remove it. Then, repeat this process three times. You can also use a jacuzzi and stay in for about 10 minutes, complete with a gentle massage of the penis.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Now, let\'s talk about the actual exercises that you can use to enlarge your penis:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>The Jelq Method</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This penis enlargement method increases blood flow to the corpora cavernosa to make the penis bigger, in order to make the shaft cells grow larger. The exercises also break down muscle fibers, meaning that they\'ll grow back even stronger than they were before. Here\'s how to do it:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">1. Grasp the base of your penis while semi-erect, using your thumb and forefinger, and make an O shape with those two finger. This causes the blood on your penis to be trapped inside the penis, making more blood collect in the cells that harbor it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">2. Move your hand forward and milk the blood to push it farther forward.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">3. When you reach the tip, hold the base of the penis with your other hand and repeat the method described.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">4. Do this exercise for 20 to 25 minutes</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It\'s normal to experience bruising or red bumps using these kinds of penis enlargement techniques when trying to figure out how to make the penis bigger, which will disappear. Make sure you start slowly and increase the speed gradually. Pushing blood to the head of the penis is the key here, so focus on that. Your penis may turn darker red than usual; this is normal.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>The Pubococcygeus Flex Exercise</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This is also known as the PC Flex Exercise for penis enlargement. The PC muscle is the on responsible for controlling ejaculation and urination. Find this muscle by holding your urine mid-stream. This will make the PC muscle contract. You\'ll feel the muscle extending from behind the testicles and near the anus.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The PC exercise for penis enlargement is a penis enlargement technique that can protect form impotence and premature ejaculation, and it can make for a stronger erection and increased activity in the prostate gland. It also helps keep urinary incontinence at bay later in life.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Length Stretch</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This simply involves stretching a flaccid penis. The penis must be flaccid, as stretching is impossible when the penis is erect. Here\'s how to do it:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">1. Warm up the penis using the hot towel method, and hold the head of the penis. Hold it gently and with not much pressure.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">2. Push the penis out and stretch it as much as you can. Don\'t do it to the point that you feel pain.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">3. Hold the outstretched penis for 15 seconds. Do this whole process five times.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">4. Once you\'re done, massage the penis to bring blood back to it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There are many methods to extend the penis\'s length and many methods of how to make the penis bigger, and you may wish to try all of them. See how they work for you, and remember to repeat them! They may just work better over time, and you\'ll get the inches you\'re looking for and the penis enlargement you crave.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you want to find the safety techniques for penis enlargement, feel free to check out my website [http://growth-mypenis.com]</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Wee_Swee_Ling/1735200\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Wee_Swee_Ling/1735200</a></p>\r\n</div>');
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I was having the worst day of my life as my favorite club Liverpool had so dramatically lost the 2018 Champions league trophy to Real Madrid yesterday, all thanks to Karius and of course Sergio Ramos who tactically dismembered our star-man Mohamed Salah to clench a smooth oppression. It had rained heavily shortly after the match-for about two hours-I guess even the heavens smelt fowl-play and decided to cry for Liverpool.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The roads were flooded with heavenly tears, but it obviously had not prevented angry Liverpool fans from finding their way home so quickly. I was walking alone, wondering what had made the night so lifeless, even after a big match-day like the UEFA champions league final, and also since they say Lagos never sleeps. Suddenly I began to hear rushing footsteps...<br />My heart fluttered instantly, but the real-man in me stabilized the pounding... I braced my morale, and looked on.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Few seconds later I heard some heavy breathing from a close distance. I hid myself behind an abandoned Danfo bus and narrowed my vision towards that direction, using the reflected rays from the towering street lamps that stood like some guardian angels. I saw a huge Shadow approaching me. My heart jumped out through my mouth-how on earth could whoever or whatever it may be, had figured me out-from my obscured position. I concluded; my days on this cruel world was up eventually. What do I have to lose anyways, since I have neither married nor had my own kids. Well, just my mother and only sister whom I would miss so dearly. I steadied my breathing-\'let the worst come\' I reassured myself, bidding my time, calculating the footsteps of the approaching shadow and waiting for whatever may happen next...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The silhouette suddenly transformed into a heavily pregnant woman. A dozen thoughts ran through my head. The transformation was so whimsical that I didn\'t know if I should feel relieved or more scared-she was running as though for dear life... I followed her point of view as she looked behind intermittently to see whoever or whatsoever was pursuing her, (But I sooner found there was no one in pursuit).<br />Even so, she seemed to be running away from something. She slowed down at some point-- Looked back-- No one was coming-- She was breathing so hard--she then lowered upon a hip of gravel obviously meant for a nearby construction site, and then slowly rested her posterior on the gravels...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Gradually, her heavy breathing stabilized. Suppressing my riveting impulse to flee to safety, I ambled hesitantly toward her, observing her closely and carefully as they would generally advise of anyone in Lagos. My heart hit my chest painfully. As soon as I was close enough, I tried to act like a security guard... but before I could utter a single query, there was a sudden power interruption... (As in total darkness).</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Anyone who has lived or been to any part of Nigeria would certainly understand what I mean, and considering my current circumstances, it was share mischief. How could they black-out on me at this very crucial moment? All I expected at the point was for some wild or mystic creature to pounce on me, or rather for this mysterious woman who might be some sort of blood sucking demon to either rip me apart or suck my blood to dryness... (But neither of these hideous things happened to me).<br />Suddenly I heard a soft voice from within the darkness... It was the woman\'s.