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The statistics shown in these articles were later disputed, but the myth persists, because it corroborates our fears.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>You only need one at a time</strong>. One thing we have a tendency to worry about is whether there are enough suitable people out there. No matter how much you hear about how few eligible men or women there are for your age range, or that all the appropriate ones are already taken, take heart. You are an individual unlike any other, and you have an advantage if you are following a successful dating process.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Out of all the people in your town or city, you only need one, and if you go to the appropriate places where you can meet suitable people, as outlined in the following chapters, your chances of meeting a suitable partner are excellent, and making new friends is a sure thing.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>You can have somebody to love</strong>. If your family history was difficult, and you don\'t know what healthy relationships are, you can feel that you\'re doomed because relationships will never work for you. While you may need to do some extra work to correct the damage, you can still enjoy the dating experience, make some friends and even find a suitable relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you grew up in a problem family, you may worry that you don\'t know what a normal family interaction looks like. If there was an alcoholic, a depressed parent, a volatile or violent relationship, a missing parent, or even a foster situation, you may not have witnessed enough normal discussion, decision-making, problem-solving and affection to know how to do it in your own relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Relationship difficulties caused by your lack of healthy role models might be one reason you are dating again. If your past relationship repeated your early family problems you may fear you\'ll never be able to love or be loved, but if you follow the right steps, you can avoid repeating those old patterns. Keep focused on your goal of meeting someone with whom you can create a loving relationship. If your problem is difficult, learning to date successfully could cause you to seek counseling or therapy. If so, good for you. You\'ll learn what you need to know to date again successfully.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Beating the Odds</strong>. If you\'re worried that the odds are against you, and that you won\'t succeed because few people do, you need to re-direct your thinking. Remember: you have been through difficulties before, you have learned new things before, you will survive this, and it will be worth it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Each of your life experiences has taught you something, which means you know more that you did the last time. You are following expert advice, which will increase your chances of success. The fact that you\'re reading this shows that you care about the result, you\'re thinking carefully, and you want to approach dating again from an organized, informed point of view, which will make you more effective and successful.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In my experience as a relationship counselor, I find that people who look for a relationship after losing one, if they do it thoughtfully and with a plan, almost always find someone who suits them better than the last person, because they\'ve grown in wisdom and learned from experience.&nbsp;<strong>If nothing else, you\'ll make new friends</strong>. The best way to guarantee a good outcome in the dating process is to seek to make friends. If you set a goal to meet new friends and have good times, you\'ll succeed. When you approach your search as a search for friends, you can relax the stringent requirements you would have for a lover/partner. Suddenly you\'re free to notice everyone-because anyone could turn out to be a good friend. When you relax and open up your criteria in this way, you will be open to meeting more of the people you encounter, and to finding out about them. Who knows, one of them may have a sibling or a friend who could turn out to be your soul mate.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Remember that \"birds of a feather flock together\". In this context, that means if you find good quality people you enjoy, and make the effort to become friends them, you will meet their other friends-who will be \"birds of a feather.\" Most of the people you meet and like will know other people who are quite similar. Thus, every new friend can bring a network of new people, as desirable as the original friend, into your life.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Myth #2: You Only Get to Love One Person in a Lifetime</strong>.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In this day of a 50% divorce rate, it\'s getting harder to believe there can only be one person in the world for you, but the myth still persists. There are lots of songs, poems, and movies about the \"one true love\" you \"can\'t survive without.\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Anyone who has loved someone for a long time and then lost them naturally feels that there\'s no way they can be replaced. Of course, no one who is dear to you and now gone can exactly be replaced. There are many ways to love people, and a number of people you can love. Just as you can love various members of your family differently, and just as you can care deeply about several dear friends, in different ways; so you can also find more than one person who are compatible enough to fall in love with and create a workable relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As much as you loved your last partner, you may be surprised to find that a new person has attributes and qualities you really enjoy; things you never knew were missing before. It\'s fortunate that we are able to love more than one person, because it\'s so easy to be attracted to someone with severe problems. The point of dating is to find several people who are attractive to you, so you can sort through their character traits and foibles, until you find someone who is not only attractive, but also healthy for you. For this reason, you need to understand how to choose a relationship \"from the neck up\" as well as \"from the neck down\"-that is, using your judgment as well as your sense of chemistry and attraction.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">At the turn of the last millennium, when social mores were more restrictive, and people didn\'t move around as much as they do today, meeting a new partner was more difficult. Today, we have more personal freedom, and neither gender has to wait for the other to make a move, or for a proper introduction. Everyone has more mobility, and a bigger population and more social outlets, to make meeting new people a lot easier. So, today the big question is not \"Can I find the one and only true love of my life\" but \"How, out of all these people, do I choose the one with whom I can really be successful this time?\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Myth #3: Dating is only for the young</strong>. You can hear the age myth stated by people from 25 years old to advanced senior citizenhood. I personally know of three ladies who met suitable gentlemen and got married at the ages of 78, 85 and 87. It\'s never too late to meet a mate.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><em>Seniors in Love Anecdotes</em>&nbsp;(names are changed)</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">1. Rose was taking a world cruise. She would be on the ship for over three months of luxury and adventure. At 87, she had been widowed for many years, and her children were not only grown, but middle-aged. She was still active and healthy, and she wanted to take this cruise while she was still able to do it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">One day, the cruise held a party for all the singles on board, and Rose decided to go-perhaps she\'d meet some new friends. As people were introduced, she was astounded to hear a man\'s name which recalled her past. She went up to him, and introduced herself. It was true- Robert was the very man she had dated as a young woman. Things had not worked out when they were younger, but this time they were not going to lose each other. After getting reacquainted on the ship, they were married six months later.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">2. Clara had spent her entire life in obedience to her parents. She stayed home after her father died, to care for her elderly mother, who eventually became demented and difficult. Clara even ran the local post office in the small village she lived in, because she could do that from her home. She almost never went out. When her mother finally died, Clara was 60 years old, and the federal government closed her small post office, and transferred her to a post office job at the county seat.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Here, she met George, another postal worker, and her contemporary. They began having lunches together, and developed a friendship. After a number of years, they both retired and continued their relationship. At age 78, Clara became a bride for the first time in her life, and the ladies of her small town threw her a wedding shower. Seeing her opening gifts, and holding up lovely, lacy lingerie was truly the picture of a dream come true.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">3. Vera, 85 years old, had been married to a military officer, and lived all over the world. She and her husband raised several children, and had many grandchildren and even great-grandchildren. Her husband had died a few years ago, and she had moved to California to be close to her younger sister, who was also now widowed. The sisters lived close together, and traveled often together. One day, the phone rang, and when Vera answered, a voice on the other end said \"do you remember me?\" It was Ed, whom Vera had been engaged to when she was 18. He had tracked her down through people who knew her in their old home town. They hadn\'t married because Vera had discovered that Ed had a drinking problem. He had long since become sober, married, and raised a family of his own, but his wife had died a few years before.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Vera decided to go to the nearby city where Ed lived, just for a couple of days, to meet him and talk. Her sister got a call. She was not coming home right away. In fact, she didn\'t come home for two weeks. She and Ed were married six months later.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you ask your friends, co-workers and family members, you\'ll hear many more stories of people who met and fell in love at advanced ages. It\'s obvious from these stories that age does not have to hold you back from meeting someone to love.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It\'s true that when you\'re a teenager, an age difference of 10 or more years makes a vast difference in your experience and your outlook on life. Such a difference can interfere with communication, life goals, outlook, and relationship experience. In addition, the social reaction to such a relationship is often very negative. If one partner is underage, a sexual relationship is even against the law.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">But, as we get older, life experience and emotional growth even things out. A ten-year or more difference in your ages makes little difference in how well you can conduct your relationship. Don\'t focus on an arbitrary numbers difference in your ages. If you are getting along, you have good communication and problem-solving, and you love each other, that\'s a precious thing, and far more important than any age difference could be. And if other people have a problem with it, let it be their problem.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Myth #4: They\'re all losers or I am</strong>. Many myths are based on a negative view of life and love, often because the people who promote them had negative experiences themselves. As we have discussed before, difficult family or relationship experiences can affect your view of relationships and the possibility of being loved.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The following steps will help you find a winner:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; finding&nbsp;<em>quality</em>&nbsp;people to date</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; looking in appropriate places</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; taking your time before getting emotionally involved</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; interviewing new dates, and paying attention to the information you get</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; using your network of friends for support, and</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; checking up on the people you meet.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Anyone can meet a person with problems-they don\'t wear signs so it\'s not your fault if you meet someone who doesn\'t have his or her act together. However, if you stick around someone who obviously can\'t function well enough to be a good partner, you can fix that problem by learning to let go of bad apples. Difficult people aren\'t usually a problem if you keep them at a distance. They\'re a giant problem if you let them into your life.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Look for&nbsp;<em>people</em>, not perfection</strong>. You can be led astray if you are too concerned about categories such as wealth, education, good family, impressive career, fancy car, and designer clothes. To find a quality person with whom to share your life, you must look beyond those surface clues, and deeper into the person.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Con artists of all types know very well how to exploit appearances to lure you in and take advantage of you. If you follow the guidelines which are fully explained in the succeeding chapters, you will not be vulnerable to people who want to take advantage of you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Scaring yourself about molesters, rapists, alcoholics, narcissists, and other kinds of dangerous types is just another needless worry. Each person you meet presents an opportunity for you to find out who he or she is, and there are more good people than bad people out there. With a little know-how, and proper caution, it\'s pretty easy to recognize the difference.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Celebrate Individuality. To get to know a new person, and be known, takes a little time, because each of us is unique. We can\'t just say \"Oh, he\'s a Category A, or a Category B\" because people don\'t fit into neat, tidy classifications. You can observe someone and think \"Oh, she has good manners, she must be educated,\" and then find out she has a problem with rage or alcohol. On the other hand, some perfect gems come in rough clothing. Many clients who are in good relationships with wonderful partners have told me \"I wouldn\'t have looked twice at him if we hadn\'t gotten to know each other first.\" Or, \"She wasn\'t my type,\" but after I saw her in action volunteering in the political campaign, I realized she was an extraordinary person, with great ethics, and very caring.\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Each person you meet along the dating path has unique personality traits, desirable and undesirable. Giving yourself the time to get to know them enables you to sort them out.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t blame a new friend for old miseries. No matter how bad your history has been, you don\'t have to re-create it. You can learn to interact in different ways, and to correct problems that come up. This guide is about dating correctly and successfully. If you feel out of control and unable to follow the guidelines here, you may need to work with a counselor to make the necessary changes, just as you might work with a personal trainer to correct and improve your workouts, or a nutritionist to evaluate and correct your diet.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If your background was dysfunctional and toxic, or your previous partners have been abusive or addictive, you may need to be suspicious of your first choices. That is, because of your early experience, you may be \"conditioned\" to be attracted to a particular character flaw. That is, the people you automatically are drawn to, and feel comfortable with initially, may be exactly the people you should stay away from. If you know this about yourself, and can resist the pull of the dysfunction, you can meet other, better people to date. If you have trouble changing this focus, counseling can help.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>We\'re all in the same boat</strong>. Everyone who faces dating as an adult has similar worries and insecurities. It\'s a return of adolescent feelings from your first dating experiences. If you\'re feeling bad about yourself, it\'s probably because you\'re feeling:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Vulnerable</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Like a Loser</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Afraid of Rejection</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Awkward, Unacceptable</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If so, here\'s a simple truth to keep in mind: Everyone feels equally insecure about dating again. Some hide it better than others, some have been dating longer, and have become less nervous, but everyone has been through it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you present a friendly, pleasant demeanor and you are open to getting to know people, they will be relieved and pleased. Here is the perfect place to practice the Golden Rule-treat others exactly as you would like to be treated, and you will have plenty of good responses.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Each new situation will produce the above list of qualms, but keep in mind you\'re there to make friends. Find the safest-looking person in the room, and chat with them. You\'ll feel better, and then you can move on to greeting others. After a few minutes of pleasant conversation with new acquaintances, you will relax, and your anxieties will be forgotten.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&copy; Tina B. Tessina 2020. Adapted from:&nbsp;<em>Dr. Romance\'s Guide to Finding Love Today</em>.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Author Bio: Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. (www.tinatessina.com) is a licensed psychotherapist in S. California since 1978 with over 40 years\' experience in counseling individuals and couples and author of 15 books in 17 languages, including Dr. Romance\'s Guide to Finding Love Today; It Ends With You: Grow Up and Out of Dysfunction; The Ten Smartest Decisions a Woman Can Make After Forty; Love Styles: How to Celebrate Your Differences, The Real 13th Step, How to Be Happy Partners: Working it Out Together and How to Be a Couple and Still Be Free. She writes the \"Dr. Romance\" blog (drromance.typepad.com), and the \"Happiness Tips from Tina\" email newsletter. Online, she\'s known as \"Dr. Romance\" and offers courses at GenerousMarriage.com. Dr. Tessina appears frequently on radio, TV, video and podcasts. She tweets @tinatessina</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Tina_Tessina/34086\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Tina_Tessina/34086</a></p>\r\n</div>');
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The statistics shown in these articles were later disputed, but the myth persists, because it corroborates our fears.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>You only need one at a time</strong>. One thing we have a tendency to worry about is whether there are enough suitable people out there. No matter how much you hear about how few eligible men or women there are for your age range, or that all the appropriate ones are already taken, take heart. You are an individual unlike any other, and you have an advantage if you are following a successful dating process.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Out of all the people in your town or city, you only need one, and if you go to the appropriate places where you can meet suitable people, as outlined in the following chapters, your chances of meeting a suitable partner are excellent, and making new friends is a sure thing.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>You can have somebody to love</strong>. If your family history was difficult, and you don\'t know what healthy relationships are, you can feel that you\'re doomed because relationships will never work for you. While you may need to do some extra work to correct the damage, you can still enjoy the dating experience, make some friends and even find a suitable relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you grew up in a problem family, you may worry that you don\'t know what a normal family interaction looks like. If there was an alcoholic, a depressed parent, a volatile or violent relationship, a missing parent, or even a foster situation, you may not have witnessed enough normal discussion, decision-making, problem-solving and affection to know how to do it in your own relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Relationship difficulties caused by your lack of healthy role models might be one reason you are dating again. If your past relationship repeated your early family problems you may fear you\'ll never be able to love or be loved, but if you follow the right steps, you can avoid repeating those old patterns. Keep focused on your goal of meeting someone with whom you can create a loving relationship. If your problem is difficult, learning to date successfully could cause you to seek counseling or therapy. If so, good for you. You\'ll learn what you need to know to date again successfully.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Beating the Odds</strong>. If you\'re worried that the odds are against you, and that you won\'t succeed because few people do, you need to re-direct your thinking. Remember: you have been through difficulties before, you have learned new things before, you will survive this, and it will be worth it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Each of your life experiences has taught you something, which means you know more that you did the last time. You are following expert advice, which will increase your chances of success. The fact that you\'re reading this shows that you care about the result, you\'re thinking carefully, and you want to approach dating again from an organized, informed point of view, which will make you more effective and successful.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In my experience as a relationship counselor, I find that people who look for a relationship after losing one, if they do it thoughtfully and with a plan, almost always find someone who suits them better than the last person, because they\'ve grown in wisdom and learned from experience.&nbsp;<strong>If nothing else, you\'ll make new friends</strong>. The best way to guarantee a good outcome in the dating process is to seek to make friends. If you set a goal to meet new friends and have good times, you\'ll succeed. When you approach your search as a search for friends, you can relax the stringent requirements you would have for a lover/partner. Suddenly you\'re free to notice everyone-because anyone could turn out to be a good friend. When you relax and open up your criteria in this way, you will be open to meeting more of the people you encounter, and to finding out about them. Who knows, one of them may have a sibling or a friend who could turn out to be your soul mate.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Remember that \"birds of a feather flock together\". In this context, that means if you find good quality people you enjoy, and make the effort to become friends them, you will meet their other friends-who will be \"birds of a feather.\" Most of the people you meet and like will know other people who are quite similar. Thus, every new friend can bring a network of new people, as desirable as the original friend, into your life.