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<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">Many people have come to me with the same problem; 'Everything seems so perfect with this new person I met, I can't find anything wrong, so I better leave before I get hurt.'</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">It's very common to not be able to figure out what that strange thing is which is preventing you from having that deep connection.</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><strong>'It's just too good to be true.'</strong></p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">That feeling triggers subconscious fears of getting hurt and prevents you from making that deep emotional connection. You then just accept that there is a problem you cannot see and run away.</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">But the only problem is that you cannot believe you found someone so perfectly aligned to your desires.</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">The qualities you're looking for in a partner are often set at a very high standard. When you actually find someone with those qualities you tend to close your heart or run away because you cannot believe it's true.</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">"How could I find someone with all the qualities I'm looking?" "I must be missing something."</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">The fear kicks in that if you find that special person, you would be so deeply in love, if they left, you would be totally devastated. So your subconscious fears tell you it is better to pick someone with flaws you can see, so you never let your heart become fully invested in the relationship.</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">But of course, that leads to repeated relationships that end in failure, obviously since you pick someone you are not really matched well with.</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">We have to learn to trust more and take a chance with a strong heart that is willing to risk being disappointed.</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">Our courses and articles on Relationshipcoachonline.com make you able to deal with disappointment and rejection and will make you so confident that you will not mind taking that risk.</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">It's only in taking a risk that you stand a chance of success, because the perfect partner is not going to know where you live and coming knocking on your door.</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">Be willing to try and find out if they actually are too good to be true. If you do not, your relationships will be perpetually disappointing because you will only accept and get into a relationship with someone who has significant flaws or is not what you're looking for.</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">If you are lucky enough to find a true gem of a partner, don't reject the special one when you find yourself thinking they're too good to be true.</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">If you have a feeling that something is wrong and you can't figure out what, consider that what is wrong, is your own fear.</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">Your fear is what keeps you in the endless loop of picking the wrong partner by missing out the right one.</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;"><strong>To have the strength to not fear getting hurt, do these three simple steps;</strong></p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">&nbsp;</p>
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<li style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">Think about how many times you have been hurt, and that you are still here, you will always recover.</li>
<li style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">Look forward, not back. Difficulties are what make us stronger, and the past was just preparing you for the future, so don't let it imprison you.</li>
<li style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">There is only one thing that makes life perfect, and that is a loving relationship. If you don't take the chance, you will guarantee a lonely life. So try and know that if it works, great, but if not, you will recover and try again.</li>
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Every day is a new start to a new life. Forget the past and look forward to a happy future.
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<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;">After decades of helping people resolve their relationship issues, both in current and past relationships, and helping people find that new and lasting love, David Samuel is now available to world, on line, to share his wisdom and experiences. Please visit&nbsp;<a style="color: #a30006;" href="https://relationshipcoachonline.com/blog/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">https://relationshipcoachonline.com/blog/</a></p>
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