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">\"Wondering what a heavily pregnant woman like me is doing on the street by this time of the night I suppose? You wouldn\'t pity me if I told you who I am or what I\'ve done.\" She spoke in Yoruba, and I understood her very well. \"I have done what no one has ever contemplated, and my sins have caught up with me... Don\'t pity me! I don\'t deserve your pity... \"<br />I was shaken by these words, and just in time, power was restored, and I could see her face clearly as she continued, in Yoruba.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">\"Please, what is the quickest way for a pregnant woman to die?\"<br />Upon hearing this one, I quickly took some steps away from her. See me o. Have they sent her to tempt me or something? She sounded desperate, her voice was shaky, but her will was firm. I couldn\'t respond, and so she continued...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">\"I know you are probably thinking I am a mad woman. No, I\'m not. My name is Ose, from Edo. I am married to a man from Imo, but I reside here in Lagos with my husband. I had been married for 15 years with no issue to show for it. The world, for me, was a tinny cottage full of scorpions and vipers... and I was just in the middle of it all, counting time and waiting for the last sting or bite that might knock me out for good. The frustration gradually accrued to the acme as I perceived the cold hands of menopause clawing me gently but yet with a malignant clench. Unfortunately and to my utter dismay, my husband was not so bothered at all by my dilemma.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Things became worse when my husband\'s family intensified pressure on him to take a second wife. He complicated the already-bad situation by refusing to their demands, thereby escalating the heat, and everything backfired to me. They instantly laced the whole fabric around my neck alleging that I\'d pinned down their son with strong juju, to do my bidding.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">My mother-in-law was the most desperate, but I understood her predicament. She was in her late sixties; and according to a popular African belief, seeing your grandchildren before death is a sure ticket to eternal bliss. From all indications, I was going to deny her of what she deserves- for this reason I became her worst enemy. She later upped her game by coming to live with us in the house; and this was the beginning of everything sorrowful. She gave me the kind of blissful married life that I wouldn\'t even wish for my worst enemy. Whenever my husband travels out of town, she would throw my things out of my matrimonial bedroom until my husband returns. I kept my cool and made no fuse of anything she did. She continued this way until she had an urgent reason to return home. She really made my life a living hell, to the extent that I contemplated suicide countless times.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Titi (my best friend), suggested that we opt for adoption, but my husband utterly forbade the idea and even threatened to break the marriage if I as much as mentioned the word adoption again. He gave his reasons being that Adopted Children often come from contaminated blood lines; since they are often abandoned children. No normal person would ever leave his/her child for another man to raise, except for prostitutes who must have been impregnated by criminals and never-do-wells.<br />At this point, Titi again gave me an awkward advice. She told me to consider finding a lover, just for me to conceive... perhaps the problem might have been from my husband all these years. She even told me that it was how she gave birth to her four children-- it had been her little secret all these years.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I had never cheated on my husband before; have never contemplated it, ever before, and my husband was indeed a champion in bed... yeah-yeah, of course he sure knows how to hammer and pleasure a woman, well-well... (Lol)... But my dilemma was deeper and darker than a mirage, because I had a very strong feeling that I was just two years away from MENOPAUSE.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For several weeks I slept and thought over it. I was in turmoil; never knew any other man except for my husband. I didn\'t know how to find a man who would just sleep with me, get me pregnant, and then walk away without causing troubles.<br />On the other hand, I thought about God, the bible and the gospel teachings. But my mind was made up already. I have been faithful to both God and my husband for the past 15 years and yet no reward for it. I was fed up already with the whole gospel and morality sermons.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Titi advised me to choose a man I could control so there won\'t be complications later. I chose my Housekeeper; a very handsome young man with an amazing personality even in his low status. Bayo was around 23yrs, but he was so matured, reasonable and irresistible. I\'d always admired him a lot but kept to my distance.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When I threw my advances at him he at first declined, stating a whole bunch of reasons why it was so wrong for him to see me \'pantless\'. He left me with no option than to coerce him into it. I increased my incentives but threatened to send him back to the village should he decide to turn me down again or raise a fuse about it-oh, the poor boy... I couldn\'t stand the look of his innocent face when he undressed me (because I had him do it by himself). When he eventually entered me, it felt like heaven. I swallowed every inch of his creativity, and yet craved for more.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Bayo\'s skills took me through cloud-nine, down memory-lane. When I was younger, I was addicted to porn and often fantasized about being handled by Pros -- he made my dreams come true. He was so good that he soon wiped the memories of my husband\'s magic touch from my lustful mind. I lost control of myself; I brought him into my matrimonial bed during the day (while my husband has gone to work), and would sneak out of bed into his arms most of the nights. We constantly had unprotected sex for two straight months and I almost forgot the main reason why it had all began in the first place... I actually started enjoying my unholy relationship with him.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As the second month passed, I began to notice changes in my body. I later found out from diagnosis that I was already two months pregnant (I couldn\'t believe it). Titi was the first to hear my testimony, even before my husband. She was so excited, but curious to know and meet the miracle worker. After much persuasion I let the cat out of the bag; at once she became very mad at me. She advised me again to dispose of him (as in find some way of killing him), her reasons were that the boy was a very risky loose-end for me to keep since he was an insider and might somehow find out that I had his child later in the future.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I dauntlessly tried on several occasions to poison Bayo but something held me back. I soon found out I was in love with him. Once more I sort Titi\'s opinion. She offered to assist me with a \"permanent\" solution. I didn\'t know what she meant, but I accepted with \'thanks\'. The next morning, two Assassins came to the house in form of armed robbers and made away with my Husband\'s jeep. They also shot Bayo thrice, in the process... Bayo died moments later, as three of the bullets sank through his chest.