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Myth #2: You Only Get to Love One Person in a Lifetime</strong>.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In this day of a 50% divorce rate, it\'s getting harder to believe there can only be one person in the world for you, but the myth still persists. There are lots of songs, poems, and movies about the \"one true love\" you \"can\'t survive without.\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Anyone who has loved someone for a long time and then lost them naturally feels that there\'s no way they can be replaced. Of course, no one who is dear to you and now gone can exactly be replaced. There are many ways to love people, and a number of people you can love. Just as you can love various members of your family differently, and just as you can care deeply about several dear friends, in different ways; so you can also find more than one person who are compatible enough to fall in love with and create a workable relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As much as you loved your last partner, you may be surprised to find that a new person has attributes and qualities you really enjoy; things you never knew were missing before. It\'s fortunate that we are able to love more than one person, because it\'s so easy to be attracted to someone with severe problems. The point of dating is to find several people who are attractive to you, so you can sort through their character traits and foibles, until you find someone who is not only attractive, but also healthy for you. For this reason, you need to understand how to choose a relationship \"from the neck up\" as well as \"from the neck down\"-that is, using your judgment as well as your sense of chemistry and attraction.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">At the turn of the last millennium, when social mores were more restrictive, and people didn\'t move around as much as they do today, meeting a new partner was more difficult. Today, we have more personal freedom, and neither gender has to wait for the other to make a move, or for a proper introduction. Everyone has more mobility, and a bigger population and more social outlets, to make meeting new people a lot easier. So, today the big question is not \"Can I find the one and only true love of my life\" but \"How, out of all these people, do I choose the one with whom I can really be successful this time?\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Myth #3: Dating is only for the young</strong>. You can hear the age myth stated by people from 25 years old to advanced senior citizenhood. I personally know of three ladies who met suitable gentlemen and got married at the ages of 78, 85 and 87. It\'s never too late to meet a mate.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><em>Seniors in Love Anecdotes</em>&nbsp;(names are changed)</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">1. Rose was taking a world cruise. She would be on the ship for over three months of luxury and adventure. At 87, she had been widowed for many years, and her children were not only grown, but middle-aged. She was still active and healthy, and she wanted to take this cruise while she was still able to do it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">One day, the cruise held a party for all the singles on board, and Rose decided to go-perhaps she\'d meet some new friends. As people were introduced, she was astounded to hear a man\'s name which recalled her past. She went up to him, and introduced herself. It was true- Robert was the very man she had dated as a young woman. Things had not worked out when they were younger, but this time they were not going to lose each other. After getting reacquainted on the ship, they were married six months later.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">2. Clara had spent her entire life in obedience to her parents. She stayed home after her father died, to care for her elderly mother, who eventually became demented and difficult. Clara even ran the local post office in the small village she lived in, because she could do that from her home. She almost never went out. When her mother finally died, Clara was 60 years old, and the federal government closed her small post office, and transferred her to a post office job at the county seat.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Here, she met George, another postal worker, and her contemporary. They began having lunches together, and developed a friendship. After a number of years, they both retired and continued their relationship. At age 78, Clara became a bride for the first time in her life, and the ladies of her small town threw her a wedding shower. Seeing her opening gifts, and holding up lovely, lacy lingerie was truly the picture of a dream come true.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">3. Vera, 85 years old, had been married to a military officer, and lived all over the world. She and her husband raised several children, and had many grandchildren and even great-grandchildren. Her husband had died a few years ago, and she had moved to California to be close to her younger sister, who was also now widowed. The sisters lived close together, and traveled often together. One day, the phone rang, and when Vera answered, a voice on the other end said \"do you remember me?\" It was Ed, whom Vera had been engaged to when she was 18. He had tracked her down through people who knew her in their old home town. They hadn\'t married because Vera had discovered that Ed had a drinking problem. He had long since become sober, married, and raised a family of his own, but his wife had died a few years before.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Vera decided to go to the nearby city where Ed lived, just for a couple of days, to meet him and talk. Her sister got a call. She was not coming home right away. In fact, she didn\'t come home for two weeks. She and Ed were married six months later.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you ask your friends, co-workers and family members, you\'ll hear many more stories of people who met and fell in love at advanced ages. It\'s obvious from these stories that age does not have to hold you back from meeting someone to love.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It\'s true that when you\'re a teenager, an age difference of 10 or more years makes a vast difference in your experience and your outlook on life. Such a difference can interfere with communication, life goals, outlook, and relationship experience. In addition, the social reaction to such a relationship is often very negative. If one partner is underage, a sexual relationship is even against the law.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">But, as we get older, life experience and emotional growth even things out. A ten-year or more difference in your ages makes little difference in how well you can conduct your relationship. Don\'t focus on an arbitrary numbers difference in your ages. If you are getting along, you have good communication and problem-solving, and you love each other, that\'s a precious thing, and far more important than any age difference could be. And if other people have a problem with it, let it be their problem.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Myth #4: They\'re all losers or I am</strong>. Many myths are based on a negative view of life and love, often because the people who promote them had negative experiences themselves. As we have discussed before, difficult family or relationship experiences can affect your view of relationships and the possibility of being loved.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The following steps will help you find a winner:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; finding&nbsp;<em>quality</em>&nbsp;people to date</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; looking in appropriate places</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; taking your time before getting emotionally involved</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; interviewing new dates, and paying attention to the information you get</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; using your network of friends for support, and</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; checking up on the people you meet.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Anyone can meet a person with problems-they don\'t wear signs so it\'s not your fault if you meet someone who doesn\'t have his or her act together. However, if you stick around someone who obviously can\'t function well enough to be a good partner, you can fix that problem by learning to let go of bad apples. Difficult people aren\'t usually a problem if you keep them at a distance. They\'re a giant problem if you let them into your life.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Look for&nbsp;<em>people</em>, not perfection</strong>. You can be led astray if you are too concerned about categories such as wealth, education, good family, impressive career, fancy car, and designer clothes. To find a quality person with whom to share your life, you must look beyond those surface clues, and deeper into the person.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Con artists of all types know very well how to exploit appearances to lure you in and take advantage of you. If you follow the guidelines which are fully explained in the succeeding chapters, you will not be vulnerable to people who want to take advantage of you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Scaring yourself about molesters, rapists, alcoholics, narcissists, and other kinds of dangerous types is just another needless worry. Each person you meet presents an opportunity for you to find out who he or she is, and there are more good people than bad people out there. With a little know-how, and proper caution, it\'s pretty easy to recognize the difference.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Celebrate Individuality. To get to know a new person, and be known, takes a little time, because each of us is unique. We can\'t just say \"Oh, he\'s a Category A, or a Category B\" because people don\'t fit into neat, tidy classifications. You can observe someone and think \"Oh, she has good manners, she must be educated,\" and then find out she has a problem with rage or alcohol. On the other hand, some perfect gems come in rough clothing. Many clients who are in good relationships with wonderful partners have told me \"I wouldn\'t have looked twice at him if we hadn\'t gotten to know each other first.\" Or, \"She wasn\'t my type,\" but after I saw her in action volunteering in the political campaign, I realized she was an extraordinary person, with great ethics, and very caring.\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Each person you meet along the dating path has unique personality traits, desirable and undesirable. Giving yourself the time to get to know them enables you to sort them out.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t blame a new friend for old miseries. No matter how bad your history has been, you don\'t have to re-create it. You can learn to interact in different ways, and to correct problems that come up. This guide is about dating correctly and successfully. If you feel out of control and unable to follow the guidelines here, you may need to work with a counselor to make the necessary changes, just as you might work with a personal trainer to correct and improve your workouts, or a nutritionist to evaluate and correct your diet.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If your background was dysfunctional and toxic, or your previous partners have been abusive or addictive, you may need to be suspicious of your first choices. That is, because of your early experience, you may be \"conditioned\" to be attracted to a particular character flaw. That is, the people you automatically are drawn to, and feel comfortable with initially, may be exactly the people you should stay away from. If you know this about yourself, and can resist the pull of the dysfunction, you can meet other, better people to date. If you have trouble changing this focus, counseling can help.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>We\'re all in the same boat</strong>. Everyone who faces dating as an adult has similar worries and insecurities. It\'s a return of adolescent feelings from your first dating experiences. If you\'re feeling bad about yourself, it\'s probably because you\'re feeling:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Vulnerable</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Like a Loser</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Afraid of Rejection</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&bull; Awkward, Unacceptable</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If so, here\'s a simple truth to keep in mind: Everyone feels equally insecure about dating again. Some hide it better than others, some have been dating longer, and have become less nervous, but everyone has been through it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you present a friendly, pleasant demeanor and you are open to getting to know people, they will be relieved and pleased. Here is the perfect place to practice the Golden Rule-treat others exactly as you would like to be treated, and you will have plenty of good responses.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Each new situation will produce the above list of qualms, but keep in mind you\'re there to make friends. Find the safest-looking person in the room, and chat with them. You\'ll feel better, and then you can move on to greeting others. After a few minutes of pleasant conversation with new acquaintances, you will relax, and your anxieties will be forgotten.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&copy; Tina B. Tessina 2020. Adapted from:&nbsp;<em>Dr. Romance\'s Guide to Finding Love Today</em>.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Author Bio: Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. (www.tinatessina.com) is a licensed psychotherapist in S. California since 1978 with over 40 years\' experience in counseling individuals and couples and author of 15 books in 17 languages, including Dr. Romance\'s Guide to Finding Love Today; It Ends With You: Grow Up and Out of Dysfunction; The Ten Smartest Decisions a Woman Can Make After Forty; Love Styles: How to Celebrate Your Differences, The Real 13th Step, How to Be Happy Partners: Working it Out Together and How to Be a Couple and Still Be Free. She writes the \"Dr. Romance\" blog (drromance.typepad.com), and the \"Happiness Tips from Tina\" email newsletter. Online, she\'s known as \"Dr. Romance\" and offers courses at GenerousMarriage.com. Dr. Tessina appears frequently on radio, TV, video and podcasts. She tweets @tinatessina</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Tina_Tessina/34086\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Tina_Tessina/34086</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1742, 'I Think of You in the Shower Every Day', 'i-think-of-you-in-the-shower-every-day', 0, '2022-12-15 22:23:20', '2022-12-15 22:23:20', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">I Think of You in the Shower Every Day</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Nick Neeson\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Nick_Neeson/2916313\" rel=\"author\">Nick Neeson</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 10, 2021</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -44px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Linkedin\" /></a><a style=\"color: #a30006; width: 20px; height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Reddit\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10456846&amp;site=reddit\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite reddit-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -22px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Reddit\" /></a><a style=\"color: #a30006; width: 20px; height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10456846&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Imagine that blonde bombshell you\'ve had your eye on for a while... or that busty brunette, if you\'re more into brunettes... telling you these exact words! How awesome would that be? Pretty awesome, right?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Here\'s how to do it!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">True story, btw.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Once upon a time, I met this hot blonde. We were just chatting and having fun when for god knows what reason, the subject of showers came up. So, I jokingly told her...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">\"You\'ll see... the next time you take a shower... and you hold the showerhead in your hand... I\'ll pop into your mind... and the more you try to resist it... the more you\'ll think of me!\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Unknowingly, I did something called a hypnotic suggestion!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">But since I did it in a joking and teasing way, I got away with it without looking like a weirdo! Btw, I honestly had no idea what I was doing.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">But hot diggity, it worked!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It stuck with her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Cause next time I saw her, she told me, \"You a-hole! I think about you in the shower every day now!\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I didn\'t even get what she was talking about at first cause I had forgotten what happened. So she had to remind me, \"Every time I hold the damn showerhead, I have to think about what you told me last time.\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">What happened, my badass friend is...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">She got anchored to me!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">And if you don\'t know what anchoring is, just think of the Pavlov experiment. Pavlov gave food to a dog while ringing a bell. So, the dog began to associate the bell with food. When Pavlov rang the bell without giving food, the dog salivated cause he had anchored the bell with getting food.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This brings me to a powerful lesson:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you know how to make a woman \"feel\" attraction in your presence (and there are tricks for that, believe me), she\'ll anchor that feeling of attraction to YOU! And once she does that, each time she sees you or even merely thinks about you, she\'ll feel attraction! And when THAT happens, she\'ll SEE you as an attractive guy... no matter if you\'re short, bald, fat, or butt-ugly.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Btw...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">One of the tricks is to literally use the shower conversation tip. Next time you talk to a woman, just bring up the topic of showers during your conversation. And once you do, simply repeat the phrase I used earlier in this article! But do it in a cheeky, funny way. Not in a creepy, hypnotic way!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Have fun!</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Nick Neeson is the world\'s leading dating coach for introverted men and the highest-paid dating consultant on the planet. He founded Introverted Badass to help smart, introverted men become badass with women, without being someone they\'re not. Introverted Badass is the market leader for introverted men looking to improve their dating skills naturally and without using lies, tricks, or manipulation.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you want to learn more tricks and hacks as simple as the one I shared in this article, simply download my Top 100 Dating Hacks, right here:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.introvertedbadass.com/ib-top-100-dating-hacks/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://www.introvertedbadass.com/ib-top-100-dating-hacks/</a></p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Nick_Neeson/2916313\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Nick_Neeson/2916313</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1743, '10 Mistakes That Make Even Attractive Men Repulsive to Women', '10-mistakes-that-make-even-attractive-men-repulsive-to-women', 0, '2022-12-15 22:24:19', '2022-12-15 22:24:19', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">10 Mistakes That Make Even Attractive Men Repulsive to Women</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Nick Neeson\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Nick_Neeson/2916313\" rel=\"author\">Nick Neeson</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 04, 2021</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -44px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Linkedin\" /></a><a style=\"color: #a30006; width: 20px; height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Reddit\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10454326&amp;site=reddit\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite reddit-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -22px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Reddit\" /></a><a style=\"color: #a30006; width: 20px; height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10454326&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This is a bit graphic, but it has to be said...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">No matter how Brad-Pitt-looking a man is, these common mistakes make women want to projectile vomit:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>1. Being needy.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Nothing is more repulsive to a woman than a man-child.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>2. Smiling too much.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Excessive smiling makes you look weak.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>3. Buying her gifts before you are in a committed relationship with her.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It just looks like you are trying to buy her love.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>4. Dinner before sex.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Technically this one wouldn\'t repulse her, but it lowers your chances of becoming physically intimate with her. Or, at the very least, she\'ll make you wait much longer. That\'s because it positions you as a provider instead of a lover. Women quickly sleep with lovers, but they make providers wait. Basically, they first want them to \"prove\" their ability to provide.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>5. Bad body odor.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">No explanation needed</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>6. A lack of fashion sense.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Think about it. How much time do women spend thinking about fashion? A LOT... which tells you how important it is to them. Consequently, men with a bad taste in fashion repulse women.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>7. Low-status behavior.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Yep, I said \"behavior\". Actual status doesn\'t come from money or your job title. It\'s shown in your behavior. Think about \"King Joffrey\" in \"Game of Thrones\". He had the highest status in his kingdom. Yet, he had low-status behaviors, and women were repulsed by him.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>8. Weakness / a lack of assertiveness</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you can\'t even stand up for yourself, how are you going to stand up for her?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>9. Me too-ing.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Also known as \"obsessively looking for commonalities\". This makes you look like you are trying to force the relationship. Like you\'re dishonest. Like you\'re \"just saying things to get into her pants\".</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>10. Putting her on a pedestal.</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Ever seen a badass guy put women on a pedestal? No? Me neither! There\'s a reason for that. When you place a woman on a pedestal, you put her above you. Which means her status level is higher than yours. Women simply can\'t (for evolutionary reasons) be attracted to guys that they perceive of lower status to them. In fact, they are sexually repulsed by them.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So, what\'s the common thread here?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Well... these ten mistakes make you look like a low-quality chump.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">And low-quality chumps get low-quality chicks (if any at all).</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In other words, if you want to get a high-quality woman, you need to become a high-quality man.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This means you need to embody the opposite of these 10 mistakes.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If that tickles your fancy... if you want to find, get, and keep a high-quality girlfriend...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Download my free \"Get A Quality Girlfriend Guide\" right here:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.introvertedbadass.com/Free-Girlfriend-Getting-Guide\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://www.IntrovertedBadass.com/Free-Girlfriend-Getting-Guide</a></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Nick Neeson is the world\'s leading dating coach for introverted men and the highest-paid dating consultant on the planet. He founded Introverted Badass to help smart, introverted men become badass with women, without being someone they\'re not. Introverted Badass is the market leader for introverted men looking to improve their dating skills naturally and without using lies, tricks, or manipulation.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Nick_Neeson/2916313\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Nick_Neeson/2916313</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1744, '10 Tips to Make Your First Date a Success As a Single Mother', '10-tips-to-make-your-first-date-a-success-as-a-single-mother', 0, '2022-12-15 22:24:39', '2022-12-15 22:24:39', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">10 Tips to Make Your First Date a Success As a Single Mother</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Abdul Waheed Zafar\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Abdul_Waheed_Zafar/1306631\" rel=\"author\">Abdul Waheed Zafar</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 03, 2021</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10453822&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For single moms, going on a date can be a difficult decision. However, if you are determined, you can make it work with almost no difficulty. In this article, we are going to share 10 dating tips that you can follow as a single mom.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you are a single mother, dating can be an altogether different experience for you. However, there is nothing to worry about. With proper guidance and some solid strategies in place, you can meet your date a success. Let\'s read some solid tips to get better in this department.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Set a plan</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">First of all, you should have a plan during your lunch hour as this is the time of the day when you can focus better. In fact, these hours are ideal as you won\'t be in rush.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Take it easy</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Although single moms have a lot of courage, they are capable of doing things alone. Therefore, you should avoid talking about the hardship of becoming a mom. Instead, you should focus on the enjoyable aspect of it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Be yourself</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If your goal is to impress your man, there is no need to change your behavior or attitude. All you need to do is be yourself and he will fall for you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Avoid negativity</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It\'s not a good idea to utter negative things about your ex. After all, you don\'t want to appear as a bitter woman. If you do want to share your feelings, you can go to your friends or a good family therapist.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t drink too much</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You should avoid taking too much alcohol. According to experts, having too much alcohol on your first date is a big no-no. You can just take one drink and it will be more than enough.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\'t talk about your kids</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">On your first date, you should avoid talking about the problems your kids face. You want to appear as a woman, not as a mother. Therefore, you should talk about yourself instead.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Have realistic expectations</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Make sure you have realistic expectations from your first date as a single mom. If you have unrealistic ones, you may feel extremely stressed. Instead, you may want to take it as a wonderful mini adventure.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Phone them first</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It\'s better that you talk to your man on the phone prior to our meeting. This will help you develop a perception of the man.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Have patience</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You don\'t have to introduce your kids during your first date. Instead, you should bear patience and look for the right moment.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Maintain a balance</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Although it\'s fine to spend plenty of quality time with your date, make sure you check on them both. It\'s not a good idea to focus on your date alone.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In short, if you follow these tips, you can make your first date a huge success.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Are you in search of the&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.hookupscout.com/post/the-best-10-backpage-alternatives-websites-of-2021\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">best Backpage substitutes</a>? If so, we suggest that you take a look at HookUpScout. Their services are worth the prices they charge.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Abdul_Waheed_Zafar/1306631\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Abdul_Waheed_Zafar/1306631</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1745, '5 Ways to Find a Date in 2023', '5-ways-to-find-a-date-in-2023', 0, '2022-12-15 22:25:28', '2022-12-15 22:25:28', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">5 Ways to Find a Date in 2023</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you have not been so lucky in the dating department, you are on the right page. We know that you want to be in a relationship so badly. At times, the problem is not that you don\'t know what you actually want. In this article, we are going to share with you some tips to look for the best date. Read on to find out more.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">1. Try Online Dating</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">First of all, you should try your luck online. If you are just starting out, this online adventure may be difficult for you. In fact, it may cause a lot of frustration as well. You can find a better alternative that provides a lot of opportunities. So, you can get in touch with a lot of new people in your area.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">All you need to do is do your homework and look for the best, legitimate website for dating. Make sure that the site has a lot of positive reviews and an amazing reputation.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">2. Attend Local Meetups</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The good news is that many people tend to meet through Meetup groups. You may find some who play games like you or you can meet one at a local book club. This platform allows people a great opportunity to get together and check out politics, photography, cooking, hiking or other literature.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">On Meetup, there are millions of members. Therefore, your chances of finding the best one are impressive. You may find some who you can talk to or dance with. Although these are small gatherings, they can help you make friends without investing a great deal of effort.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">3. Get together at local clubs or bars</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Often, college friends get out and have fun at a local club or bar. The good thing is that you can find some great people at these places. Often, the downtown area of a city is an ideal place where people gather. At times, they are interested in a hookup and want to get in touch with someone who is good at dancing.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you go to a bar on a daily basis, you can build strong relationships with the passage of time. So, don\'t forget to check out these places.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">4. Ask around for Suggestions</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You can also ask your friends and family members for some great suggestions. They can scan their contacts and profiles on social media sites for you. When you have a mutual friend, you can enjoy an additional layer of trust to start a new romantic relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">5. Look for a Study Buddy</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Finding a study buddy is a great idea if you are a student. All you need to do is talk to your class-fellows and find things that you have in common. This can help you find a great date.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In short, if you try out these 5 ways to find a date, you will be more likely to achieve success as a beginner.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There are many&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.hookupscout.com/post/best-15-craigslist-personals-alternatives-for-casual-encounters\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Craigslist personal alternatives</a>&nbsp;out there, but the best one is hookUpScout. 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INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1746, '5 Tips for Dating Success As a First-Timer', '5-tips-for-dating-success-as-a-first-timer', 0, '2022-12-15 22:25:58', '2022-12-15 22:25:58', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">5 Tips for Dating Success As a First-Timer</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Abdul Waheed Zafar\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Abdul_Waheed_Zafar/1306631\" rel=\"author\">Abdul Waheed Zafar</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 03, 2021</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10453816&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you look at the popular social exchange theory, you will come to know about the general advice for making our first date a wonderful success. Given below are some of the tips that will act as a great piece of advice.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">1. Consider what you want</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Before you think about pleasing others or finding love, make sure you first decide on what exactly you want. The good news is that you have a choice. After all, you can\'t just choose whoever you come across. But that doesn\'t mean you can obsess about the fine details of the process.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">All you need to do is get a general idea about what you want in your partner. Similarly, you should consider what kind of relationship you are after.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">2. Decide on what you will offer</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you think you can get something for nothing, you need to think again. The same rule applies to dating and relationships. In this case, you have to be honest with yourself and consider all of the positive qualities, benefits, and strengths you want to share with your date. In the same way, you should decide on what you want to give back.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">3. Consider your expectations</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You should consider your expectations as well. There is a difference between what you want to give and what you want. Ideally, this has to be a realistic trade. For instance, if you think you can purchase a mansion by spending your savings, you are having unrealistic expectations. In other words, the exchange has to be fair and equitable.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Make an assessment of your options</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you know what is going on in the dating market, your next move is to find out who is interested in this type of relationship. Based on what you want, you can look for some good partners and then assess them.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It\'s a good idea to negotiate a little bit to see what may or may not work. Also, you should find out if you can have a deal.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Choose an option</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Once you have found a great deal, you should stick to it, especially if you have found a great match. But the options are not good enough, you can think about the steps once again. All you need to do is reconsider each option one by one. What you want must be realistic enough.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Conclusion</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In short, if you follow these 5 dating tips, you will be more likely to gain success a first-timer. Hope this helps.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you are interested in&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.hookupscout.com/post/7-transgender-dating-sites-to-find-local-trans-women\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">transgender dating</a>, you can check out HookUpScout. 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INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1747, '5 Common Online Dating Mistakes You Should Avoid', '5-common-online-dating-mistakes-you-should-avoid', 0, '2022-12-15 22:26:39', '2022-12-15 22:26:39', '<div id=\"page\" class=\"article-view\" style=\"background-position: 0px 30px; margin-top: 54px; float: none; width: 960px; background-color: #ffffff; overflow: visible; border-radius: 3px 0px 0px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;\">\r\n<div id=\"page-inner\" style=\"padding: 1em 2em;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">5 Common Online Dating Mistakes You Should Avoid</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Abdul Waheed Zafar\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Abdul_Waheed_Zafar/1306631\" rel=\"author\">Abdul Waheed Zafar</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 03, 2021</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">With the passage of time, the world continues to change. Today, you can find a lot of things online, such as homes, cars, and even jobs. In fact, the internet can help you find love as well. According to statistics, online dating is a huge industry and generates revenue of around $1.25 billion. Before you contact a prospective partner, make sure you do your search the right way. Taking wrong steps will be a hurdle in the process. Given below are some common mistakes you should avoid when looking for a date on the web.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">1. Don\'t upload Your Best pictures</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Often, most people look quite different in real life, unlike their photos. Therefore, you don\'t want to end up making the mistake of posting your best photos on your profile on a dating site. Instead, what you should do is post everyday photos, not the ones that give that movie star look.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">2. Don\'t avoid reading Member Profiles</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When it comes to creating profiles on the web, people invest a great deal of effort. So, what you need to do is read each profile that catches your eyes. If you don\'t fall in the age or location range given on a profile, don\'t bother contacting them.<br />If you love pets, contact only a person who is not allergic to pets, especially cats. It takes a lot of time and energy to read dating profiles online. In the long run, you may find it even difficult to find a good date if you keep repeating the same mistake.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">3. Be Careful What You Say</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you think people on dating sites don\'t talk to each other, you are making a big mistake. Therefore, it\'s not a good idea to sit with your bum in two boats as it will ruin all your efforts and you may get caught red-handed.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">4. Don\'t avoid dating people who have different interests</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">First of all, you should look for things that make you appealing to others. In other words, it\'s better to look for someone who shares the same interests as you. For instance, even if you think you won\'t be successful in dating an athlete, give it a shot.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">5. 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INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1748, '5 Basic Rules For Dating for Beginners', '5-basic-rules-for-dating-for-beginners', 0, '2022-12-15 22:27:43', '2022-12-15 22:27:43', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">5 Basic Rules For Dating for Beginners</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Abdul Waheed Zafar\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Abdul_Waheed_Zafar/1306631\" rel=\"author\">Abdul Waheed Zafar</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 03, 2021</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10453810&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">At first, dating can be a little too intimidating, especially if you have never had this adventure. But know that it\'s not related to confidence at all. If you feel comfortable and can talk well, you can talk to anyone for the first time without any signs of lack of confidence. All you need to do is follow some agreed rules for dating. Read on to find out more.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">1. Control your emotions</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For some people, meeting new people can be quite stressful. An easy way out is to keep your negative emotions under control. This will increase your likelihood of finding the best date. If you have never tried dating apps, we suggest that you give them a go today.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Therefore, if you are into yoga, you can join a yoga class online and see if you can find someone attractive enough to talk to.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">2. Have an Open Mind</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">One of the best rules of dating is to have an open mind. Just because someone has a different set of likes and dislikes doesn\'t mean you can\'t get along with them. In fact, you may fall in love them with as time goes by. You don\'t have to write them off. After all, there is no harm in giving them a chance.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">3. Stay Safe</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When it comes to dating, make sure you give the utmost importance to your safety. If you don\'t feel safe enough, you don\'t have to remain polite. In fact, you should get out of there as soon as you can.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For instance, if you are going to meet somebody from a good dating app, you may want to inform a friend about where you are going to meet them. It\'s better that you see them at a public place first and remain alert.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">4. Set Your Own Pace</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you are going to meet somebody for the first time, make sure you take the relationship to the next level at your own pace. There is no need to follow the rules of society at all. It\'s your life and you should spend it in your own way.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">5. It Takes Time to form new links</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Since making a new connection is a time-consuming process, know that you can\'t make a new friend overnight. Therefore, you don\'t have to rush the process at all. In fact, your best interest is to invest the required time to make the best choice.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In short, if you follow these simple rules of dating, you will be in a much better position to find your desired date and form a great relationship.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you are looking for a good&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.hookupscout.com/post/the-best-10-backpage-alternatives-websites-of-2021\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Backpage alternatives websites 2019</a>, you can check out HookUpScout. 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INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1749, 'The George Costanza School of \"Getting a Girlfriend\"', 'the-george-costanza-school-of-getting-a-girlfriend', 0, '2022-12-15 22:28:09', '2022-12-15 22:28:09', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">The George Costanza School of \"Getting a Girlfriend\"</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Nick Neeson\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Nick_Neeson/2916313\" rel=\"author\">Nick Neeson</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On May 04, 2021</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Yeah, the TV Show.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">(Btw, even decades after being canceled... people are still loving it!)</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Anyway...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">A couple of days ago, I read a newsletter from one of my business mentors. He talked about a lesson he learned from that show. More specifically, from the episode where George Costanza did everything the opposite way. And even though the lesson was about marketing, it can be applied to dating too. Especially if you are looking to get a beautiful, high-quality girlfriend instead of a drunk drab.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There\'s this scene where George Costanza gets a job interview with the New York Yankees. Now, instead of kissing the owner\'s ass, he told him the Yankees sucked. He also made sure to tell him WHY he believed all of the owner\'s decisions were big fat mistakes.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">He got hired on the spot!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Then there was this other scene, where he saw this hot, sexy babe having dinner alone. So, he walked up to her. And rather than trying to be someone he\'s not and deceive her into a date, he told her he was bald, short, had no job, and still lived with his parents. She instantly went on a date with him!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The crazy thing is...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It\'s the same with dating as an introvert. You see, dating is tough for introverts! Because most dating advice tries to turn introverts into extroverts and pushes them to present themselves as someone they\'re not! And if that\'s not enough, most dating techniques are about tricking, lying, and manipulating women into relationships. It goes without saying that none of these will help you get a quality girlfriend.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">And certainly not a long-term one!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I mean, what do you think happens once she finds out the guy is NOT who he \"pretended\" to be? That\'s right! She dumps him!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Here\'s my point:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Let the other team go down that path.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Let the PUAs get the low-quality women and get dumped after their \"fa&ccedil;ade\" crumbles.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">We\'ll take the \"opposite\" approach.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Cause doing the opposite of what all the other guys are doing can give you a BIG leg up with the ladies - especially with the high-quality ones.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Try it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You really might be surprised by the results.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Right now, you\'re probably wondering, \"what specific opposite things can I do?\" Well... here\'s something practical you can apply in your next interaction with a woman. Next time you disagree with a woman, instead of changing your opinion to match hers and going into \"me too\" mode, as most guys do, simply do the opposite!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Disagree with her!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You\'ll see that by doing so, you actually create attraction! Cause attraction is created when we break rapport, not when we build it. And that\'s the problem. Our whole lives, we\'ve been taught to build rapport with people. Our parents told us to be nice. In school, they told us to be nice. At work, they ask us to be nice.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Seriously...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Think of any communication course you\'ve ever been on at work. It\'s all about building rapport and befriending people. But if all you do with a woman is befriend her... don\'t act surprised when you land in the friendzone. So next time your date tells you she likes Harry Potter, don\'t be afraid to tell her it\'s lame!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Of course, don\'t be rude!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As long as you do it playfully, with a cheeky smile on your face, you\'ll notice she\'ll become more attracted to you!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Hope you enjoyed this article cause that\'s all I\'ve got for you today!</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Nick Neeson is the world\'s leading dating coach for introverted men and the highest-paid dating consultant on the planet. He founded Introverted Badass to help smart, introverted men become badass with women, without being someone they\'re not. Introverted Badass is the market leader for introverted men looking to improve their dating skills naturally and without using lies, tricks, or manipulation.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you would like to discover the simple way to get a girlfriend as an introverted man, without using lies, gimmicks, or tricks, download my free \"Get A Quality Girlfriend Guide\" right here:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.introvertedbadass.com/Free-Girlfriend-Getting-Guide\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://www.IntrovertedBadass.com/Free-Girlfriend-Getting-Guide</a></p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Nick_Neeson/2916313\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Nick_Neeson/2916313</a></p>\r\n</div>');