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I was not happy. I definitely did not ask her to kill the innocent boy. I should have understood her undertone when she used the word \"permanent\". I\'d assumed she was going to kind of kidnap him and possibly coerce him to exile or something else of that nature... in fact she actually said she was going to whisk him away to exile for good. I had no idea the kind of exiling she meant. This made me brake my relationship with Titilayo from that very day, but I neither told my husband what happened between myself, Titi and Bayo nor what even led to his death.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I noticed that my husband was so aggrieved about Bayo\'s death but I didn\'t bother asking why. One early morning, I was in the 7th month of my pregnancy, my husband woke me up. He looked very disturbed and depressed. I asked him what the matter is, but he knelt down before me and said that he had a big confession to make.<br />\"Honey I am so sorry, I have not been telling you the truth all these years\"<br />I was confused... what truth is he talking about? I became curious... (Could it be that I am not the only one with a red skeleton in her cupboard?). At that point, he began his confession.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">\"Baby, many years ago I lived a very rough life in the university. I had contracted an STD and was too ashamed to go to the hospital. I opted for a local concoction instead, but later when I left the university, I had some medical complications... The untreated virus had already damaged my testicles and rendered me impotent forever. \"<br />\"What! Honey?\" I couldn\'t contain my shock! But knowing what I had already committed, I didn\'t know how best to act like I had been deceived... My husband calmed me down... he had another confession.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">\"Baby, please forgive me... \" he\'d continued, \"I didn\'t know how to tell you all these years. But earlier before the infection, I had a girlfriend in school who had gotten pregnant for me. I had given her money to abort the fetus but she\'d bluntly refused. I broke the relationship afterwards, but nine months later she brought a baby boy to my mother during the long vacation. I couldn\'t reject the baby this time, and so my parents accepted to take the responsibility while I completed my schooling. It was the same girl that gave me the STD, but she died few years later as a result of other medical complications.\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">At this point I felt my husband was drifting away from his confession, as I was not interested in what happened to the woman who got pregnant for him. I was only concerned about the wellbeing of the boy, so I asked him;<br />\"Honey, don\'t worry... I forgive you. But how is this boy now and where has he been all these years?\"<br />My Husband paused for a very long while... moments later he drew a very long breathe, and then continued his narration.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">\"Honey, he has been living with us. He was Bayo our house boy... I didn\'t want you to know his true identity. I was afraid you might maltreat him or even kill him like most women do to children who\'re born into their matrimonial homes from another woman. I wanted to protect him since I wasn\'t going to be able to get a woman pregnant in my lifetime again... \" and then he began to cry like a baby.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I froze to the spot. I didn\'t know what to say or do anymore. Then to crown it all, my husband said;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">\"Dear, Please. I am not angry with you. I knew all these while that the baby in your womb is not my own. But I was too ashamed to confront you. Now that everything has come to the open, Please tell me, who is the father of our unborn child?\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For hours, I couldn\'t say a single word to my husband. I didn\'t know how to start my own confession either. How do I possible admit that I really cheated on him repeatedly, under his very nose... and how do I even admit that I did it with his own son? Worst still, how do I possibly tell him that it was my fault that his son is dead?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">At this point she paused for a long beat... I waited patiently for her to continue the confession. I was so keen to hear the end of her story (at least her husbands\' reaction to her confession)... But she remained Cold, Silent, and Remorseful.<br />I knew she still had a lot more to say. I waited patiently for her to regain voice. Moments later she suddenly grabbed my arm and groaned;<br />\"Promise me! Promise me you\'d tell the world my story! Promise me!\"<br />I managed to contain my shock and then replied reassuringly;<br />\"I promise. Tell me everything, I will write a book in your name.\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">She took a deep breath and then nodded twice. We stared into each other\'s face. I wanted to ask her a lot of questions but couldn\'t risk working her up. She took her time to narrate the remaining part of her story bit by bit, and I listened very aptly not missing a single fragment.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Her story was quite an intriguing tale. I thought of leaving her for few moments and rushing home to fetch my pen and paper. I just couldn\'t afford to miss any detail. On a second thought, I considered convincing her to follow me home so we can be more comfortable. It took me a long while to calm her down and of course win her trust, but after much persuasion she obliged and followed me to my family home. My mother being very emotional, didn\'t even bother inquiring about her identity-seeing her with me alone was enough to certify such curiosity-again, considering that she was heavily pregnant (as it is customary in Africa to attend to pregnant women with care and compassion devoid of class or personality (including pregnant mad-women)). After settling through the night, Ose confided in me with her history. I have taken my time to arrange all the details from the very threshold, down to the conclusion.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Viddawood is a team of experienced professionals on ground for professional consultancy, at a very affordable price, on TV/Screen writing. 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INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1791, '4 Awesome Reasons Why Camping Is The Perfect Romantic Getaway', '4-awesome-reasons-why-camping-is-the-perfect-romantic-getaway', 0, '2022-12-15 22:52:18', '2022-12-15 22:52:18', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">4 Awesome Reasons Why Camping Is The Perfect Romantic Getaway</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Daniel J. 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background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">With fresh air, the quietness of the woods and the breath-taking nature sites, enjoying the outdoors with your loved one surely makes the perfect romantic getaway. Not to mention being under the beautiful night sky and some quality bonding moment around the campfire! It may be something new and not everyone is up for it, but once you try it, you\'ll surely make plans for a second date outdoors!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>It\'s inexpensive</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You don\'t need to break the bank for a romantic vacation. Thought it may sound nice, you won\'t have to spend on expensive flight tickets, no fancy hotel stays and no over-priced dinners. Just drive to the nearest campsite and enjoy nature in all its glory.