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margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Often many people, in particular codependents, find it hard to receive. In fact, codependents are more comfortable giving or even self-sacrificing than receiving. Yet they wonder why they\'re in relationships with \"selfish\" or narcissistic partners. They might fantasize receiving, but keep right on giving and not suspect that their predicament is not just due to their partners\' selfishness, but also due to their own difficulty in receiving.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It is a symptom of deeper issues that may be hidden in our unconscious. Until resolved, they remain obstacles to receiving real love.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">How do you feel when you receive a compliment or a gift? Do you ever ask for a favor or help, or would you rather do it yourself? These are just small examples compared to being in a relationship where you receive love, help, and cooperation on a daily basis. Here are a few of the obstacles and beliefs that prevent us from receiving:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Shame</strong><br />A major reason we have trouble receiving is that we don\'t feel worthy. We feel too flawed, undeserving, or unlovable. We might not trust people\'s intentions or find it hard to believe they care enough about us to give or do something for us unless there is an equal exchange. We think, \"Why would someone do that for me or say those nice things?\"</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Shame also makes us reluctant to reveal aspects of ourselves we disown (don\'t know about) or disparage. Particularly when we\'re in need of help we might feel ashamed of our limitations or feel \"weak\" and unlikable. If needs, wants, or dependency were shamed in childhood, then we learned to be self-sufficient and not ask or want anything from someone else-a far better solution than to experience shame when we\'re vulnerable. As adults, we expect or attract other people to react as our parents did. If early shaming was chronic or severe, we might repress our needs and wants so much that they\'re buried in our unconscious. It might never occur to us to ask for help.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Control and Safety</strong><br />When we receive we\'re in a more vulnerable position. Imagine someone listening to us talk a long time, helping us physically, unilaterally sexually pleasuring us, or even driving us somewhere. Receiving requires that we trust to allow someone to have power over. An abusive partner is unsafe. If we\'ve been abused or controlled in the past, being in such a vulnerable position could make us feel unsafe even with someone who isn\'t. We don\'t want to be judged or be controlled. We rather be in control than have someone control us. This is based on past dysfunctional experiences of being in relationships based on control, rather than respect and cooperation.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">A corollary to this is the fear that we might owe the other person. We fear that we\'re a burden or that we\'ll be indebted to someone who now has our IOU. To avoid this, we might want to even the score and immediately give back in some way or pay for what we get. We don\'t believe that we have a right to say \"no\" to any request they may make on us in the future.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Do you ever feel guilty receiving or feel you must return the favor? This is irrational, false guilt. Would you rather suffer than call your doctor after office hours? Giving for free is a novel concept when we grow up with parents who give with strings attached or parents who complain about or envy what they give and do for us.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Fear of Intimacy</strong><br />Being vulnerable allows other people to see us and connect with us. Receiving opens up parts of ourselves that long to be loved, seen, and understood. It tenderizes us when we\'re truly receiving. My heart melted when I received a tremendous outpouring of support on social media following a serious car accident I had. I felt gratitude and appreciation toward all the people who offered their kindness and caring. In an intimate relationship, this fosters love.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When we\'re a \"one-person show\" and do everything for ourselves, we feel self-sufficient and in control, but the price is loneliness and isolation. We don\'t realize that it\'s human to need and that giving and receiving rewards both participants. It\'s a natural flow of energy that permits love, closeness, and intimacy.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Training and Culture</strong><br />Perhaps, we were trained to be self-reliant or learned that having our needs meant we were weak or needy. In some religions and cultures, it\'s considered selfish or impolite to ask and receive. In the Persian culture, it\'s considered proper to refuse compliments, to initially decline a gift, and rude to ask for one.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Our natural need and requests for comfort, love, and support may have been ignored, rejected, or belittled. These false, shame-based beliefs can make us withdraw or behave in needy ways, rather than to directly ask for what we need and want.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>How to Feel Worthy of Receiving</strong><br />Feeling worthy of receiving affects your entire personality and psyche. You can change your beliefs. It\'s the result of a journey of recovery. Here are steps you can take:</p>\r\n<ul>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Ask yourself whether you give too much, and why. Analyze your beliefs around receiving.</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<br />\r\n<ul>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Build your self-esteem.</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<br />\r\n<ul>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Read how to overcome guilt.</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<br />\r\n<ul>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Heal shame you carry from your childhood in Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You.</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&copy; DarleneLancer 2021</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Darlene Lancer is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, expert in relationships, codependency, addiction and author of Codependency for Dummies and Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You. She has a broad range of experience, working with individuals and couples for 30years. She is an author and frequent speaker. She maintains private practice in Santa Monica, CA and coaches internationally. For more information, webinars, and talks, see&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"http://www.whatiscodependency.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">http://www.whatiscodependency.com</a>&nbsp;to receive a FREE Report, \"14 Tips for Letting Go,\" and find links to her books and eBooks, How to Speak Your Mind- Become Assertive and Set Limits, 10 Steps to Self-Esteem: The Ultimate Guide to Stop Self-Criticism, Dealing with a Narcissist: 8 Steps to Raise Self-Esteem and Set Boundaries with Difficult People, Spiritual Transformation in the Twelve Steps, Freedom from Guilt and Blame - Finding Self-Forgiveness, \"I&acute;m Not Perfect-I&acute;m Only Human\"- How to Beat Perfectionism, and Codependency Daily Reflections.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Darlene_Lancer/563438\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Darlene_Lancer/563438</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1751, 'Amolatina Dating Beware Of Online Dating?', 'amolatina-dating-beware-of-online-dating', 0, '2022-12-15 22:28:49', '2022-12-15 22:28:49', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Amolatina Dating Beware Of Online Dating?</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Seron Shrof\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Seron_Shrof/2571133\" rel=\"author\">Seron Shrof</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On July 18, 2018</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=9978436&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Introduction:</strong>&nbsp;Online dating has been gaining attention for the past few years and this has given due advantage to a large group of crowd. People who are shy or do not want to invest their time and energy into meeting and greeting people on their traditional ways tend to choose online dating.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Online dating and its associated websites or apps might be really interesting initially. But as time passes, you might get bored of choices provided to you and might feel the need to quit from these sites. The initial excitement that you had while registering shall soon stop.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>What you need to know before trying online dating?</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Before even registering with Amolatina or any other allied websites for online dating, you need to be aware of the following factors:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Getting to know more people:</strong>This is one of the biggest advantages as claimed by online dating websites. You are at a social platform where you are prone to meet and greet likeminded people and this shall sound exciting. But wait, is that all; you have given your complete information floating on the internet to get prospective suggestions.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Break free from traditional models of dating:</strong>&nbsp;This is indeed true. With the advent of online dating, people have been relived from the stressful mode of traditional dating. You need to meet and greet only those whom you feel can really connect with you. This has become a time and money saver to many especially to those who are shy and want to be freed of traditional dating model.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Too many options:</strong>&nbsp;This can be bad. You are thrown with too many options on your face and leave you confused. In some cases, people just tend to randomly pick options coming their way and this is bad. This has also reduced the satisfaction levels of people who are regulars in such dating apps and websites. There are hundreds choices out there and even a single wrong gesture can make a relationship break. There is always an insecurity that partners carry while dating through these websites.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Limited information:</strong>&nbsp;Now this can be daunting. You upload all your personal information and create a profile. But the prospects or suggestions that hit your inbox might be with limited information. This is one of those few techniques used by online dating sites like Amolatina to create a membership with them. With the membership you are paying them a part of your savings and boom in no time there you are paying such online sites on a regular basis. By the time you realise the kind of amount these sites has been taking away, you might have well been addicted to the options you get and confused as to how to just log off.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Too much focus on physical attraction:</strong>&nbsp;Admit it; a profile is visited only on the first photo you see. The photos uploaded in a profile gains your attraction and then there is the pressure to always create and upload good looking photos. This can be stressful and affect your mental state. Also, sorting a person to date just based on physical photos uploaded in these portal doesn\'t make sense. There is very little attention paid to understand hobbies or other personal details of an individual.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Pressure to be a romantic:</strong>&nbsp;There is no room for letting romance develop slowly. Once you have found a profile interesting, then yes you are next expected to be romantic and make the move. This can be stressful to someone who is not a romantic. Yet another challenge is the lack of connection. What if you are not able to connect with the person opposite but are still expected to be romantic. A recent study shows that people dating through these online sites are romantic than the traditional way of dating.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Dangers of online dating</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Recent trend as we mentioned earlier is the concept of online dating in urban societies. Advancement in technology and availability of internet to everyone has helped achieve this revolution. Now that we have discussed key takeaways to be kept in mind while online dating, it is also equally important for to consider the danger or disadvantages of online dating.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There is no possible means to understand whom you are interacting with. This means you might be interacting with someone who has a fake profile and might be taking an undue advantage from you. Genuineness is not something you could expect while dealing with online dating sites. There might be various reasons why a person is interested in your profile, while genuine is the least you could expect. Always have an eye for detail as to the kind of profile you are interacting and only then show your interest.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The new found internet culture could out you in trouble as you have invested your complete details in an unknown website. This can be risky and such kind of information uploaded in online portal can later be used against you. There are always chances of your profile being hacked by a computer expert. Hence, it is important for you to have layers of additional support to protect your details on the net.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The only advice to young people out there who wants to&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"http://www.amolatinreviews.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Amolatina</a>&nbsp;online dating is to be vigilant and make sure the person you are interacting with is actually worth the time and efforts taken. Do not blindly follow any account for the attractive part of it.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Seron_Shrof/2571133\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Seron_Shrof/2571133</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1752, 'Top 5 Life Hacks on How to Ask a Girl Out on a Date', 'top-5-life-hacks-on-how-to-ask-a-girl-out-on-a-date', 0, '2022-12-15 22:29:08', '2022-12-15 22:29:08', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Top 5 Life Hacks on How to Ask a Girl Out on a Date</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Samantha Joshep Fonseka\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Samantha_Joshep_Fonseka/1454412\" rel=\"author\">Samantha Joshep Fonseka</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On March 07, 2021</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10428216&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When you really like a girl and want to ask her out on a date you always face some difficulties, like fear of failure, uncertainty, indecision. We\'ve made a list of the top 5 life hacks to overcome all your fears and finally ask your crush out.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">1. \"3 YES\" Rule</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">People involved in marketing and sales should know this technique very well. It is quite often used during personal negotiations and sales over the phone. When you want somebody to agree with your suggestion you need to ask at least 3 questions. And you should be 100% confident you will receive positive answers. It is mentally much easier for a person to agree to your offer when he/she said \"yes\" 3 times before.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For example, if you know that she likes opera and classical music you can ask 3 consecutive questions, like \"Hey, I think you mentioned before you like classical music, right?\". \"And you also said you like our local opera?\". \"Do you like Beethoven?\". When she answers 3 times \"yes\" go ahead and offer her a date.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">2. Let Coffee do its Magic</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Coffee helped plenty of couples. It\'s so easy yet powerful. You can bring her coffee to her job if you are colleagues. Or you can invite her to a coffee house to discuss your new project. If she is from your college it works great as well.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There is something magical when you drink coffee together. It breaks all the barriers between you and you can have a nice talk. Here are the best 1st date conversation topics. Use them when you are tete-a-tete with your crush.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">3. Prepare in Advance</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If she does not know about your feelings it would be wise to get ready in advance. Try to find out what does she do for a living, what she likes to do during her free time, what are her hobbies, or what are her views on life. It will give you a better idea about her and how to ask her out on a date correctly.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">But don\'t play spy games. You can easily scare her away. Try to do it gently and in a natural way. usually, it\'s quite easy if you communicate or if you have common friends. Moreover, in the 21st century, everybody has social media accounts. Therefore just looking at Instagram or Facebook you can tell a lot about the person.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">4. Her Hobby is Your Weapon</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If she has a hobby that she really likes, go ahead and use it for your first date. If she likes sports, painting, traveling, or writing try to offer her a date related to her favorite things. If she is a big fan of a local sports team you know what to do.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you know that she loves Japanese cuisine just offer her to go to a Seafood restaurant.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">5. Pets is the Key</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Another magical thing is pets. The real-life hack is when you both own dogs. In this case, it\'s super easy to ask her out. Just offer her to walk the dogs together. Moreover, if you have a truck you can take both dogs outside the city.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">However, if you know she likes pets but doesn\'t have them yet, you can offer her to check the pictures of yours. Or even take her to the local pet shelter. these cute guys will melt any heart.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For hundreds of thousands of years. Men had to seduce women without saying a single word. Before spoken language even existed. The only tool men had to turn a woman on. And convince her to sleep with them. Was what he could communicate with his body language. Learn the body language to turn women on here [https://www.best-online-solution.com/dwsadad]</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Samantha_Joshep_Fonseka/1454412\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Samantha_Joshep_Fonseka/1454412</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1753, 'How to Win a Man\'s Heart Through Text Messages', 'how-to-win-a-man-s-heart-through-text-messages', 0, '2022-12-15 22:29:32', '2022-12-15 22:29:32', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">How to Win a Man\'s Heart Through Text Messages</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Austin Odeon\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Austin_Odeon/248547\" rel=\"author\">Austin Odeon</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On February 08, 2021</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Austin Odeon\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Austin-Odeon_194805.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Austin Odeon\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Do you want to know how to win a man\'s heart through text messages? It sounds like the ultimate plan doesn\'t it? You send him a cute message and he is surely going to fall for you. Or... it worked just fine the last time but this time, it will be much more effective because you are in a better situation.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Get your boyfriend at a quiet place where he would probably be sitting or leaving for a while. Go there and just start chatting with him in an ordinary tone of voice. Maintain eye contact and try not to disturb the peace. You need to chat normally and casually without letting the conversation gets boring. It would be even better if you are not really interested in what he has to say.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When you have successfully got your guy to listen and pay attention, then you can proceed to learn how to win a man\'s heart through text. Use light and nice words. It would be best if you use words that make him feel good. He would most likely respond to you if you make him feel good.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Once he starts listening to you, try to build your friendship up even more. This way, he would think that he is being invited into your world as well. Be more intimate as you text each other. The secret here is to always keep things light and easy. Nothing can make your guy happier than a simple \"Thank You\" or \"I Love You\".</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You can also try to get into his mood by finding out what his favorite movies or TV shows are. Try to talk about the episodes while you are texting each other. Just make sure not to talk about the movie itself. This would be just weird.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It might be easier for you to get into his emotions once you start a romantic conversation with him. Work on having a great relationship with this person. Work on making him feel special and wanted. Text your guy to make him feel wanted. One sure way on how to win a man\'s heart through text messages is to make sure you text him every day because this would be a clear indicator that you care about him.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The third step on how to win a man\'s heart through text messages is to always send him jokes. It would be best if you sent him jokes that he could relate to because there is no point in getting into a serious conversation when you already made it difficult for him to open up to you. If he likes the joke, then he would think of you more often especially if it is funny. Once he feels good about being your boyfriend, he will start to think of you as his mate and not a friend.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Lastly, the fourth and the most important step on how to win a man\'s heart through text messages is to always do your best to be his friend. Always be there to make him laugh. Send him jokes and send him cute quotes. These are some of the most effective ways on how to win a man\'s heart through text messages. Work on these and let them be your key to winning his heart forever.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So, what are you waiting for? Just go over these steps now. The sooner you do these things, the earlier you would get him to realize that you are the girl he has been looking for. So better start today and you would never regret doing so.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You have to learn how to text him first before you can win his heart. See? These steps are simple but very effective. They have everything to do with how to win a man\'s heart through text messages.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you want to know how to win a man\'s heart through text messages, you should try these tips out now. Remember that you can always use your smarts and your good looks when you text your guy. However, there is something that comes in between those two things and that is confidence. Once you are able to gain confidence in yourself, all of your actions would be directed towards getting you the man of your dreams. Read on and find out how to do exactly what to text to keep him committed to you.&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"http://allaboutloverelationship.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Click Here to</a>&nbsp;What to Text Your Ex Boyfriend After the No Contact Rule.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Austin Millo is a Psychologist and a couple of therapist with years of experience in conflict resolution and communication skills. Studied philosophy from A graduate of the University of Brighton, Eastbourne UK in 2015. He works as a full-time Psychologist in los Angeles, California. A father and a husband with 4 children. [https://www.allaboutloverelationship.com/]</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Austin_Odeon/248547\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Austin_Odeon/248547</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1754, 'Unconscious Communication', 'unconscious-communication', 0, '2022-12-15 22:30:00', '2022-12-15 22:30:00', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Unconscious Communication</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Denise Levy\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Denise_Levy/294753\" rel=\"author\">Denise Levy</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On March 10, 2009</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Denise Levy\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Denise-Levy_290624.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Denise Levy\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So much can be said without saying a word. Some research even suggests over 80% of what we communicate is non-verbal. Understanding some of the key elements of basic body language can help you to date more successfully. Becoming more aware of the body language you are putting out can help you with not only flirting but in attracting the right person by sending the appropriate signals. Learning to interpret these unconscious indicators can take some of the guess work out of dating and help to determine if the feelings are mutual.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The number one thing to remember when studying body language is to look for clusters. Don\'t ever make an assumption based on one element of what you interpret someones body to be speaking. Her arms may be crossed because she is actually cold.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">We all know that maintaining eye contact is a good thing but while you are doing it there is one thing you should be paying attentions to, their pupils. A good sign that someone is really interested in you is an increase in pupil size. The eyes can\'t lie. I have yet to master the skill of regulating my pupil size and that is probably a good thing!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Look at where you are \"pointing.\" When a you point your feet, toes, shoulders and even hips towards the other person this is saying you are interested in who they are and what they have to say. This is giving them the green light to keep going. If you see someone in a social setting and they are pointing towards you this means it is okay to approach especially when it is done after you have exchanged eye contact for 3-4 seconds.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Self grooming behaviors such as a women fixing her hair or a man picking a piece of lint off his shirt are also green lights. It is human nature to want to look our best when we are with someone we feel attracted to.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Modeling or mirroring behavior is another good sign that shows interest. When you catch someone following your positive body language it is definitely a plus. Try this at work or at a social setting first to get a good feel for it. If they place their hand on the table, wait 3-4 seconds and you place your hand on the table. Keep mirroring hand placement and they will keep talking to you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There are so many things you can learn about body language and the messages we are conveying. Take the time to educate yourself and see what a difference it can make in your confidence, dating and relationships.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Most importantly, remember to smile. We are all so much more attractive when we are smiling!</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Denise Levy, BSW specializes in the art and science of getting you out of your own way! Denise graduated from University of West Florida with her degree in social work and is a Certified Life Coach &amp; Professional Matchmaker with over 20 years experience.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For more information and to receive your free Life Balance Workbook visit&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.deniselevybsw.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://www.DeniseLevyBSW.com</a>&nbsp;or to submit your confidential profile for matchmaking visit&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.matchmakergulfcoast.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://www.MatchMakerGulfCoast.com</a></p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Denise_Levy/294753\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Denise_Levy/294753</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1755, 'Listen Up Guys', 'listen-up-guys', 0, '2022-12-15 22:30:20', '2022-12-15 22:30:20', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Listen Up Guys</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Denise Levy\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Denise_Levy/294753\" rel=\"author\">Denise Levy</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On March 10, 2009</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<p><a class=\"photo-container\" style=\"color: #a30006; position: relative; float: left; margin: 10px 18.2344px 15px; overflow: hidden; box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.3) 0px 1px 3px; border-radius: 5px; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Denise Levy\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Denise_Levy/294753\"><img class=\"photo\" style=\"border: 0px; max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Denise Levy\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/Denise-Levy_290624.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author Denise Levy\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Do you even know what your most attractive feature is? Maybe you think it is your beautiful eyes because you catch us ladies looking into them often. Or maybe it is the way you dress because you think us women appreciate a man with a sense of fashion. Maybe you think it is those abs you work so hard for every day at the gym. Possibly you believe it is that gorgeous smile you have with those perfect white teeth. Well let me tell you something all of those things are great but they are not the number one reasons why us ladies are attracted you...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">One of the most appealing thing to us is your CONFIDENCE! It is the way you carry yourself when you enter a room. It is they way you make eye contact from across the room. It is the way you show no fear when you walk up to us and strike up a conversation. Essentially it is your belief in your self that shows in your body language.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Please understand there is a fine line between confidence and acting cocky! Cockiness can be very unattractive so be careful not to cross that line. No one finds that attractive. Remember it is not what you say, it is how you say it.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">What this means is that no matter what you look like you can still learn how to charm a woman with your confidence. You can overcome the early balding, the few extra pounds or the fact that you may be vertically challenged. All you have to do is feel good about yourself and maybe learn a few techniques in the art of body language.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">We all know that men are visual but most women typically are not. Many women recognize that when we get older and we are sitting on the porch swing with the man of our dreams it is not his looks that keep us interested, it is his character. Looks can fade but the make up of a persons character is what we are left with in the end. All I can tell you is that you may win us over with confidence more so then you would with that perfectly sculpted body and it is that confidence that will keep us around.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So take a look in the mirror guys. Don\'t ignore what you see because there is always room for improvement but understand, it is not what you see that really matters. It is how you exude that confidence and it will win us over just about every time!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">And by the way... we also dig nerds but that is a blog for another day!</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Denise Levy, BSW specializes in the art and science of getting you out of your own way! Denise graduated from University of West Florida with her degree in social work and is a Certified Life Coach &amp; Professional Matchmaker with over 20 years experience.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For more information and to receive your free Life Balance Workbook visit&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.deniselevybsw.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://www.DeniseLevyBSW.com</a>&nbsp;or to submit your confidential profile for matchmaking visit&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.matchmakergulfcoast.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https://www.MatchMakerGulfCoast.com</a></p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Denise_Levy/294753\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Denise_Levy/294753</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1756, 'Victoria Milan: World\'s No1 Discreet, Affair & Married Dating Site', 'victoria-milan-world-s-no1-discreet-affair-and-married-dating-site', 0, '2022-12-15 22:30:43', '2022-12-15 22:30:43', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Victoria Milan: World\'s No1 Discreet, Affair &amp; Married Dating Site</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Shalini M\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\" rel=\"author\">Shalini M</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On December 30, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10400042&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you are thinking of starting a new relationship, you are on the right page. Victoria Milan is one of the best affairs and married dating sites. On this platform, you can look for your desired partner for a long-lasting relationship. Therefore, if you are a desperate man and want to look for your desired partner as soon as possible, you can check out Victoria Milan. Let\'s check out what this site offers.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>PROS:</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ul style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Registration is free and easy</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The interface is user friendly</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Setting up the profile is a piece of cake</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Country and area-specific dating locations</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<strong>Pricing Packages</strong>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ul style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">3 Months</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Premium</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">$149.97</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ul style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">6 Months</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Premium</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">$239.94</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ul style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">12 Months</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Premium</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">$359.99</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<strong>Sign up Process</strong>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you want to use the Victoria Milan dating site, you have to go through any easy signup process. This will include mentioning your gender and sexual preferences. The site is open for both single and married women and men.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Other information that you need to provide to sign up is your email address and some other data to get your profile approved. They will send you a special code to finalize their registration process.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Usability</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There is no major difference between this website and the other website you can find on the internet. You can easily use all of the available options. Although there are many sections, the most important one is the one that helps you find your desired partner. All you need to do is choose the relevant criteria. To make the search easier, you need to specify a lot of parameters such as gender and age.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For communication, you can send messages through private chats. Besides, you can send photos and exchange comments. Since the interface is quite user-friendly, using the website is a piece of cake.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Safety</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As far as safety is concerned, the website uses email verification and encryption technology. The management of the website keeps an eye on fake accounts and deletes them as soon as possible. Even if you are a new user, you can report a possible fake account to the customer service of Victoria Milan.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Apart from this, the platform supports a two-factor verification system. Plus, they don\'t share users\' personal data with third parties. Therefore, your personal information is completely in good hands. You can press the panic button to leave the website right away if someone is around you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Therefore, you don\'t need to worry about the safety aspect of this dating and affair website. The website will maintain your anonymity no matter what.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Final Thoughts</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Long story short, the features of this affair and dating website are just wonderful. It is a secure and modern platform that helps people find their desired partners. The platform helps you look for a partner from your own city or state. The customer support is quite responsive and resolves issues as soon as possible. Once you overcome the technical difficulties, you will be able to get the most out of this platform. You can choose your desired membership plan based on your budget and personal preferences.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Victoria Milan Com [https://victoriamilancom.com/] is on the list of best affair websites. It\'s is as good as Heated Affairs Com [https://heatedaffairscom.com/], which is another ideal platform.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1757, 'Tinder - The New Norms of Online Dating', 'tinder-the-new-norms-of-online-dating', 0, '2022-12-15 22:31:28', '2022-12-15 22:31:28', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Tinder - The New Norms of Online Dating</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Shalini M\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\" rel=\"author\">Shalini M</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On December 30, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -44px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Linkedin\" /></a><a style=\"color: #a30006; width: 20px; height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Reddit\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10400030&amp;site=reddit\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite reddit-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -22px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Reddit\" /></a><a style=\"color: #a30006; width: 20px; height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10400030&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Tinder is one of the most popular names in the world of online dating and affairs. On this platform, you can find thousands of eligible singles with who you can get in touch. You can use the basic version free of charge. This well-built website is full of entertainment and allows you to swipe on for as long as you want. Let\'s get into details.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Getting Started With Tinder</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Although tinder is compatible with both desktop PC and smartphones, it is designed for Android and IOS specifically. You can log in via your Facebook account, but you also have the freedom to complete the verification process through your mobile phone.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">First of all, you need to provide your basic information, such as email, gender, age, and name. Plus, you will need to pass the captcha test. You will get browser notifications about new matches.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The paid version of the app offers several different plans. For example, you can choose from Tinder gold and Tinder Plus. Apart from this, there are Super Likes and Boosts. The platform allows you to choose your current location as your swipe location.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you want to look for casual matches, you can use the search function. There is a work mode function in the desktop version. It makes the interface just like the Google doc, which is why you won\'t get busted when someone is around you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Premium Extras</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">At first, it may be a bit difficult for you to understand Tinder gold and Tinder Plus. The reason is that many of the things are available for free, unlike other similar platforms. If you go for Tinder Plus, you will enjoy limitless likes and limitless reminds. Besides, you will get a monthly free boost and the freedom to swipe around this amazing world.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Apart from this, you can disable ads and only allow a specific group of people to see you. Besides, Tinder gold allows you a bit more freedom. It allows you to see some of the members that you already matched with prior to swiping and providing you complete access to the top picks.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It is easy to understand the function of Boost and Super Likes. If you go for Boosts, they will improve your visibility. On the other hand, Super Likes make you look more charming. The good thing about Tinder is that it provides you with a couple of Super Likes on a daily basis about a charge. However, Boosts are available only if you are ready to pay.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The monthly subscription fees of Tinder Gold and Tinder plus are $29.99 and $19.99 respectively. However, if you choose to make a longer commitment, you may get a discount. The cost of one boost is $3.99 and the cost of super likes is $0.99 for a set of 5.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>The Takeaway</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In short, if you are looking for a lasting commitment, we suggest that you give a go to Tinder. Tinder offers just what it says and helps you find the date you desire. It offers tons of fun and provides the desired results.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Tinder Sign Up [https://tindersignup.com/] can help you establish a lasting relationship with your desire person. Another platform called Be Naughty Dating site [https://benaughtydatingsite.com/] serves the same purpose.