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You\'re not being a cheapskate, you\'re being creative and adventurous and most partners will appreciate the effort. You don\'t need to sleep in a tent (which can be the most uncomfortable part). Instead, go car camping!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Plan a romantic picnic watching the sunset with pre-made meals or have wine around the campfire. Dates don\'t have to be expensive to be memorable!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Amazing Views</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Nothing serves as the perfect date background than nature itself. When you\'re seeing beautiful mountains and clear blue lakes, it\'s hard not to have fun. At night, keep warm by snuggling, enjoying your favorite comfort drink around the fire while star-gazing!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Breaks You Out of Routine</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Everybody needs to relax, recharge and reconnect, especially if you have full time jobs in the city. It\'s nice to be able to get out of the usual routine of going to the same restaurants and spending another date night at the movies.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Spending time outdoors is the perfect way to break out of routine, whether you\'ve been married for over 20 years or have just been dating for a couple of months. Camping is a great way to shake things up and add a surprise element to your love life!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Privacy</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">One of the key elements of a perfect date or romantic getaway is being able to connect with your significant other in a meaningful way, to be able to just talk and be intimate. And it\'s hard to do this when you\'re always waiting in line or fighting for reservations. When you\'re camping, you\'ll get the privacy you need and you always get the best seat in the house!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">These are just some of the awesome reasons why camping is the perfect getaway!</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Daniel J. Smith is a survival expert. Having lived the outdoor life since he was very young, he loves sharing his expertise about&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.outbright.com/products/memory-foam-camping-pillow-compressible-hypoallergenic-with-bamboo-cover?variant=31210248470628\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">camping</a>, hiking, traveling, RV living and many more. He has also started his own company called&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.outbright.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">OutBright</a>, which will soon be selling products that cater to campers, hikers, travellers and all outdoor-loving adventurers.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Daniel_J._Smith/2570911\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Daniel_J._Smith/2570911</a></p>\r\n</div>');
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height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10225334&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There is nothing magical about any girl or woman.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There\'s nothing special about even the hottest chicks in the world.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Hence, no guy should be intimidated by any girl.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">No guy should allow a girl to control and walk all over him.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Allow me to explain...</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It\'s undoubtedly true that girls hold a lot of power over us guys...<br />... and they are very aware of it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The average girl has been approached more times than we\'ve had breakfast... and this boosts their self-esteem.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Since puberty, the physically attractive girl has received a lot of attention from every guy she encounters.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">She is so used to receiving compliments from guys that they no longer mean anything to her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The physically attractive girl has tons of guys pursuing her, kissing up to her and satisfying her every whim.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">She has guys groveling before her and worshiping the ground she walks on.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">She has guys jumping through endless string of hoops just for the opportunity to be with her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Heck! She has guys bowing before her as if her vagina is made of gold.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>All these attention and admiration makes girls feel superior</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Girls realize the powerful effect they can have on guys.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">They\'ve learned how easy guys are to manipulate and get to do their bidding.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">A hot girl expects every guy to bow down before her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The hot girl leads guys on letting them think they could have sex with her, even though she has no intention of ever engaging in it with them.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The fact is, girls use our desperate need for sex against us.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The fact that we guys desperately pursue girls and act like a wuss just to get sex from them has made them believe that they\'re superior and better than us.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>But girls are just plain, ordinary people...</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">... there is nothing magical about any girl or woman.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There\'s nothing special about even the hottest chicks in the world.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">They do all the gross things that any guy does, from passing gas to picking boogers out of their nose.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">They fart and shit just like everyone else.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">They\'re just mere humans.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Girls need us more than we need them</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Truth is, girls literally live for our adoration.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Underneath their bravado and self-esteem boost, they desperately need us.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">They need us more than we need them.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When you don\'t give them the attention they need, they\'ll be the ones seeking yours.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>So when you meet an attractive girl or a woman and want her...</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">... don\'t be scared of talking to her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t be intimidated by her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t be overly excited to be with her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t be complimenting her every chance you get.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t show too much interest to the extent that you act a fool.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">And avoid the \'nice guy\' syndrome... even that doesn\'t really get you the girl.