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1758, 'Sugar Daddy Meet - No1 Upscale Sugar Daddy Dating Site for Seeking', 'sugar-daddy-meet-no1-upscale-sugar-daddy-dating-site-for-seeking', 0, '2022-12-15 22:32:29', '2022-12-15 22:32:29', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Sugar Daddy Meet - No1 Upscale Sugar Daddy Dating Site for Seeking</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Shalini M\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\" rel=\"author\">Shalini M</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On December 30, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10400027&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">SugarDaddyMeet is your best affair and dating website if you are looking for a platform designed for older men that are seeking sugar babies to engage in an affair discreetly. In exchange, the sugar girl will get some financial support. In this review article, we are going to take a closer look at the features of the platform and the prices structure. Let\'s find out more.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Paid Profile vs free profile</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">SugarDaddyMeet provides a lot of options, but some of the features are available only to paid numbers. Let\'s take a look at what the free and paid membership plans have to offer:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Free Membership</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ul style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Respond to messages</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Request to view albums</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Place comments or like photos</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Adding to the favourite list</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Sending winks</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<strong>Paid Membership</strong>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ul style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Use the chat feature</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">View user login details</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Availability of Advanced search filters</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Send messages</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<strong>Types of Membership</strong>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You can sign up for a membership plan that can last between 1 and 6 months. The one-month membership plan will renew automatically unless you choose to turn off the billing. If you are using an iOS smartphone, you will have to cancel the membership. The subscription fee for 1 month 3 months and 6 months are $50, $90, and $144</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Membership Structure</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Based on the statistics, most users of the website are younger women.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ul style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Most of the members are 35 years old</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">70% of the male users are at least 45 years old</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Half of the female users are below the age of 34 years</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<strong>Registration Process</strong>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Unlike other dating and affair websites, SugarDaddyMeet has a somewhat different registration process. You will be required to offer a valid mobile phone number. Below is the description of the entire sign up process:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Signing Up</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You will sign up as a sugar daddy or a sugar baby. Besides, you will need to provide your residence location and age. For verification, you will need to provide a valid phone number. They will send you a code to confirm your phone number.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">After phone verification, you will need to provide your personal information, such as your ethnicity, height, weight, and partner preferences. Your next step is to write a few lines about yourself and the type of partner you are looking for. Lastly, you will need to provide a few of your photos.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Navigation</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The navigation of the website is quite easy. You can easily check out your favourite list and chat with new users.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Profile</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">SugarDaddyMeet puts a lot of emphasis on user profiles. For instance, if your profile does not have enough information, it may be banned due to suspicion. This is the reason all of the profiles on the platform are legitimate and detailed.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ul style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Pros of SugarDaddyMeet</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Free of charge reply to messages</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Free of charge sending of winks</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Adding your desired members to the favourite list</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">An easy to use chat room</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">More than 1.9 million sugar babies</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Suspension of low quality and fake profiles</li>\r\n</ul>\r\nSo, this is a brief review SugarDaddyMeet. If you are a sugar daddy looking for a sugar baby, you can check out this platform.\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Sugar Daddy meet [http://sugardaddysmeet.com/] is your best platform if you are looking for a Sugar Baby. As an alternative, you can try out Well Hello Com [https://wellhellocom.com/].</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1759, 'RSVP Dating Site - Australia\'s Most Trusted Dating Site for Serious Singles', 'rsvp-dating-site-australia-s-most-trusted-dating-site-for-serious-singles', 0, '2022-12-15 22:32:51', '2022-12-15 22:32:51', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">RSVP Dating Site - Australia\'s Most Trusted Dating Site for Serious Singles</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Shalini M\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\" rel=\"author\">Shalini M</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On December 30, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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You can try both the mobile and desktop version of the platform. It has all the features offered by other platforms of the same sort. No matter which age range you fall in, you can start a meaningful relationship with your desired partner through this platform. This dating site was launched in 1997 on Valentine\'s Day. Today it has millions of members from across the continent. Every month, more than 30000 new members sign up with the platform. Let\'s find out more.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Free Services and Paid Services</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">With the free membership, you can check out the website and send a type of notification called a \"kiss\" to another member of the platform to find out if they are interested in you. Free members can reply to emails. However, they are not allowed to send emails.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you are a paid member, you can use the chat function of the website and send emails as well. With premium membership, you can use all of the features and control the visibility of your profile. For example, you can keep your profile private and filter out messages.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Membership Structure</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As far as the membership structure is concerned, the ratio of men and women on this platform is 50/50. The age range of the users is between 18 and 55 years. Most of the users fall in the range of 35 and 44.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Registration</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Given below is the description of the sign-up process. All you need to do is follow the steps given below.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">1. Open the mobile app for dating website</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">2. Fill in the registration form for providing required details, such as your location, sex, age, etc.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">3. This step will ask you a couple of questions regarding your desired partner and your marital status</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">4. This step requires you to upload your real photo and update the profile with your required info</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">5. Once you have updated all the steps given above, you need to e start using the website for free of charge</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>User-Friendliness</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Even if you are a beginner, you will find that the website is quite easy to use. You just need to install the app on your Android and iOS.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>The RSVP Dating App</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The mobile version of the platform is as easy to use as the desktop version. So, you can register on the platform using your mobile phone as well. You can send messages, check out a lot of profiles and create your profile on your phone. So, managing your account is easy as long as you are connected to the Internet. This Millennial-friendly website is easy to use for everyone.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Contacting Users</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Making contact is quite easy. you just need to send a \"kiss\" to another member to find out if they are interested in you. Once they send you a kiss back, you can send private messages to them. however, you will need to purchase stamps to do that. You need one stamp for one message. But you will get a refund if they don\'t respond to your message within 30 days.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Pros</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ul style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Easy to use interface and user-friendliness</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Detailed profiles that display a lot of information regarding the member</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The operators provide an amazing online experience and all of the profiles are genuine</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">They allow you to make changes to your profile anytime</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The mobile version of the app is easy to use</li>\r\n</ul>\r\nRSVP Dating Site is your best bet if you are looking for a good dating website to start you dating experience.\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Are you looking for a dating site? If so, you can check out RSVP dating site [https://rsvpdatingsite.com/]. Besides, Coffee Beets Bagel Com [https://coffeemeetsbagelcom.com/] is also a good choice.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1760, 'Mingle2 - Free Hook-Up Dating Site & Chat App for Singles', 'mingle2-free-hook-up-dating-site-and-chat-app-for-singles', 0, '2022-12-15 22:33:10', '2022-12-15 22:33:10', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Mingle2 - Free Hook-Up Dating Site &amp; Chat App for Singles</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Shalini M\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\" rel=\"author\">Shalini M</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On December 30, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -44px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Linkedin\" /></a><a style=\"color: #a30006; width: 20px; height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Reddit\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10400012&amp;site=reddit\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite reddit-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -22px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Reddit\" /></a><a style=\"color: #a30006; width: 20px; height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10400012&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Mingle2 was developed in 2008. This free dating website was known as JustSayhi in the beginning. The platform gets more than 3 million visitors on a daily basis. Besides, this platform enjoys a growing community. The registration process does not take more than 30 seconds and the user interface is quite simple, which is why even beginners can get used to the site pretty quickly. Most of the features are available free of charge. Let\'s get into details.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Member Structure</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Mingle2 has a simple members structure. You have to fill out a form to create your personal profile. The platform has more than 12 million members from across the globe and most of the members are male. There are at least 150000 users from the United States. The mobile version of the platform has more than 5 million downloads. The platform also encourages gay singles to sign up.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Signing Up at Mingle2</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The registration process does not take more than 30 seconds. You only need to provide some fundamental information about yourself without worrying about any personality test. You can sign up using your Facebook account or email address. You are required to upload at least one of your photos. But you are free to add more photos later on.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">After you have gone through the registration process, match suggestions will appear on your account page. Apart from your email, there is no other authenticity verification. Therefore, you may find a lot of fake profiles on the platform.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Getting in touch on Mingle2</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There is no limit to communication between members on this platform. The search results display members who are online. Mingle2 will send notifications to the members whose profile you have viewed. Members who have viewed your profile can be added as a friend or a favorite contact.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Mingle2 also has a forum where members are quite active. So far, the forum has received more than 6 million messages. There is no fee for sending messages to other members. You also have a chat room on the platform to communicate with other members.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Mingle2 Profile Quality</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Creating the profile is quite straightforward and the entire process won\'t take more than 4 simple steps. You can use a made-up user name rather than your real name for privacy reasons. There is no limit to the number of photos you can upload. Your friend list will be shown on your profile publicly.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Other members of the platform can view your photos without paying any fees. You can also view their photos for free. There is no profile testing system to verify the profiles of members. Besides profiles don\'t offer a lot of information about the user. Plus, these pictures can be viewed by others for free of charge.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Mingle2 App</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Just like the website version of the platform, the app is free to use. Profiles that show up on top of the search results can be a good choice to look for your desired match. The navigation of the chat system is quite easy if you are using the app.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You can enable push notifications for matches, friend requests, nudges, and messages. The mobile app has a lot of ads that can be annoying sometimes.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Design and Usability</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The design of the app is very simple. But accessing all the functions and features is quite easy. So, as far as design and usability are concerned, you won\'t have any problem with mingle2.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Mutual Match</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Mutual match is one of the fundamental matching systems of Mingle2. Basically, it makes some random profile recommendations. If you take the recommendation, mingle2 will send a notification to them that someone is interested in them. However, they will not reveal your identity. Your identity will be revealed only when they like you back. This is how a mutual match happens on Mingle2.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In short, this was a basic review of Mingle2, which is one of the best affair and dating websites out there.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Mingle2 Login [https://mingle2-login.com/] can be your best dating site if you are looking to start an affair today. Another great platform is Hit We Dating site [https://hitwedatingsite.com/].</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1761, 'Hinge: The Ultimate Dating App Designed to Be Deleted', 'hinge-the-ultimate-dating-app-designed-to-be-deleted', 0, '2022-12-15 22:33:28', '2022-12-15 22:33:28', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Hinge: The Ultimate Dating App Designed to Be Deleted</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Shalini M\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\" rel=\"author\">Shalini M</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On December 30, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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It was started in 2012 and went through rebranding after 3 years. The unique feature of this app is that it is designed to be deleted once the user has found a match. If you are tired of swiping profiles, we suggest that you check out this app instead.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Member Structure</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Most of the members of the app are from the United States. Apart from this, half of the users of the app are men. As far as the age range is concerned, most users of the app are between the age of 24 and 32. So, the users are looking to develop a serious relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Making Contact</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Once you have become a member of this app, you can use all of the contacting features, such as sending messages, likes, and comments. And the good thing is that you don\'t have to pay anything to use these features.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">However, you can also go for a premium plan that requires a subscription. Once you have this subscription plan, you can get limitless likes. With the regular package, you are limited to send only 10 likes per day.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Sending Likes</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You want to send a Like, all you need to do is tap the heart button on their profile. You can like their photo or written answers. You can also add a comment and like it in order to initiate a conversation.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Matchmaking</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The app shows the profiles of the recommended matches via a roulette-like style. Moreover, if you tap the X button rather than send a like, you will get another profile recommendation. If you give someone a like and they send you like to, you will get a notification.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Sending Messages</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The application does not charge a fee for sending messages. Another good thing is that there is no limit to sending messages. However, sending messages will only work in case of mutual matches. After the successful match with another user, you can start sending messages via the messaging tab. But keep in mind that only text messages are allowed. You cannot send photos.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Profile Quality</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">During the account creation process, the profiles display the agreed information on your profile. This includes photos, written answers and personal details on the profile. All you need to do is scroll down to check out every photo and other information about the member.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Design and Usability</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Hinge was redesigned after its acquisition by the Match Group. After the redesigning, the design became much better and appealing to the users. The clear interface and vibrant colors of the app help attract the attention of possible matches.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As a matter of fact, the design promotes fundamental features. Apart from this, you can also find lively illustrations instead of real people photos and advertisements from Hinge.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In short, it is quite easy to use Hinge. You can use the main interface of the app to access all the features. At the bottom, you can find Tabs where you can get notifications about new interactions.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you are looking for the&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://www.openpr.com/news/2196044/the-ultimate-hinge-dating-site-app-review-november-2020/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Hinge dating app</a>&nbsp;review, you can check out this&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://hingedatingsite.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Hinge Dating app</a>&nbsp;platform.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1762, 'Gleeden - The Best Extra Marital Discreet Dating Site Prepared by Women', 'gleeden-the-best-extra-marital-discreet-dating-site-prepared-by-women', 0, '2022-12-15 22:33:56', '2022-12-15 22:33:56', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Gleeden - The Best Extra Marital Discreet Dating Site Prepared by Women</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Shalini M\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\" rel=\"author\">Shalini M</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On December 30, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -44px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Linkedin\" /></a><a style=\"color: #a30006; width: 20px; height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Reddit\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10400003&amp;site=reddit\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite reddit-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -22px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Reddit\" /></a><a style=\"color: #a30006; width: 20px; height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10400003&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Gleeden is one of the best dating websites for married people. This platform is operated by a women team that encourage others to engage in extramarital affairs discreetly. Today, the website has more than 6.8 million members from across the globe. The four core values of the platform include freedom, quality, anonymity and security. Let\'s find out more.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>How Does Gleeden Work?</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As far as functionality is concerned, there is not much difference between Gleeden and other platforms. However, it does offer a few unique aspects and features. The private messaging or chat system allows you to send a message to initiate a conversation. Women are allowed to post a message for free, but men can only start a conversation if they pay for at least 5 credits.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Registration</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The signup process is quick and free. However, the website suggests that you don\'t provide your personal details, especially the information that can reveal your identity. All you need to do is choose a username, give your gender, and choose the gender you are looking for. But you have to mention the country of your residence.