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">No woman or girl is better than you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Let girls be the ones to seek your attention and approval</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Never give a girl what she wants... never give her the adoration she is looking for.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Instead, let her be the one to seek your attention and approval.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You see, attractive girls are used to guys desperately pursuing them and falling for their tricks and games.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Now, if you meet an attractive girl and you don\'t show any interest (or at least you pretend you\'re not interested in her), you send a powerful message about how little you need (from her).</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This gets her intrigue... and with the right approach, you will have her pursuing you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">That being said, no ordinary girl should be put up on a pedestal...<br />... save that for the girl you\'re in a romantic relationship with.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t treat a girl you\'re not sexually involved with as if she\'s the center of the universe.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Sure, you need a girl but that doesn\'t mean you should act like a wuss just to be with one.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>So there you have it...</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">... the simple fact about girls.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Once you stop looking at girls as if they are more important than you and you stop treating them as if they\'re the center of the universe, it has all kinds of magical effects.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you take nothing else away from this post, let it be this:&nbsp;<strong><em>a girl needs you more than you need her</em></strong>.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Do you find this article helpful? Then share and tell people about it.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Josh Manuel is not a relationship therapist. He\'s not a pick-up artist. But he brings you quality information on dating and relationships. He offers the best dating tips and relationship advice that will change your love life today. He shares his experiences with you in the hopes that it will help you improve your personal relationship with women. He also teaches stuff that has nothing to do with dating, but the sex aspect of relationship. You can find his blog at&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.guysandgurls.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://www.guysandgurls.com</a>.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Josh_Manuel/1620915\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Josh_Manuel/1620915</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1793, 'When You Have Feelings for a Girl - Don\'t Make This Mistake', 'when-you-have-feelings-for-a-girl-don-t-make-this-mistake', 0, '2022-12-15 22:53:00', '2022-12-15 22:53:00', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">When You Have Feelings for a Girl - Don\'t Make This Mistake</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Josh Manuel\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Josh_Manuel/1620915\" rel=\"author\">Josh Manuel</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On December 20, 2019</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">... that\'s a HUGE mistake.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Let me explain</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You will have a girl you like and have developed feelings for and you will&nbsp;<strong><em>want</em></strong>&nbsp;to get intimate with her or be her lover...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">... meanwhile, you don\'t express your desire for her - you don\'t let her know you\'re interested in her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You hold back on expressing your feelings and desire for her because you don\'t want to mess up your chances.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You don\'t want to try anything sexual then screw up the possibility of GETTING her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You\'re afraid that if you try anything, she\'ll think you are trying to get into her pants, and then leave you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So you will want to play it safe so as not to get rejected - you will be nice to her, advise her, be her best friend, all to give her the impression you\'re not sexually interested in her and that you just want to be her friend...&nbsp;<strong><em>in the hopes that she falls for you and eventually get intimate with her</em>.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Or you probably will want to wait for the right moment to express your desire for her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">BIG mistake.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Fact is, girls look to guys to make a move</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">They want us to be the first to profess our feelings.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">They expect us to get romantic and sexual with them first.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Girls don\'t put their desire out there until a guy does.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When a girl feels an attraction or has feelings for you, she won\'t&nbsp;<strong><em>make it obvious</em></strong>... she won\'t reach over then kiss you. She will rarely give you blatant signals that she wants you to make a move or that she wants you to kiss her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">A girl doesn\'t show her interest in a guy she feels attracted to until she can tell the guy is into her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">She doesn\'t want to expose herself and risk coming across as easy. To her, it\'s not ladylike.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Sure, the aggressive girl will act on her feelings, but be that as it may, it\'s you, the guy, to take the initiative.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>When you hold back on expressing your desire for a girl...</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">... you\'re going to lose her to another guy.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Because not only is&nbsp;<strong><em>another guy pursuing her</em></strong>, but your failure to show interest or express your desire for her will have her settle for someone else.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When you interact with a girl you have feelings for who also has feelings for you (feels attracted to you) and you don\'t take action (you don\'t let her know you have a romantic interest in her), she\'s going to think...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ol style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">you don\'t find her attractive and hence, don\'t like her</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">or you\'re gay and not into girls</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">or you\'re a wuss and you lack confidence (you\'re not a man)</li>\r\n</ol>\r\n... whatever impression she makes of you, she\'s going to move on and eventually fall for another guy.\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Or let me put it in another way...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">... another guy is going to win her heart and she will have to choose him over you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>... don\'t let this happen to you</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The longer you hang out with a girl without getting intimate with her or at least letting her know you have a romantic interest in her beyond just friendship, the more you will kill your chances of anything intimate or sexual EVER happening between the two of you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You may think that the longer you play it cool and are nice to her and advise her and be her best friend and \'respect\' her too much to get intimate with her, the more she will like you and the easier it will be to get intimate or sexual with her...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">... NO.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">She\'s going to end up in the arms (and in the bed) of another guy.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The longer you wait to let her know you have a romantic interest in her, the worse the situation gets.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Sure, be nice to a girl, be her best friend...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">... but solely being that - most especially for fear of getting rejected or risky the girl\'s disapproval - will get you nothing.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>When you meet a girl you have feelings for...</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">... express your romantic interest and desire for her before another guy swoops in and gets her first.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Be proactive.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Take the lead.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Be a man and go after what you want -&nbsp;<strong><em>her</em></strong>.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Make the first move rather than waiting for her to act or take the first step.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You don\'t need to verbalize your romantic interest in a girl provided you\'re too shy to do it... you can just&nbsp;<strong><em>let on your interest in her</em></strong>&nbsp;to signal to her your desire for her is beyond just friendship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There\'s no shame in pursuing a particular girl or woman... you just have to do it in an attractive way and not in a wussy manner as most guys do it -&nbsp;<strong><em>desperately pursuing girls</em></strong>.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Heck! Make your sexual intentions acceptably obvious... not that you explicitly want to have sex with her, but let her know that you\'re NOT looking to be just friends with her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t be afraid to express your feelings for a girl you like and want to date... she expects it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">And don\'t wait around for her to be the one to get intimate with you because it\'s never going to happen.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Again, keep in mind...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">... other guys are pursuing her and she\'s going to have to&nbsp;<strong><em>choose</em></strong>&nbsp;- you or the guy she texts and talks to on phone every night before she goes to bed.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t let another guy win her heart... do something fast... do it now, and get that girl.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Now understand...</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">A girl will not look you over and then decide that she wants you...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">... she will want you (feel attracted to you) because of the attractive behaviors you exhibit and more importantly how you make her feel on an emotional and sexual level.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So be attractive and desirable and catch her interest while demonstrating your romantic intentions.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Here, she will now be opened to your seduction and advances, and she\'ll seize them when you put them in front of her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>So there you have it...</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">... don\'t lose a girl by doing nothing.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t play it safe with a girl or a woman you find attractive and want to get intimate with.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There\'s no shame in showing an interest in a girl. You are human with a desire... so is the girl. So let her know your intention.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Girls want us to behave like men.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So you have to be willing to expose yourself and risk rejection for a girl to open herself up. If you\'re&nbsp;<strong><em>waiting</em></strong>&nbsp;for a girl to get intimate with you instead of being the one to make it happen, you will be disappointed.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I hope this article has given you a deep insight into girls and how to get a girl.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Do you find it helpful? Then share and tell people about it.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Josh Manuel is not a relationship therapist. He\'s not a pick-up artist. But he brings you quality information on dating and relationships. He offers the best dating tips and relationship advice that will change your love life today. He shares his experiences with you in the hopes that it will help you improve your personal relationship with women. He also teaches stuff that has nothing to do with dating, but the sex aspect of relationship. You can find his blog at&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.guysandgurls.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://www.guysandgurls.com</a>.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Josh_Manuel/1620915\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Josh_Manuel/1620915</a></p>\r\n</div>');
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Seducing a woman then becomes a lot easier.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Sexual escalation is one of the most important techniques to seduce a woman. If you don\'t do this, you\'ll be in the friend zone. So pay attention!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Have you ever had intimate relations with a woman without touching her?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">No, I didn\'t think so either. You must touch her to arouse sexual attraction. We call the art of wining her through touch: Sexual escalation.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So what is a sexual escalation in women?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It means that you progressively lead the conversation to something more intimate.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For example, from a chat with a woman in a club to kissing.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Or from a first date to your bedroom.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It ensures that you really seduce a woman. And that you don\'t end up in that infamous friendzone.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>What is the purpose of sexual escalation?</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ul style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">That she knows that you like her;</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">That she knows that if she stays with you longer, she will be tempted;</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">That she is comfortable with your touches;</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">That she gets excited.