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">After you have provided the required details, you will be taken to the next page where you will be asked to provide some personal information, such as your email address, city, date of birth and password.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Design And Usability</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The website has a user-friendly design that provides the ultimate experience for all of the members. The platform makes use of boxes in order to organise all the sections for an enhanced overall experience. Some of the primary features offered by Gleeden are listed below:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Gleeden news: This action allows the Gleeden community to exchange news and other content.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Panic button: This button allows you to get out of the platform to your desired website right away</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Virtual gifts: This feature increases your chances of having a face to face meeting with your desired contact</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>The Mobile Application</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you want to use the platform on your smartphone, you need to download the app version of the platform. This app supports both iOS and Android. Although the application does not have the additional features, it is important to note that it is always up to date.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Safety &amp; Security</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Safety and security of its members are of paramount importance in the eyes of Gleedan. The website monitors profiles and photos on a regular basis. The anonymity guidelines are quite strict and your photos will be accessed by only those that have your permission. According to company rules and regulations, you cannot reveal your real name or other personal information while signing up on the platform.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Besides, in your financial statement, the company will use a different name in order to maintain privacy. If you find that someone is violating the terms and conditions, you can report them to the moderators.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Pricing And Benefits</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Unlike other platforms, Gleeden does not offer long term contracts. They will charge you for the credits that you will need to use. But the good news is that women don\'t have to purchase any credits. Once you have purchased credits, you can use virtual gifts, send messages, or use the chat feature. But you can still use some of the features without making any payment. Listed below are the four types of credit packs that you can choose from:</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Discovery Pack:&nbsp;</strong>25 credits</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Seduction Pack:&nbsp;</strong>100 credits</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Temptation Pack:&nbsp;</strong>400 credits</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Pros</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ul style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Free for women</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Attractive design</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">An inexpensive Credit System</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">No requirement to purchase credits</li>\r\n</ul>\r\nIn short, if you are a women and looking to engage in an extramarital affair, you can check out Gleedan.\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Gleeden com [https://gleedencom.com/] is one of the best extramarital affair websites out there. Another good name on this list is Red hot Pie login [https://redhotpielogin.com/].</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1763, 'Hily: The World\'s Largest Dating Site & App for Serious Singles', 'hily-the-world-s-largest-dating-site-and-app-for-serious-singles', 0, '2022-12-15 22:35:11', '2022-12-15 22:35:11', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Hily: The World\'s Largest Dating Site &amp; App for Serious Singles</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Shalini M\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\" rel=\"author\">Shalini M</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On December 30, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10399229&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you are looking for the best dating site and app, you can try out Hily. In this review article, we are going to find out some important features of this app for series singles. We will talk about the functionality, cost, advantages and other features of this app. Read on to find out more.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>How Does Hily Work?</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Although there are a lot of similarities between Hily and other apps like this, Hily allows you to check out a lot of short videos. They are like Snapchat stories. As a matter of fact, it is a great alternative to the profiles that you swipe through on other dating sites and apps. Watching videos can save you a lot of time, especially if you don\'t have a lot of spare time to check out hundreds of profiles to find a great match.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Another great thing about Hily is that it sends you a notification when your profile gets a like from someone. This allows you to contact people who are interested in you.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>How Much Does it cost?</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Although you can use and stick to the free version of this app, we suggest that you give a go to the premium version as well. Just like the premium packages of other apps, the paid version of a Hily allows you to enjoy a lot of premium features. Therefore, if you want to enjoy some better parks, we suggest that you upgrade to get a premium package. The premium version is known as Hily Elixir.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It is important to note that if you sign up for the trial version of the app, it will encourage you to go for the most expensive weekly premium package. Therefore, we suggest that you go for a long-term plan, especially if you want to save a lot of money.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Pros of Hilly Dating app</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Catfish free: If you want to get a Hily account, you can link your Snapchat or Facebook account. Other requirements include a scanned copy of your ID card and a live photo. These requirements have to be met in order to keep bots and scammers away from creating profiles on this platform.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Powerful AI: This app makes use of advanced AI in order to determine compatibility and filter out offensive messages. The machine learning system of the platform helps identify users that have similar tastes and interests. If you use this app more frequently, this feature will work much better.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Apart from this, Hily claims that artificial intelligence helps filter out inappropriate messages and pictures.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Good Pictures</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You cannot deny the importance of good pictures as far as creating a profile on dating apps is concerned. If you upload the wrong picture, it will be much harder for you to attract the attention of good matches. In fact, if you get the right picture, it can give a great look to your dating profile.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In short,&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://hilysignin.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Hily sign in</a>&nbsp;has a list of some unique features that you won\'t find in other dating apps. Therefore, you may want to give it a go. Since this is a new app, the user interface will continue to improve with the passage of time. So, we suggest that you try out&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://hinge-datingsite.com/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">hinge dating site</a>.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1764, 'Coffee Meets Bagel - Top 1 Dating Site & App for Professional Singles', 'coffee-meets-bagel-top-1-dating-site-and-app-for-professional-singles', 0, '2022-12-15 22:35:49', '2022-12-15 22:35:49', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Coffee Meets Bagel - Top 1 Dating Site &amp; App for Professional Singles</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Shalini M\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\" rel=\"author\">Shalini M</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On December 30, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -44px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Linkedin\" /></a><a style=\"color: #a30006; width: 20px; height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Reddit\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10399988&amp;site=reddit\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite reddit-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -22px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Reddit\" /></a><a style=\"color: #a30006; width: 20px; height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10399988&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you like the idea of online dating, you are on the right page. Using Coffee Meets Bagel, you can meet your partner effectively, efficiently, and painlessly. This site was introduced in 2012. The creators of the platform are three Sisters, Soo Kang, Dawoon Kang, and Arum Kang from New York City. Their purpose was to attract the attention of young professionals who are too busy to find a partner. Plus, they wanted to create a safer space for women to look for a date. So far, Coffee Meets Bagel has been quite successful and the owners turned down an offer of 30 million dollars from Mark Cuban. Let\'s find out more about this app.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Special Features of Coffee Meets Bagel</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There are three guiding principles behind Coffee Meets Bagel. The first principle is that the app will maintain your privacy unless you want to disclose it to someone. The second principle is that your friends are the most suitable choice to become your partner. The third principle is that meeting the most suitable people should be easy and straight forward.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">CBD makes use of your social circle in order to suggest matches. Females get 5 matches on a daily basis. Men are allowed to check out 21 matches on a daily basis. Users get a notification at 12:00 p.m. about their suggested matches. So, \\they don\'t have to swipe and scan hundreds of profiles for hours to find a good match.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">CMB encourages users to register with their Facebook profiles. The platform uses its algorithms for scanning the social circles of users to find compatible matches. Typically, they are friends of friends on Facebook. If you sign up with your phone number, the app will use your location and partner preferences to suggest a good match.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Once you get your Suggested Bagels (possible matches), you can comment, pass or like. You can make the decision until the next day. If you choose to like, they will be able to see your profile. In case of a mutual like, they will connect you through a private chat and the conversation will begin from there. The comment option gives you the freedom to send a message to the possible match and you don\'t even have to like their profile.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you don\'t like a Bagel, you can use the discover tab to check out profiles of users that don\'t satisfy your criteria. This action allows you to keep the profile or let it go. This allows you to recommend this Bagel to some of your friends.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You can earn or purchase coffee beans. If you want to earn them, you have to do different types of tasks. For example, you can invite your friends to sign up, follow the social media page of the company, and so on. With Beans, you can unlock the special features of the app. But the good thing is that the app is totally free to use.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Advantages of Coffee Meets Bagel</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<ul style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; list-style-position: inside;\">\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Coffee Meets Bagel is female friendly</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Better matches because of linked Facebook account</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Access to the full functionality of the app for free</li>\r\n<li style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Active members</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<strong>The Bottom Line</strong>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">&nbsp;</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">So, this was a brief review of coffee meets Bagel. If you\'re looking for a date, we suggest that you sign up on this platform today.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Coffee Meets Bagel dating site [https://coffeemeetsbageldatingsite.com] is one of the top dating sites and apps for professional singles. It is the inner circle dating [https://theinnercircledating.com/] site most people are on the lookout for.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1765, 'Bumble Dating Site-A Smart Choice to Find Wealthy Men', 'bumble-dating-site-a-smart-choice-to-find-wealthy-men', 0, '2022-12-15 22:36:24', '2022-12-15 22:36:24', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">Bumble Dating Site-A Smart Choice to Find Wealthy Men</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author Shalini M\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\" rel=\"author\">Shalini M</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On December 30, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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height: 20px; position: relative; text-decoration-line: none; margin: 7px 3px 0px; float: left;\" title=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/share/?id=10399973&amp;site=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img class=\"site-sprite pinterest-icon\" style=\"border: 0px solid #cccccc; background: url(\'//img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/theme/desk/site-v10.png\') -65px -98px no-repeat; height: 20px; width: 20px; border-radius: 2px; opacity: 1; box-shadow: #999999 1px 1px 2px inset;\" src=\"https://img.ezinearticles.com/spriting/trans.gif\" alt=\"Share this article on Pinterest\" /></a></div>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Bumble is a popular dating app that is the brainchild of Whitney Wolfe, the Tinder co-founder. The purpose of introducing this app is to reinvent the rules of dating and give more power to women so that they could control the conversation in their professional and personal lives. The app is designed to create positivity and encouragement through kindness-guided actions. Let\'s find out more about this app.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>First Move</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Wolfe\'s first move was to change the conventional dating norms. According to the rules, only female users are allowed to make the first move. Therefore, there are very low reports of abuse and harassment on the platform.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>New Standards</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Besides, this platform has established new standards for good behavior to make sure all of the users of the app feel safe and secure. So, those shirtless mirror selfies are not allowed on the platform. There is a system of photo verification in place to make sure there is a real person behind the photo. Plus, there are time limitations on communication.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Heterosexual Matches</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As far as heterosexual matches are concerned, women have up to 24 hours to contact their desired match. Similarly, men have 24 hours to give a response. In homosexual matches, both men and women have 24 hours to contact each other before the expiry of the connection. As soon as a message has been exchanged or a video call made, the connection won\'t expire anymore. The time restrictions are there to help the users take their relationship to the next level.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>Free to use Features</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Most of the features of the app are free to use. If you want to get started, you can either install the app or check out their website. You can use your Facebook account or personal phone number to register with the app. Uploading photos, editing your profile, and setting the parameters of the search filter can be done on your mobile.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In 2016, the paid service of Bumble was announced. It is called Bumble post and offered 3 premium features. These features are called the Beeline, Rematch, and Busy Bee. The Beeline feature allows you to check out who liked you. Rematch gives a second chance to contact the expired matches. The last feature allows you another 24 hours.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Although bumble was launched in 2014, the app became quite popular among all types of users. This platform allows singles to meet their desired partner. People can meet their friends and business partners as well. In 2016, Bumble introduced Bumble BFF to help people connect with their new friends across the city. Soon, the Bumble started to encourage business networking as well. The good thing is that the app allows you to switch between different modes.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In short, this was a brief review of Bumble dating site. This platform can help women look for wealthy men of their choice. If you are a women looking for a partner, we suggest that you check this site out, and you won\'t regret your decision.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The bumble dating site [https://bumble-datingsite.com/] is a great eharmony dating site [https://eharmonydatingsite.com/] that can help women look for their desired wealthy men. You can check it out today.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Shalini_M/2609777</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1766, 'The 9 Mistakes To Avoid In A Relationship', 'the-9-mistakes-to-avoid-in-a-relationship', 0, '2022-12-15 22:36:44', '2022-12-15 22:36:44', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">The 9 Mistakes To Avoid In A Relationship</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author John Efetobor\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/John_Efetobor/239441\" rel=\"author\">John Efetobor</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On December 17, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author John Efetobor\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/John-Efetobor_188023.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author John Efetobor\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">\"No, we can\'t go on like this.\" If you say or hear this phrase a good dozens of times in relation to your most-of-everything or his mouth, it means that something is not right. The relationship certainly does not go from strength to strength and, with each passing day, for sure that bad habits made your union just... wither! So that this doesn\'t happen, here are several pieces of advice: avoid the 9 mistakes that undermine any relationship!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>1. Not Sharing Quality Time</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If there is anything essential to making a relationship work, it is the time you spend together. Dedicating part of your life to friends and family is completely normal, but you should not neglect your partner. It is important that you find the perfect balance. Furthermore, and contrary to what many couples think, watching television together, for example, does not mean that they are, in fact, spending time with each other and enjoying time with each other. Marital interaction is important in the dynamics of love.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>2. Let The Charm Fade</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">As the relationship progresses in time, the compliments fade until they are practically nonexistent. It is true that the relationship has grown, each one knows the best and the worst of the other and they are more than sure of the future and the path they will have to travel together, but this does not mean that they do not have to remember certain things to each other - like that color that suits you or how beautiful your green eyes are - little treats that help the day pass more easily and, of course, with a smile from ear to ear. The opposite will only cause damage - even if small - in the couple\'s heart and will make the routine become a sad companion for both.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>3. Not Knowing How To Listen</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Communication is vital in a happy relationship. But understand that communicating is not just talking. It is also to listen passively. It is essential and fundamental. However, your partner often needs your opinion, so listening passively is not nodding, nodding, nodding! Concentrate on the moment and dedicate that time to your partner. Poor or deficient communication creates conflicts that are difficult to resolve and overcome.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>5. Permanent Complaints</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Constructive criticism is always welcome - not only in a loving relationship, but also in all types of relationships. But be careful! They can easily cross the \"line\" and move from constructive criticism to malicious and constant criticism. This is something that wears off any relationship, rather than making it grow and evolve in a healthy and strong way.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>6. Try To Mold The Other To Our Image And Likeness</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The pair doesn\'t have to be or do what you want! There are always certain characteristics in the other that we can only accept, without trying to shape our way. Focus on making your behavior and temperament better and that will be a much more attractive incentive than the strength of stubbornness. And so it may be that your most-of-everything changes for you and becomes, in your eyes, even better.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>7. Avoid Problems And Discussions</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Discuss, discuss and discuss. Is it something you do regularly? The solution is dialogue. Many couples make the serious mistake of pretending to agree on a particular issue when, in fact, they are not. By not talking about the problems, then the dreaded discussions are avoided. This attitude is not good for your relationship, as, over time, this will cause resentment to grow in you visibly and without control. The best you can do is, in fact, talk. Face your problems and differences with maturity and share your feelings with each other, without reservation.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>8. Promises, Promises</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The basis of any relationship is trust, so please promise. Promise what you can keep. Be realistic and prudent. Lie crumples delivery. Creases love.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>9. Putting Peer Loyalty To The Test</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Surely it crossed your mind already? Do not test the love of others! The loyalty of the other, the loyalty of the other... It will affect your confidence, the confidence of the person who is by your side and will not solve any problem.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Stop this kind of behavior! Avoid this type of behavior! And believe that your relationship, with your partner, will improve with the application of this advice!</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">John Efetobor is a \"Relationship &amp; Health Expert.\" He provides content to thousands of relationship and health enthusiasts across the world, with over two decades of hands-on and proven experience...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Visit [https://relationshipcry.com] for more insights</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/John_Efetobor/239441\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/John_Efetobor/239441</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1767, '10 Creative Ways You Can Improve Your Relationship!', '10-creative-ways-you-can-improve-your-relationship', 0, '2022-12-15 22:37:05', '2022-12-15 22:37:05', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">10 Creative Ways You Can Improve Your Relationship!</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author John Efetobor\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/John_Efetobor/239441\" rel=\"author\">John Efetobor</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On December 17, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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max-width: 160px; display: block;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author John Efetobor\" src=\"https://ezinearticles.com/members/mem_pics/John-Efetobor_188023.jpg\" alt=\"Expert Author John Efetobor\" /></a></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-body\" style=\"font-size: 1.2em; margin-top: 18px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<div id=\"article-content\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Love is always the biggest story. But sometimes, by itself, it is not enough. It is necessary that the two people commit themselves and take responsibility for the relationship. Both must be invested. It is, at the same time, the hardest and easiest thing in the world. Today we tell you then what are the 10 things that, in addition to love, are indispensable to any happy relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>1. Trust</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Controlling the person we love does not bring us closer to him. On the contrary. It is necessary to trust that we are your choice, to trust that we are important, to trust in the love that you give us (and that we give back). Trust, in short, the love that binds us to that person. This means not letting ourselves be overcome by concerns that, when unfounded and illogical, gradually erode love.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>2. Friendship</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You have certainly heard that the greatest love stories were born out of friendships. True or not, the fact is that the friendship and affection that we feel for our better half is the basis of all the relationship we have with her.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>3. Commitment</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The success of a relationship depends directly on how much the two parties are invested in it. Your relationship must be your priority, invest in it and invest your time, energy, effort. That way, your better half will know that it is important in your life.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>4. Communication</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Talking is necessary. Listening is necessary. The happiest relationships are those in which the two parties put aside fears and modesty and speak openly about what worries them and what motivates them. The passive-aggressive attitude of waiting for the other person to know what we want (because it is their obligation to know) is halfway to disagreements and frustrations.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>5. Respect</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Because there is no love without respect. Yes, I do. Passion, maybe. But love? Loving implies respecting the other person. Understand it and respect it for what it is. Its truth is not absolute. Neither does the way you see the world. It is necessary to respect the differences as much (or more) as it respects the similarities.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>6. Acceptance</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Your better half is not perfect. It is full of small (and delicious) imperfections. You will have defects that will bother you and addictions that will make you anxious. It\'s part of it. You have to accept the person as a whole. If there is a characteristic in the other person that you do not imagine living with (and that you will hardly accept, even if you say otherwise), the relationship is more likely to be \'doomed\' and that, sooner or later, will end. But not before a good deal of frustration!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>7. Admiration</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Loving someone you admire is the greatest luck of all. The admiration we feel towards the loved one is the feeling that drives us to plan a life for two, to want to be part of that person\'s life and to be proud to have it in ours.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>8. Loyalty</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Yes, the concept of what constitutes infidelity varies from couple to couple. The important thing is that they both respect the \'rules\'. Loyalty is nothing more than respect for the person we have agreed to make a priority in our lives. If you have doubts about your own behavior, just think \"if it were me, how would I react?\".</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>9. Forgiveness</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Your better half will fail. Not always, but sometimes. It will disappoint you, have attitudes that sadden you, you will even be able to make it furious. And if you do, you need to know how to give your forgiveness when it is asked (and deserved). Get rid of resentments and forgive. That way you will feel the true extension of love, which so often leads us to put someone\'s feelings above ours.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>10. Common experiences</strong></p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When we love someone we want to be part of their life and we want that person to be part of ours. Sharing experiences and tastes is a way to involve someone in our world. Activities for two are therefore essential, whether they are unique adventures or mundane everyday things.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It seems simple. And is!</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">John Efetobor is a \"Relationship &amp; Health Expert.\" He provides content to thousands of relationship and health enthusiasts across the world, with over two decades of hands-on and proven experience...</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Visit [https://relationshipcry.com] for more insights</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/John_Efetobor/239441\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/John_Efetobor/239441</a></p>\r\n</div>');
INSERT INTO `blogs` VALUES (1768, 'It\'s Not Only What You Do, But What You Do NOT Do, That Makes You A Good Partner', 'it-s-not-only-what-you-do-but-what-you-do-not-do-that-makes-you-a-good-partner', 0, '2022-12-15 22:37:25', '2022-12-15 22:37:25', '<div id=\"article-title\" style=\"margin-top: -40px; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\r\n<h1 style=\"margin: 2em 0px 5px 8px; padding: 0px 100px 0.2em 0px; font-size: 2.2em; font-weight: 500; text-shadow: #cccccc 2px 2px 3px; border: 0px none;\">It\'s Not Only What You Do, But What You Do NOT Do, That Makes You A Good Partner</h1>\r\n</div>\r\n<p class=\"by-line\" style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; color: #333333; font-family: \'Avenir Next\', Arial, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; background-color: #ffffff;\"><em>By&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" title=\"EzineArticles Expert Author David Samuel\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/David_Samuel/305858\" rel=\"author\">David Samuel</a><span class=\"author-divider\" style=\"font-size: 18px;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span class=\"submitted-date\">Submitted On December 02, 2020</span></em></p>\r\n<div id=\"article-top-controls-container\" style=\"width: 601.906px; 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The combination and exact percentage mix of the three that makes up 100% of who we are is the infinite possibilities that make each person unique.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">However, we each have one predominant character type which determines how we think and behave, because that filters the events of our life based on that particular point of view.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">An intellectual person will always see things from an intellectual and analytical perspective like an accountant or a lawyer. An emotional person will see things from an artistic or feeling perspective of its beauty or how it affects their five senses. That\'s the artist or the musician. The physical type of person will see things from a more hedonistic, sensual perception like doing physical exercise and how that makes the body feel, their health and sex etc.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Our goal is to be perfectly balanced and all three of these aspect so we can deal with our job, our relationship, and keep our body in excellent physical health while dealing with each situation appropriately as we go through the course of a normal day.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For this lesson, we will discuss the physical and emotional types only, as the intellectual type can fall to either side.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">A person who has a stronger emotional nature will take things personally and will also be very attentive and caring to how they make other people feel. A physically oriented person will generally be more concerned with themselves, their own feelings and their own pleasures while disregarding how their words or actions are affecting other people.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">EQ needs to be developed in all people because the EQ gives one the ability to know how they feel and how their actions will effect other people. The reason we need this, is so that we do not piss anyone off.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">In the newer stages of a relationship, the dating phase where a couple is still getting to know each other, and may have already become intimate, if one is more emotional and the other is more physical, the physical will often make comments about previous partners, usually in reference to sex and their sexual experiences, talking about the sexual attributes and deficiencies of their previous partners, or the number of partners they had.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">They talk about this because being more physical, they are more focused on the physical side of life and the physical pleasure of sex. Sex for them is more a physical act, even though they will also want an emotional connection due to the emotional aspect of their personality, but it will be secondary to the physical pleasure.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The emotional person will be speaking of how they felt and how they were affected emotionally by their previous experiences. They speak about these things because that is their primary focus in life being emotional.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The stronger emotional nature will care more about sex for the emotional connection, and compare themselves to the previous partners in their new partners life. The discussion of previous partners and experiences makes them feel better or worse about themselves and their prospects in the new relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The physical person will start to wonder if their new partner is going to be too high maintenance and emotional about things they find benign.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Almost everyone has a tendency to compare themselves to others, especially when it comes to sex, because that is such a big part of a relationship. Their confidence and desire will either be built or destroyed based on what their partner says, even more than what they do, because everything happens in your mind.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">By setting this emotional foundation, the direction of the relationship will be determined, either it will last or fade away.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You now have enough information to determine what your nature is, based on your actions and feelings. If you determine you are a physical person, you know what pushed away previous dates, and likewise for emotional people.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">I must warn you that often, people think they are one nature but in fact are another, because humans have a big blindspot when it comes to self awareness. So you may want to ask the opinion of your friends and past partners to find out what they think, and please, trust them more than yourself.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Our moods and emotions all begin in our mind based on the information we receive. Information enters our brain through the five senses, and then goes into our mind. We think about the information and then feelings are born from the thoughts. The flaw is that between the time information enters our brain and the thoughts come out from our mind, there will have been a lot of distortion of reality.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The things we say will put thoughts in the other persons mind and based on their primary nature, that will create thoughts and feelings in that person, desire or aversion, confidence or self doubt based on how they distorted the information based on the filter of their personality.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">EQ is being aware of how you make the other person feel.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If one partner is a stronger physical person, which often means a lower EQ, and the other is more emotional which usually means they are more emotionally sensitive, but does not necessarily mean they have a healthy EQ, meaning balanced emotions, that usually means that eventually the physical person will say things that hurt the emotional one because the lack of EQ means they will not consider how what they take as normal and nothing of emotional value will effect the other person.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Their lack of EQ and consideration for others can hurt their relationships in work or plutonic relationships as well but of course will be more impactful on a love relationship because that relationship is mainly built on the desire for sex as a big part of why couples get together.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Like it or not, and as much as you would like to say sex is secondary to companionship, the main factor of a loving relationship is the sex life. There is enough evidence in couples, and ex-couples, who are still at a sexually active age, to prove that if there is no or little sex, the relationship is not going well.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If the physical person without a good EQ, ie: consideration and empathy, or thoughtfulness, will say things without thinking about how they effect the other person, who is very sensitive because they are more emotional, they will talk about sex and previous partners casually and show that sex to them is primarily a physical act done for the physical pleasure, while the emotional connection is secondary.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The emotional will also make statements which are hurtful in a different way. In both cases, you can\'t put the toothpaste back in the tube, so it is important to have a healthy EQ so these things do not happen.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The emotional person will be very hurt by talk of past sexual encounters, first because they will always feel inferior and that they are being compared and catalogued, being placed in the memory of their partner as another experience. But the more painful part, albeit sometimes subconsciously, is that they want to have a deep emotional connection during sex and the physical satisfaction, skill, postures, duration etc. is less important as the emotional connection, which of course will be lacking or put as a secondary consideration behind how well the physical performance is.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The result is the emotional person will have a diminishing sexual interest and performance because they are not getting the emotional connection to feeling special and that they are the only one their partner is thinking about, because they know that there is a constant comparison to previous sexual events and partners. Then the physically person will become unsatisfied due to the lack of performance.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">For those of you who have experienced staying with a partner who does not treat you well, and still giving them everything you have, emotionally and financially, this is the reason. You are trying to make yourself worthy of your partner, but have confused your determination of what makes you worthy from emotionally based actions of self sacrifice to what your partner wants which is just better sex. I hate to say it, but if you will allow me to state the obvious, at least in a comparison of men to women, well... that explains a lot.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This will lead to the eventual dissolution of any emotional connection the partners felt.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The best advice is to never speak of any past relationships in any way, sexually or otherwise. Ideally you should both be virgins, but that is highly unlikely, but, we can act like virgins and never speak of the past, as if it never existed. Now you can see why religions say no sex before marriage, because that can mess up a relationship.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This entire concept has nothing to do with gender or sexual preference. It is just about humans. Don\'t just trust me, test it for yourself.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">There is very little past that needs to be brought into the present. You are what you are due to your past, but just be what you are, and leave the past behind as you eat the pizza and toss away the box.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">You can test this, although the test may cause permanent damage, so make this just a thought experiment unless you want to make that event the last one with that partner. Think about being in the process of having sex, and what will happen to the emotional person who is feeling love and closeness to their partner, when their partner says something like; \'Your breasts/penis, is nice but my last partners was really huge.\' Or, \'You are good but wow, have I had some amazing partners in the past, they were really amazing!\'</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This may turn on a physical type of person, who is so sexually oriented that any images of a sexual nature can excite them, regardless of who they are with because they are having sex for their own pleasure and so are more self absorbed and their partner is merely a necessity.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">But the emotional person who is looking for a deep emotional connection so they can lose themselves and find unity with another human being, will feel they are not in their partners mind or heart at all, and so the passion is destroyed.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The solution is to know what not to say and simply, not say it. We could say that the physically person needs to be more emotional and sensitive and say things that encourage the emotional person, but that is a more advanced lesson that comes later. Likewise, the emotional person needs to know what to, or not to say, which is also another topic, so here we will start with the first step, to learn what NOT to say and how to keep your mouth from letting out the words in your head.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">If you have a glass of water, and you leave it on the table and do not touch it, the glass will stay full, but if you knock it over, the glass will become empty as the water spills out. This is what you do with your words, or lack thereof.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">This is why we say, learning NOT to say certain things is more important than knowing what to say, because it creates a feeling of comfort by not creating emotionally destructive feelings.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\"><strong>The exercise</strong>&nbsp;is to learn not to say everything you are thinking. This requires knowing what you are about to say and stopping yourself from saying the wrong things. This exercise is to be practiced 24/7 in every aspect of your life, at work and with friends, family and partner. The more you do it, the quicker you will master it and your entire nature will change to make this wisdom automatic.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">It helps to know the different nature of the person you are with, and speak appropriately. Talking about sex can turn some people on, and others off. Watch for clues, and it\'s pretty obvious when you are passionate and all of a sudden your partner turns cold, or in any conversation on any topic when they are looking at you, then start to drift off and their gaze wanders.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">When that happens, think about what you were just talking about immediately before there was a change in the other persons mood, which actually happens in an instant if you can detect it. If it is something about your previous partners, or sex, or whatever it may be, consider that your partner is not you, and may have different views on that topic, and make sure you never talk about that subject again, or at least in the same circumstances.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">The hard part is to be able to see your thoughts before they become spoken words, so you can prevent thoughts becoming words. But the only method to master this is to practice observing the words that negatively impact anyone you are speaking to in any situation and to reflect immediately on what you said that triggered the negative response.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Eventually you will learn, like a researcher, what topics you currently consider benign which need to be avoided in each circumstance, and at what point, certain things can be brought up.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">We all know what it feels like to say something that hurts our partner, or to be hurt. This is why I say, it\'s not just what you say that makes a person fall in love, but it is more important to know what not to say, because if you compare the time it takes to fill a glass with water, to how long it takes for it to become empty when you knock it over, you will know what\'s the most important quality to make you worthy of keeping a relationship strong without scars and diminishing love.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<div id=\"article-resource\">\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">After decades of helping people resolve their relationship issues, both in current and past relationships, and helping people find that new and lasting love, David Samuel is now available to world, on line, to share his wisdom and experiences.</p>\r\n</div>\r\n<p style=\"margin: 0px 0px 1em; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.5em;\">Article Source:&nbsp;<a style=\"color: #a30006;\" href=\"https://ezinearticles.com/expert/David_Samuel/305858\">https://EzineArticles.com/expert/David_Samuel/305858</a></p>\r\n</div>');