</li>\r\n</ul>\r\nImagine that you are on a date with a woman...\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You don\'t touch her. You do not show that you like her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Then from scratch... BOEM... now you try to kiss her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">That woman then thinks: \"Where does this come from?\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You do not show that you like her - but you suddenly try to kiss her? It is an uncomfortable situation.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Nobody wants that.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>How does sexual escalation work?</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As you can see above, there are 4 goals of sexual escalation. They are all aimed at seducing a woman and getting her into bed.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You can sexually escalate in two ways:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ol style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Verbal (Verbal escalate);</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Physical (Physical escalation).</li>\r\n</ol>\r\nI\'ll give you examples later, but first I want to tell you something about the speed with which you work towards seducing her.\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>How quickly do you want to escalate sexually for the optimum effect?</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Why do you hammer like that at that speed? Well, many men hit huge flatters in this. They try to move from shaking hands to fingering in 2 minutes. Or even worse, it takes 3 years to show their intentions.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Good luck with that, but if you want to sleep with her, there are better ways.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Look, it\'s just like you want to cook a frog in a pan of water.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><u>You can do 2 things:</u></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ol style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You can boil the water first and then put the frog in it - after which it jumps out immediately;</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Or you can put the frog in the cold water and warm it up slowly - so the frog stays in it quietly until it\'s too late.</li>\r\n</ol>\r\nYou want to seduce a woman in the same way, of course without the boiling water.\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Verbal Escalate</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Escalating verbally is to seduce a woman with words. Your goals here:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">That she knows that you like her;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">That she knows that if she stays with you longer she will be seduced.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You do this by letting her know you like her... simple, right?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It is often difficult enough.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Many men take it \'easy\' on the first date - never to get a second date. It is important that you are not too nice to women. If women hate one thing, it is men who treat them like princesses.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So dare to take risks. You don\'t seduce a woman by being sweet.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Examples of verbal escalation at the start of the interaction:</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">On a date:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">\"You have put on a nice dress... and especially for me\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you are late on a date and she says something about it:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">\"Serious?! You will complain that I am 15 minutes late, while I have been waiting for you all my life?! \"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If she apologizes for something:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">\"Doesn\'t matter... I would still do that to you... \"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Important:</strong>&nbsp;All sentences must be said with a small grin on your face. So it\'s half funny / half-serious.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This ensures that she does not know exactly how to interpret it. For example, she half thinks you\'re making fun of her (which no other man dares). On the other hand, she thinks you mean it, so she knows that you like her and that you are going to seduce her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Physical Escalate</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Physical escalation is sexual escalation with touch.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This is even more important than verbal for the following reason:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Touching is naming and scientifically proven way to seduce women.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>How do you seduce a woman with physical escalation?</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Again it is important that you do not throw the frog in a pan with boiling water...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Build it up quietly. Make sure you are calm and do not appear tense. Body language is important for that.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Important about physical escalation is that you pay attention to the different zones of a female body.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There are roughly 2 to distinguish:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>1. Friendly zones</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">These are places where normal people can touch her. Think of her shoulder or arm.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>2. Intimate zones</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">These are places you would only touch someone if you are attracted to that person. Think of her lower back, neck or caressing her hand.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Important: Do not be a creep</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Pay attention! If a woman does not want you to touch her somewhere, then immediately cut it. If you continue and force something, it is first of all against her will. Secondly, she is afraid of you now because you are going too fast.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The correct way to solve this is by immediately taking your hand away and stopping what you do if you find it uncomfortable. In the meantime, continue talking and try again in 5 minutes.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Examples of physical escalation at the beginning</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- Give her a high five.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- Shake hands. Make sure you turn your hand slightly with the palm facing up so that she can give a typical woman\'s hand.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- Touch the inside of her elbow and pull her towards you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">- Push her away against her shoulder.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Examples of physical escalation in intimate places</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Now that you have touched her with some friendly touches, we move on to some intimate places.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Because it is different in different situations, I give you an example for a first date and on the dance floor.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Example: Seducing a woman on the dance floor</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Grab her hands. You now have both hands and you can move up and down with your hands.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Now that you are standing with her hands, you can dance a little more with her. Sometimes turn her around, pull her against you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Now you can kiss her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Clearly? Beautiful.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Then we continue now...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Example: Seduce a woman on the first date</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The situation is slightly different on the first date. No flickering lights, screaming girlfriends and no sweet white wine (at least not yet).</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Let\'s move on. What you need to know about seducing a woman on the first date is that you should not be too careful with physical escalation.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">She shows up for the date, so she already likes you. She already finds you attractive. If she wasn\'t interested, she wouldn\'t be sitting in front of you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ol style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Start again with a superficial touch. A box or high five is the easiest;</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Point to her hands and say, \"I really love those cute little hands,\" now hold them together and compare them;</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Put her hands down again and continue talking. You can now gently and quietly caress one of her hands;</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Gently go from her hand up to her elbow, shoulder neck;</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Massage her neck a little. If she\'s comfortable with this, kiss her.</li>\r\n</ol>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you have the ability to&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"http://youridealchoice.com/dreaminvadersreview.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">invade dream</a>&nbsp;of any women, and implant any feelings and thoughts to them, who will be the woman that you want to use this ability on? In fact, you can do it and let her&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"http://youridealchoice.com/dreaminvadersreview.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">fall in love</a>&nbsp;with you instantly.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Mark_Tay/235384\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Mark_Tay/235384</a></p>\r\n</div>');
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Ordinarily, most people do not want to be lonely. Relationships are about connecting with people and especially when you lose contacts with loved ones or people you want to be in contact with, you feel lonely even in the midst of people.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Loneliness is a big life challenge because it can deal negatively with your self-worth and self-esteem. It can bring down your self-esteem. It has a way of making you feel incapacitated. You can\'t seem to think of anything meaningful to move your life forward. Loneliness can make you feel jealous and envious. It can make you start having feelings of rejection, dejection, abandonment, frustration and even depression. Some had muted the idea of suicide just because they felt nobody cares about them anymore.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">\'MarketWatch\' reports that nearly half of Americans report feeling lonely at one point or another. This is whooping when one considers the effect of loneliness all around the World. In some cultures, especially in black Africa, where you may not even have the opportunity to voice out your feeling of loneliness, it could be overwhelming.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When you eventually escape from loneliness, it could feel like a hallucination. You feel on top of the World. You feel like a bird let out of the cage. You feel so happy and joyful. It\'s actually hilarious when you come out of loneliness. And especially when you\'re now \'chilling\' in the arms of your love or in the midst of great people of your tribe.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I never noticed I could feel lonely until I felt I have come of age to have a life partner. And you know, as maturity comes, you become more self-aware. As I started the woman-hunt for the love of my life, I got more Nos than YESes. Mostly, those I did not quite like say YES while those I like say NO. I would go into my shell and after nursing more wounds, I would launch back again. There were no significant successes. As a result, I had fallen into emotional depressions a couple of times.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The question has always been: what did you do to swim out of the mighty ocean of loneliness?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Joining Groups: In my local church, there are a number of pious societies. I have two of them that I am always fascinated about namely: Catholic Charismatic Renewal and Justice, Development and Peace Commission. I registered and we normally have fellowships three days in a week. I enjoy the happenings there and I find it fun engaging in the weekly activities.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Getting Online: Life has become easier with the advent of Social Media especially when it comes to dealing with loneliness. You could literally make a friend in a fly. I have become friends with people I never knew from Adam through chats and we\'ve taken it offline, and we had actually become close friends. You could make friends instantly from Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, etc.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Start Something New: It was actually in the course of my loneliness that I discovered one gift that God had deposited in me. And that is the ability to put words together. I had been struggling to polish the skill and today, I had written two published books. Writing takes the whole of you and you won\'t even remember anything called loneliness as you are consumed putting your train of thoughts down in the most effective way.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Tell a Close Friend: If you\'re challenged by loneliness, do not keep it to yourself. Relay it to someone who really cares about you. I confided in my sister who is also my friend on the ordeals that I was passing through. I got great support from her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Vulnerability: I know myself to be an introvert. But I had to learn to be more open to people. I become intentional now to warm up to people. I smile. I greet. I hug. I can share anything under the sun about me without feeling ashamed of it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In all, loneliness is not something anyone would like to experience. However, it\'s like two sides of the same coin. Which side would you like to see yourself? I am for the positive side where I can use it as a stepping stone to work on my weaknesses and also, improve on my strengths.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Stan Onodu is the author of \'Just Your Prince, Kiss Frogs No More\' who helps women that are ready to marry attract and choose their perfect life partners without pre-marital sex. You can learn more here: [http://www.lastinghotlove.com].</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Stan_Onodu/641487</a></p>\r\n</div>');
